I’m curious how many women have conducted this thought experiment.

Assuming men and women’s role in the dating world were reversed, with men showing mostly indifference or passivity in regards to average members of the opposite sex, and women being expected to lead the actual courting process, how would you handle the following:

  • if it was incumbent on you to charm, impress or otherwise get the attention of a man you were interested in how would you do it?

  • If you were to expected to lead sexual encounter with a passive partner how would you do it?

  • If you were to face rejection 9/10 times in your attempts at the above, how do you feel it would effect your outlook on life and self esteem?