Got talking to a girl 2/3 weeks ago. Invited her to my house and she flaked, so I took it that she wasn't as dtf as she made herself out to be and nexted her. After a couple days her and her friends blew me up with texts about why am I ignoring her blah blah, she ended up pouring her heart out to me about how much she's into me and told me she was just nervous etc. Gave her the benefit of the doubt and reinvested, and yesterday she said she'll come over when she gets back from a college open day. She didn't.

My time and attention is too valuable to give to a girl who isn't dtf, I thought I made that clear when I withdrew the first time. She had her friends texting me about how much she likes me but turns down opportunities to have me to herself. I'm thinking now I should just leave the ball in her court, like when she flirts with me I'll let her know I'm bored of her talk, bored with just feeling her ass, and that I'm not interested in being another orbiter she can flirt with.

If she really is that into me then she will take it further, either that or she'll fuck off. Either way I'm not trying to invest anymore.

Advice on this situation? Thanks