I am so tired of f*ckboys and liars and cheaters. I am so tired of OLD profiles filled with shirtless dirty bathroom selfies and dead deer “trophies” and poorly written paragraphs instructing women on how to behave. I am so tired of men who are entitled and lazy and completely full of it.
I cannot get through 10 minutes of online profiles without seeing “men” with nothing but photos — not one word on their profiles. No effort. Or they have long lists of ridiculous expectations for a potential mate despite being VERY clearly LVM. Or they are semi-literate. Or they’re condescending, misogynistic, just looking for sex, or just...gross.
There are good men out there. But damn. They seem to be far and few between. And I’m really at a point where I’m thinking...should I even f@cking bother dating in my 40s? It is so exhausting.
[–][deleted] 381 points382 points383 points (19 children) | Copy Link
[–]OsamaBenLadleFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]alanonhelp777FDS Newbie[S] 70 points71 points72 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 37 points38 points39 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]Glowtits_FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]Glowtits_FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (3 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]HaltthemoonFDS Apprentice8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]wowthispostissadFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SaremisFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]FuckenWinningFDS Newbie270 points271 points272 points (20 children) | Copy Link
[–]babyturtle1995FDS Newbie61 points62 points63 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]2019istheworstevrFDS Apprentice12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]quaintlyspokenFDS Newbie67 points68 points69 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH30 points31 points32 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]FuckenWinningFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]alanonhelp777FDS Newbie[S] 34 points35 points36 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]FuckenWinningFDS Newbie50 points51 points52 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ms_monquisFDS Disciple7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LizziePeepFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (3 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]FuckenWinningFDS Newbie31 points32 points33 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]nataliajamzFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]OsamaBenLadleFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]9penguinFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]eatchickpeasFDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]etherealmareFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (4 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple12 points13 points14 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]khaleesiqwnFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]lowkeyrebelFDS Newbie127 points128 points129 points (14 children) | Copy Link
[–]alanonhelp777FDS Newbie[S] 137 points138 points139 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]lowkeyrebelFDS Newbie54 points55 points56 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]alanonhelp777FDS Newbie[S] 12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]lowkeyrebelFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]OsamaBenLadleFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]riotous486saturnFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]OsamaBenLadleFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]riotous486saturnFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]classylassy28FDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]wowthispostissadFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]HVM-loving-FDSThrowaway Account1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Whateverrr_345Ruthless Strategist109 points110 points111 points (20 children) | Copy Link
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH53 points54 points55 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Whateverrr_345Ruthless Strategist21 points22 points23 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]hyrulian_spriteFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple6 points7 points8 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (2 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]souadezz0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (6 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]leninleninleninlinenFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 23 points24 points25 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]leninleninleninlinenFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]leninleninleninlinenFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]janeaustenfan99FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]FemclFleshBeckyBonesFDS Disciple64 points65 points66 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]ringringbananarchy00FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]FemclFleshBeckyBonesFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]ringringbananarchy00FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RealDeadKingFDS Newbie66 points67 points68 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 28 points29 points30 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]RealDeadKingFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]RealDeadKingFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]RealDeadKingFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]AmelaniaFDS Newbie67 points68 points69 points (14 children) | Copy Link
[–]Whateverrr_345Ruthless Strategist47 points48 points49 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]MaidenMBFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Whateverrr_345Ruthless Strategist1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]take1990FDS Apprentice27 points28 points29 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]janeaustenfan99FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MaidenMBFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]MaidenMBFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]gothoneybonesFDS Newbie51 points52 points53 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]OsamaBenLadleFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (2 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]kinnnionFDS Disciple12 points13 points14 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]wowthispostissadFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]wowthispostissadFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]tramadolololFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]invenereveritasFDS Newbie45 points46 points47 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 26 points27 points28 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (5 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]WyvernCharmFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]tramadolololFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]FemclFleshBeckyBonesFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]wowthispostissadFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]geishageishageishaThrowaway Account49 points50 points51 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]starvingliveseafood28 points29 points30 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]babyturtle1995FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]bb8-sparklesFDS Newbie62 points63 points64 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]alanonhelp777FDS Newbie[S] 35 points36 points37 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (4 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]bb8-sparklesFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (2 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]flowers4uFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist8 points9 points10 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]alanonhelp777FDS Newbie[S] 4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]agnosticaPhoenixFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]alanonhelp777FDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]agnosticaPhoenixFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]inthelapofthegods_FDS Newbie35 points36 points37 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]blueberry_salsa5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MeredeenFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]mountainsandrocksFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]WyvernCharmFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]mountainsandrocksFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]mountainsandrocksFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]WyvernCharmFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]mountainsandrocksFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]even_thrillerFDS Apprentice4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]AntiCirclesFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Careful-EconomyFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]misskansastFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]alanonhelp777FDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]misskansastFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]SaitschikFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]FemclFleshBeckyBonesFDS Disciple-1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]BlueBlackRedPFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]swiggityswirlsFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MaidenMBFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Uglyoldncranky1982FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SaitschikFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]katattack1982FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]KK6321FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]coffee_now_plz_asapFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]riotous486saturnFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Katt7594At-Risk Pick Me Youth4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]keuna-bbyoda-holsome1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ronnoktheexiled1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (3 children) | Copy Link
[removed]
[–]sweatydeathRuthless Strategist4 points5 points6 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[removed]
[–]sweatydeathRuthless Strategist[M] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Asopaso07FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LulupyFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]LulupyFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (3 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Memory_foamFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]DontHateMasticateFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]tramadolololFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]DontHateMasticateFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ellenthedegenerate-3 points-2 points-1 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]alanonhelp777FDS Newbie[S] 17 points18 points19 points (0 children) | Copy Link