I've noticed this behavior a lot, so many 4'11-5'1 pickmeishas asking "what's wrong with 5'7 and 5'8? it's a good height i would date one" yes...because you're short. As an average height woman who's 5'4 - i do not give the time of the day to men below 5'11 and i will never apologize for it. It really be the men who don't fit your preferences that get mad over them or tall men who feel bad for their 5'6 bestie who don't get to f*ck.
The 5' pickmeisha would get the same height difference with a 5'8 that i would get with a 6' so of course she would be 'satisfied' as she says! and them pickmeishas shaming even taller women who are 5'7 and 5'8 into dating men their own height..why? i promise you no 4'11 girl would date a 5'1 man and even if they say they would they won't because these men barely exist so they know they're 'lucky' they never have to deal with one and his insecurities. We, the average and taller girls got less lucky, not because of our height (which is gorgeous, i used to want to be taller and then i wanted to be shorter, now i'm okay with my height and embracing it since i am taller than at least 25% of the men in my country, no im not joking). We got more unlucky because we get shamed more for our height and for our height preferences, honestly even shorter women get shamed for wanting a very tall man, why should short women get the short men? why are they supposed to be 'satisfied' with them? we don't want them, ya'll pickmeishas can have your 5'7 men.
You can be 5' and want a 6'2 and you can be 5'9 and want a 5'9 or be a 5'3 and want a 6'. it's all acceptable. What's not acceptable is shaming people for it. Why shame women into dating men that their height does not attract them?
Why is liking someone's height or rejecting someone for their height is more shallow than rejecting someone for being tall, flat chested, too 'old'? men reject women for literally anything possible but we dare to set one preference and they go NUTS because of course, we should accept everyone and let everyone have a free access into our pussy. Would they also tell their 5'8 gorgeous daughter to date an ugly balding man who's 5'5? doubt it. They don't want the women who are close to them (mom, aunt, daughter, sister) to settle for less, they want us to settle because we're strangers to them. Don't take dating tips from men, they're just trying to make sure their fellas get to pump (and dump) more of us.
I had this argument with a pickmeisha friend who's 5'1.5, dates a 6'1 (and brags about his height) and asking me why i won't give short men who are 5'5-5'8 the time of the day...do i owe them something? do i know them? their height does not attract me, i don't care.
And before any man messages me or comments here about how we, the women, who caused his height complex. Deal with it, go to a therapist. You think men never made women feel ugly, old, fat, too short or too tall? they did.
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