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[–]Deep_StrengthMod | Married | deepstrength.wordpress.com[M] [score hidden] 3 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
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2. ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Mission: Tell us what it is and why you need a woman's help accomplishing it (I'm being serious) Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, memorize Scripture, etc.
2. ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following:
Mission: Tell us what it is and why you need a woman's help accomplishing it (I'm being serious)
Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc.
Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP)
Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues
Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, memorize Scripture, etc.
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Most of your problems probably stem from not doing any of these things. The biggest and most important one of all: you have no mission.
God sent Jesus and His mission was to make disciples of all nations, which He also gave to us. So some things to consider are how are you making disciples? How are you using your gifts of the Spirit in the Church? How are you evangelizing? How are you becoming more spiritually mature? How are you taking the initiative to lead and serve in your Church.
[–]PraexologyEndorsed6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look at Christ's qualities and emulate him. Dutiful, outspoken, justice driven, merciful, tactful, wise, and is unassuming with his power. He doesn't allow his capabilities to get in the way of his relationships and he is the one who has more than any of us - he literally is God.
[–]jazzycoo4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Confidence in what you believe, being able to speak on multiple subjects intellectually and knowing where you stand on issues is a big help. Seek truth and follow where it leads. Asking questions will helo you to open up to people too. People like to talk about themselves and you would be amazed how long of a conversation you can have with someone and never share more than a couple of small details about yourself and learn everything about them. I do this as a game sometimes to see how long I can go without mentioning anything about myself. I think I'm close to 10 minutes if I remember my last time doing that.
In regards to clotges, dress like an adult l, not as a rap/rock star. Find an older man that you respect and ask them to be your mentor. Learn how to manage money well and start looking at ahere you want to be in 5 years, 10 yea rd s, etc. And then set the goals you need to get there. Be prepared for pitfalls and understand that not everything works out as planned, but if you don't stop trying, you can eventually get where you need to be. Learn how to present arguments and viewpoints you believe are true, but also be open to learning from others evaluating whst you hear and making determinations of what is actually true.
But above all, and I can't stress this enough, put God first in all you do. Read every day along with a chapter in Proverbs. When you finish the book of Proverbs, start over and keep going. When you make God the center of your life you will make so many more better choices and will be much wiser beyond your years.
There are books and sites that can help you gain confidence in your viewpoints. Seek them out. A couple are: str.org and coldcasechristianity.com
Thise are a good start to gaining a good Christian perspective in the real world.
Be more concerned with what God wants you to be rather than trying to impress people.
[–]Machete-Rex4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Definitely working out. You’ll start to look and feel better along with having more confidence in yourself. I myself am also an introvert and working out has really helped me to feel more confident and masculine. Also things like having a good style such as clothes and hair.
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