Preface: Every female in my family is basically a different “flavor” of toxicity, and it ranges from overtly and unabashedly toxic to indirect. It was always just a vortex of drama, emotions, stress, irritation...

Rule 1: Stay Calm. They naturally try to rile you up because that’s when you make mistakes. They’re just females and your visceral response just gives credence to their bullshit. Breathe.

Rule 2: Don’t Give a Shit. If you don’t give a shit what they have to say or care to get involved in their crap, they have no power and will only tie themselves up. It makes it easier to stay calm and they can’t manipulate you. A tertiary rule of thumb for me is keeping in that, best case scenario, 5-10% of what a female says might have some validity and the rest is just silly female nonsense and fucking useless. But that only applies to select females that aren’t completely gone, it’s rare.

Rule 3: Avoid and Ignore as Much as Possible. I’ve always been a more confrontational kind of guy, I don’t like to shy away from conflict, especially when I feel someone’s seriously out of line. That’s all ego. It’s a mistake. Engaging with a female is a waste of time and energy because they know they can do and say whatever they want without consequences, so you end up just standing there looking stupid because you can’t put her ass through the goddamn fish tank or whatever like you would if a male talked to you like that. They’ll just take advantage of it. So nothing ever really gets resolved unless there’s another cognizant male around. Don’t play a game with someone that doesn’t play by the same rules that you do. I don’t care if it’s your little niece or you sweet ol’ Grandmother. Also, never put yourself in a situation where you’re the only masculine entity in the vicinity. Notice how I said “masculine entity” instead of biologically male. It’s the 21st century, having a dick doesn’t make you masculine. I surmise that at least 50% of guys are femme little cucks that will white knight for the rest of the females. Avoid social circles that are female dominated, it’s just not healthy. If you have classic “beta male” friends or family like that, cut them off. Otherwise they’ll be constantly trying to drag you back in. Plus you’re the sum of all your peers.

Rule 4: Don’t Negotiate. Never make any sort of deal with a female. No promises, deals or contracts. Nothing. That obviously includes marriage. Giving a female any sort of power over you is like giving a child an AK-47 to go play with outside.

Rule 5: Make Them Come to You, So You Can Make Them Leave. Your living space needs to be you own, don’t share it with a female. I know that kind of goes without saying here but still. You have to be in control, so females have to come to you. If they come to you, you can control what’s going on and if they get out of hand you can just make them leave. You can’t do that if you share a home. Don’t trap yourself. If you go to them, sure you can just leave but you have no power over the situation so it’s unproductive. And I’m not just talking about flings, family too. If they want your time they can come to you and behave otherwise you can show them the door.