Last night, on thanksgiving, I went out with a hometown friend who was home for the holiday and recently had a falling out with his woman. He wanted to get laid badly. I took him out to a local bar and we sat down next to a beautiful blonde girl who was there alone on her phone. He was in an LTR for 9 years, so he is a little rusty at game. When he went to the bathroom, I started chatting her up. It went fantastically. Naturally got along, great convo, lots of touching, best of all her friend comes and meets her and my friend starts chatting her up. Blonde girl volunteers her number, her facebook and snapchat to me, didnt even have to ask. Friend leaves. Looking back, I think my rusty friend must have freaked her out in some way. She doesn't appear to be coming back. So I tell my friend we can leave so he isn't third wheeling with me.

I take girl outside (we smoke so we had been going out periodically) - and out there I attempt a kiss close. She says "not yet, but that was really cute tho" - okay, I think, not terrible. I rub her shoulders a little, go inside and grab my friend and say goodnight.

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Now my friend is on a pussy mission, so he starts begging me to text my girl to ask about his. Then he convinces me to say some dumb shit to her that did not go over too well. This morning, I text her and say I apologize for my drunken texts, I had a really good time w you last night. No answer. My friend apparently stalks the other girl down on FB and also gets no answer. Goddamn it lol.

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So everyone always tells me about abundance mindset ect. I have abundance. But these kind of rejections still bother me every time - its a part of TRP that I have never fully been able to digest - at least not when the girl is an 8 or up. It is bothering me right now and I'm wondering if anyone has some insight or advice on how to possibly salvage this one?

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