I've got a message for you male lurkers:

Even the most educated, caring, trustworthy, attractive women I know have spent most of their dating lives getting their asses run by men. These women weren’t exactly ‘high maintenance’ either despite their huge pool of choices and the attention they get- they made a lot of allowances because they felt a spark, because they saw ‘potential’. These women were considered high value- who ticked men’s never ending boxes. The majority of their dating lives follows a similar trajectory: constant disrespect, hurt and disappointments, making them get far tougher on their standards and far less likely to make allowances for men who wouldn’t do the same for them anyway.

They would rather stay single and healthy than try raise a man child, change a cheater or fix a broken man that will only leave them once they get on.

These are the women that did everything by the male appeaser book out of naivety. They tried to be genuine and give the benefit of the doubt. Overlooked a mans flaws and gave the underdogs a chance- men that weren’t great looking, were short, not too lean or had funny style- as in men they wouldn’t normally wouldn’t go for. They assumed they would treat them better .

They developed their characters so they were funny, smart and interesting. Helped him up when he was down. Gave him a shoulder to lean on regarding his mental health issues or personal problems. Put up with mediocre or bad sex so he could get off because they were scared to offend or felt they’d lose them if they didn’t put out- even if they weren’t enjoying it.

Overlooked the fact he didn’t earn as much or was less educated. Put up with his temper problems. Didn’t run off at the first sign of issues- tried to work it out. Didn’t make demands and put up with low effort dates because they thought it was genuine they liked spending time. That spent endless amounts of money keeping their looks up to the trends with skincare and makeup products and clothing. That tried hard to keep their sex appeal, be good in bed and keep up the flame. That spent countless hours in the gym to stay in shape. That worked hard to get over their own mental issues and setbacks. That worked hard to be educated and have interesting things to talk about.

It didn’t matter- because their experiences all ended up the same, whether it was sooner rather than later. No matter what allowances or what effort they made - the guy got too big for his boots and eventually disrespected them, cheated on them or became seriously low effort and entitled getting too comfortable. The men were just mad these women had the self esteem and intelligence to call it out. These men could not be honest with themselves and their feelings and just leave. Or try to step up to be more attractive or attentive as they themselves desired.

No matter how less attractive, less smart, less wealthy the guy was...it all ended in the same dire fate. They had no choice but to ditch them because the man did not value or respect them- there was no trust to build a foundation. It would only end in a broken home, single motherhood or divorce- those things you supposedly want us to avoid. It was no worthwhile pursuit dragging a dead horse. Whether it was 2months in or 2years later.

All these men felt entitled to take a high value women and drag her through the dirt. They felt entitled to take her off the market and block any potential better options that might of been far more suitable to her standards. They felt entitled to manipulate her into emotional investment and treat her like a girlfriend with no desire to commit. They felt entitled to waste her time rather than being honest with themselves. They felt entitled to waste her youth and looks. They felt entitled to hurt her feelings no matter what other difficulties she was working through herself, even if she had overcome traumas, family abandonment issues and had limited faith in people to begin with- they still felt entitled to deplete her faith even more.

They felt entitled to laugh at or gaslight her when her eyes glossed over at his phone notifications. They felt entitled to roll eyes if she needed emotional support. They felt entitled to lie giving her trust issues. They felt entitled to be pampered and adored like a ‘king’ when they acted more like a common peasant. They felt entitled to her honesty whilst being dishonest themselves. Some even felt entitled to lull them into promises of marriage and took up most their social lives and time despite being a cheat all along..,even though she’d made allowances for him to avoid that.

They felt entitled to use her for sex or free therapy when they were going through a bad time. They felt entitled to push her boundaries and try force her into degrading porn positions she didn’t want to do at a pace that was painful. They felt entitled not to respect her health decisions as a female and acted like she was just a baby incubator to pass their seed or a test dummy for their pornsickness.

They felt entitled to have raw sex and expose her to unwanted pregnancy and STIs. They felt entitled to leave her to go through abortion alone if that went wrong. They felt entitled to her warmth and affection regardless. They felt entitled to make obnoxious comments or demands. They felt entitled to make her feel self conscious around other women despite not being all that themselves and her overlooking their flaws. They felt entitled to be stingy despite the fact she could’ve done better and had lowered her standards to give him a shot. They felt entitled to disrespect and humiliate her and flaunt texts from sidechicks in her face despite feeling entitled to her remaining faithful. They felt entitled to a maid and cook. They felt entitled to her advice and good nature.

And guess what? They took it all for granted. They felt resentful if she opposed any of their bullshit behaviour or their refusal to respect or reciprocate what she brought to the table. They assumed she would settle for low effort bullshit- that she would commit herself to a low value man longterm and take a risk they would not. They assumed she would put up and shutup and must not value herself enough to move on. They assumed they’d easily find another her fast... but did not.

So guess what happens when women with a lot going for them gets this done to them again and again and again and again. They get real fucking bored, they start seeing through the bullshit, they start raising their standards, they stop letting unworthy men drain them of all the effort they put in to work hard. They get tired of being put on a high to be slammed back down. They get tired of being dangled the carrot.

They get tired of giving chances just to be let down. They get tired of submission and getting the short end of the stick for someone who neither deserves or values them. They get tired of giving and giving for a man who seems uninterested or resentful when they need help. They get tired of lazy men that expect us to have hot bodies when they can’t be assed to work out or dress like a man. They get tired of ignoring better looking, wealthier, kinder options for underdogs that make them look like a fool for giving them a shot. They get tired of attractive men with all the ego and none of the substance they require. They stop making allowances for underdeveloped over entitled men that expect they have it all.

They start demanding a man must wine and dine them consistently if they’re even going to risk giving them a chance to waste their time - because they know they have better options that will and they know he’s likely full of shit. They stop giving underdogs a chance because they want fulfilling sex lives with someone they’re attracted too as well- because sex isn’t just about a mans needs and how attached he feels.

They start going for men who put effort in their appearances, are well groomed, well educated, ambitious, loving, giving and good in bed. Men who can provide, protect them, be vulnerable and give them the respect and life they deserve. They stop tolerating disrespect because it’s a negative investment leading to a dead end. They stop waiting around for you to change , grow up or realise what you have in front of you because they have plenty better options and things to pursue. They stop feeling sorry for your 'problems' because they're mostly self induced.

They know that when they’ve put all that effort to be high value and made allowances for men with less going than themselves and still got repeatedly lied to: they know the game is rigged. They know this pattern of behaviour isn’t a string of coincidences but an act out of privilege. The result of a power dynamic where women are seen as less than human, are expected to endure more humiliation than a man would, expected to give more than a man would....but are gaslighted and shamed when they call it out.

They stop playing mommy for issues you refuse to address or self reflect on. They stop trying to make you open up and communicate- because a grown man should know how to do that. They stop waiting around for you to make up your mind- because you look like an arrogant fool being lower value than them to begin with. They stop being kind and giving you the benefit of the doubt because they know most likely out to use them like a parasite... yet will cry when we reject you. They stop overlooking red flags and dubious behaviours even if you did some nice things and thought the Prince Charming act had us fooled. They start getting ruthless and strategic, willing to dump any man who will not meet them at the same standards they require.

Low value men have no else to blame but themselves if women seem more savage these days. You’ve been eating your cake for a long ass time...it’s been a long time coming.

You expect us to put up with being dogged over, gas lit, abused, cheated on, disrespected, objectified and lied to over and over and over. You expect us to spend shit tons of money on looking pretty and moan about having to work out or take us out for a date you asked us on - despite the fact we don’t struggle for options out here. You expect us to be virgins or have low N counts but fuck you like a pornstar or you’ll cheat and call us a starfish prude...all whilst you sleep around till you hit the wall and suddenly run out of options. You expect us to be loyal, mature and honest whilst you lie and act like an immature sleazeball clown- even after taking pity on your insecurities and lending you an ear.

You expect us to tolerate you trying to push our boundaries and force us to do degrading things we don’t want to like pissing on us or forcing anal when you wouldn’t be pegged yourself as you’d find it embarrassing. You expect us to put up with your pornsick limp dick and jackhammering- like our pleasure doesn’t matter...like you have no respect for our bodies or boundaries at all.

You expect us to look like a hot Instagram blogger or a celebrity whilst you have bad style, funny looking genes, bad hygiene, beer gut or receding hairlines. Whilst you look mediocre at best. You expect us to be interesting and entertaining when you have the depth of a potato because pickmeishas have blown your false ego up because you wore their esteem down. You expect us to give you our youth when you’re old and your luck/options ran out. You expect us to want you for you, when you only want us for our looks and the ego boost it gives you to get even more. You expect us to be tidy, clean and organised when you live like a slob in your mommys house. You expect us to ignore the hotter wealthier betters men who approach us often whilst you send us mixed signals and treat us like dirt.

You expect us to be blown over by your arrogant ego's and tolerate disrespect when you’re less educated or ambitious than us. You expect us to look the other way at your side chick notifications after leading us on 8months- but you’d shout from the rooftops and join MGTOW or threaten us with violence if we did the same once. You expect us to be forever GF’s so you can escape easier when you decide it’s time to cheat or upgrade us for someone younger- but still you expect us to accept your flaws, give you our best years and help 'build you up'. You expect us to pay half so its cheaper for you to use women as disposable fuckdolls you collect like token coins on your fragile manchild belt because you're deeply insecure and low value, because you project your inadequacy and fear of intimacy onto innocent women.

You expect us to not feel weary of men or put our safety first after being sexually assaulted, abused or raped by men. You expect sex on the first date regardless of these fears- regardless if we aren’t feeling it or don’t even freaking like or fancy you whatsoever. You expect us to put up with low effort dates or disrespect so you can plate numerous women and flaunt it in our faces before you cry we’re ‘superficial’ , ‘stuck up’ and ‘entitled’ and run down the fucking TRP /MGTOW rabbit hole claiming you’re a victim when you’re anything but.

Then you expect us to meet you as a blank harmonious beautiful slate with a wide soft smile on our face and no trust issues, expectations or standards, eager to please and ready to give you the opportunity to do the same to us again, ready to give you all our love and affection - so you can extract what you want from us like a parasite and duck out like a coward because you're too much of a scaredy little market to be vulnerable and face your feelings or lay your intentions all out.

No men....YOU are the most entitled of entitled ones and you’re so freaking pissed women are waking up everywhere - because you know what it means for you and your precious little pornsick peepee’s. We are tired of falling over our asses for you low value men, especially you fake ones in disguise...because you never appreciate it. Because you’re not worth it. Because it only pumps your delusional undeserved over inflated egos. And you know what you do is hypocritical, callous and cowardly but you don’t give a shit till the shoes on the other foot. You know you expect FAR more than you could ever offer us.

You know you contribute to these broken homes, broken women, damaged single mothers and fatherless kids in therapy but you don't care because you're self centred and porn sick. You know you never deserved those women in the first place. You know you deserve your current rejection, insecurities and lack of connection. We don't want you because you're negative value and yes the grass IS greener being single than being gaslit - accept it. We will only budge for a HVM- but so many of you play pretend that so many women have lost all faith by then no doubt. I can’t say I blame them- they’d rather choose their sanity than the sentence you sell them.

All I have to say is: Touché fuckwits. You had it coming for you centuries ago.

If women are getting tougher, 'more demanding' and 'hypergamous'- it’s because you had it way too comfortable for far too long. I’m sorry your little pee pees can’t get stroked after buying one coke. Women get the short end of the stick too many times and we have far more to lose in this game- maybe it’s time you looked around and understand that. Maybe it’s time you took note of how you contribute to these ‘psycho’ women you despair. You want us to give you empathy for your issues but you can’t even give us us basic respect?

You’re not entitled to use us as a free escort when you’re horny and need a test dummy for your pornsickness, or some ego boost for your fragile manhood issues or a free therapist when you’re going through some shit. And if you can’t even treat a high value woman well that did it all by the book, these other women stand no chance at love or basic respect. It’s not all down to our ‘choices’ however you may seek to deflect blame...,it’s inevitable most will fall into a broken home when this is the standard that has been set for men, and this is the level of entitlement they have grown ‘accustomed’ to at the expense of women’s souls. The game is rigged and we’re fast waking up to it- why should women ‘play fair’ to a bunch of hypocritical, entitled , pornsick manipulaters? We have more to lose since you came out our wombs.

Women are simply demanding what they’re owed. To be treated as human.

And if you don’t like THAT....maybe that’s because you’ve been accustomed to treating us as less than for far. too . long.