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[–]basketweaving83FDS Newbie52 points53 points54 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg 💀
[–]meecy166FDS Apprentice37 points38 points39 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I came here because I was going to make a post about this, if a man says “not all men” we know he is trash, but would would be a good answer/green flag to that answer. Let’s say you are talking about the mistreatment of women to a potential boyfriend, what answers are green flags to expect? Most men say “not all men”, so I’m curious on what a guy should say when you complain about the injustices towards women
[–]_tinyimpFDS Newbie37 points38 points39 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I always thought it was a good sign when they chime in with mistreatment or women they’ve witnessed themselves in the past because that’s how someone who actually agrees with you would continue to elaborate on the topic. Or a responses along the lines of ‘it’s terrible that so many women have suffered at the hands of the men in their lives’ / ‘domestic violence towards women shouldn’t be ignored - the statistics are shocking’ etc. because they didn’t jump to defend men but sympathized with women, the real victims.
[–]MyplummmsRuthless Strategist[S] 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I definitely agree. I also think just by tone, women can tell if a guy is really being genuine or just jumping in to defend men again, like you said..
[–]MyplummmsRuthless Strategist[S] 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's nothing wrong with a guy disagreeing or having an alternative opinion at all, the issue is when he's only "listening" to respond. Is the only time he brings up men's issues is when women's issues are being discussed? If so, his intentions may be disingenuous. Be wary of the guy who plays devil's advocate often, especially when it comes to instances where a woman is the victim. He's masking his intentions, because he's not bold enough to state what he really believes, which could be sexist. These are the same kinds of guys that believe "she was asking for it", because a woman was dressed immodestly. Hopefully that was helpful. Thanks for your comment!
[–]glazedhamsterFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly no answer is a good answer IMHO. Most men have a hard time understanding that not every single thing requires their input/response/unique perspective as a man (eyeroll to that last one).
[–]SaddleUpBucephalusFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No answer is the right answer. Keep in mind these MRA types study this sub and will use these sorts of comments to trick women. They'll figure out what to say and unsuspecting women will think it a green flag.
Judge him by his behavior and how consistent he is with it above all else.
[–]BloodBonzaiFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
People saying this are also the ones saying “ALL lives matter” rn🙄
[–]buffybot3000FDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haaaaa this had me cackling. So good! 👏👏👏
[–]gigababejflFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Not all men" is already the assumption so these days, when I'm told this, I already see it as the speaker not giving a shit about the topic at hand.
This is how they continue to dismiss serious issues.. but let you mention rape on Reddit. Some cockeyed MRA will emerge and tell you "not all men and askshually women rape men at a much higher frequency."
This is just the dog whistle of men who don't listen to the real issue when it affects women. They only see nuance and stats when it negatively affects them or absolves them.
What's that you say? Sure 4/10 women got killed by men this morning but "not all men" see cuz I'm not a killer therefore, this is not a problem!
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[–]sadpourtoujoursFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmaoooo! Saving this.
[–]SavingsStrength0FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m going to use this in an argument a lot now ty🤩
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