I'm angry towards women close to the wall

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June 21, 2020
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Title.

I'm 31 and I feel some kind of need for revenge against women shortly pre- and post-wall (25-31+).

How do you guys deal with the fact they never cared for you in their golden days and now that there are no better options left, they are finally giving you a shot?

I feel like it is stupid and keeping me from having so much fun in life, but so far I refuse to date/fuck these women. This is self-sabotage.

I've been thinking about whether this is because of my "standards" in women, but the more I think about it the more I'm sure it's still related to my lack of confidence and my struggle with self worth (fucked up childhood, parents who just don't care even in the present).

Also, I keep thinking I might be too old to have the real cute and young girls.

What to do?


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Title I'm angry towards women close to the wall
Author KuritaT
Upvotes 65
Comments 100
Date 21 June 2020 01:02 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/695910
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[–]Human_Extreme222 points223 points  (9 children) | Copy

Are you mad that a tiger wants to eat meat and will kill other animals for it?

Are you mad that a bird can fly and you can't?

Don't hate the game man, don't hate anything. Just accept it and play the game with them.

[–]dtyler8635 points36 points  (2 children) | Copy

Exactly. Playing the game would be becoming what the girls in their golden years Desire.

[–]moon5moon5moon13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

This needs to be reiterated man. A lot of what gives this community the bad attention is the misguided anger and hatred towards women.

It is human nature to make the best of your life. If you were a girl, you would behave the same way. So try to make the best with the hand you've been dealt.

[–]dtyler860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. Anytime I say this some pissed of dude swings in with “fuck bitches. Women are sluts”. That’s how you get trp banned (again) and anything discussed here pissed on by any peeping onlookers

[–]tenrag38991 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This. Absolutely this.

[–]OfficerWade0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Indeed a foolish dog barks at a flying bird.

[–]robot3000_010 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Please stop coping. Don't act like these bitches didn't know what they were doing. That's the crux of the issue.

They know full well what they're doing and rub it in your face.

[–]Noodlesoupe20 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

If you had your choice between an attractive woman and an ugly woman who would you choose? You’re just as shallow as they are.

[–]robot3000_011 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The reason trp exists is because alot of us average men aren't liked by average women so your point is void

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[–]Texan211621 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

True words. I was fortunate..i married a hottie and we had a great time for several years...then, true to form While I was working 55 hrs a week, she was home alone, and realized her SMV, and used it to chase guys..ended our marriage.After our divorce , I was almost 50...and realized, that there were no shortage of women available to me...as long as I played the game...enjoy the buffet. Btw, my now ex, lives in poverty w her mom.

[–]svenfromaccounting56 points57 points  (15 children) | Copy

Look man, you will take a dangerous path and continue a cycle.

Don't purposely harm C because A and B hurt you.

Despite what everyone says here, people are just people. Some are decent, some are horrible most are just average.

Think of it this way, some now 40 year old guys treated the girls your age like shit a decade ago, they then took it out on you and you will take it out on some 20-25 year old girl who will then take it out on the guy her age... It's a needless cycle

[–]robot3000_010 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

But the average woman treats the average man like shit. Don't let them get away with it

[–]svenfromaccounting6 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy

You don't let them get away with it. You fuck them and the second they act out you fuck their friend and leave them be. Red pill philosophies are still in play.

No need to be malicious

[–]robot3000_01-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

No because they are BBing OP from the start. So fuck and Chuck em and be malicious about it

[–]svenfromaccounting2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

There's nothing malicious about the fuck and chuck.
Step 1: put dick in her

Step 2: do not progress relationship

The end

[–]robot3000_01-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'd actually say a fair tactic would to be to go out with her, cheat on her then dump her after the wall after her eggs dry up.

AFBB is literally cuckolding a man in linear fashion, so cheat on them and waste their time and fuck up their sexual strategy

[–]svenfromaccounting0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well here's the thing you seem to be missing:

1) that's a very long game you have to play to dry up those eggs. That's a lot of energy and money to keep up a long con not to mention your own life being wasted for some idea of fulfilling cosmic justice.

2) while it may not mean you are a cheater in your head because it is justified you'd be a cheater in reality.

3) you'd have a reputation of being untrustworthy. Whether truly justified or not. All those "cheaters" that you know went through the same mental gymnastics as we are discussing right now.

[–]trp2828716 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

They didn’t owe you their attention. If someone has dozens of men who are trying to talk to them, of course they’re gonna pick out the best ones and not you. It’s common sense

[–]doubtless_abyss54 points55 points  (11 children) | Copy

You’re not too old to have the real cute girls; 31 is about the time you start hitting your stride and that will continue for a decade+ with the caveat that you put in the work. That said, anger at any abstract group is a serious issue and you likely need therapy more than simple self improvement advice.

[–]Yashugan0020 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

24- 29 is easier than 30 something when a man is established, fit and in his 30s. I'm in my 40s and I still attract 24 yo. there's no drama and no hurry to find out "where are we going"

[–]dzmisrb433 points4 points  (9 children) | Copy

Well he probably would have hard time with 18 year olds if he want to go for as prime as possible without going into illegal territory.

[–]oooKenshiooo0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

Nah, he won't. Sure, he won't get all the 18yos he desires, but that shit happens all the time. All you need to do is establish non creepy contact and then keep escalating with plausible deniability.

[–]dzmisrb431 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

Yeah but he is 31 he is competing against 20 year old guys who have better 6 packs, youthful hair, zero wrinkles which matters because for older women it would mean nothing but as we all know teenage girls care much more about looks than any other female age group.

On the topic of not being creepy when approaching 18 year olds it's extremely hard to not appear creepy. There is so much social engineering that you need to be bit of a psycho to power through it without even little akward creepiness leaking through lol which girls can pick up on. I sometimes feel weird about approaching 18 year olds as 22 year old guy idk there is something indimidating about younger girls to me at least as I said due to social engineering.But also contrary to what people on here say from my expireance teen girls can be much much more brutal when wanting to blow you off you off if they don't like you they know that they can call you out on age difference because you approached them they know they have that power.Because age difference is one of the most taboo things in modern society due to older jealous women spreading propaganda of it being evil manipulation if girls you like are young and beautiful, which everyone in modern society swallows and even if you are strong man you are still part of the society, which increases pressure a lot. That's why I have balls to easily approach older girls but always feel like I'm on eggshells when approaching 18 year olds lol.

[–]oooKenshiooo1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

To add to your point... maybe you are also afraid of younger hot girls, because those are the kinds of girls that first rejected you in you life? It certainly was for me until I got over it.

Also, I am 32 and I still look mid 20s - depending on my beard. Wrinkles or hairloss are not a problem, as long as your look sexy-old and not creepy-old. Most mid 20 guys also don't have six packs - and if they do, they rarely also have wide shoulders, thick arms and a buff chest.

Anyhow, yes, you need to do a little bit of social engineering to pull this off - but then again, if you want to live a player-life you need to do that kind of social engineering anyway.
The way I approached it was displaying the carefree life a freelance musician / writer. I had zero ties to their regular social circles, I got to plan my days on my own terms (being able to meet during the day, rather than in the evenings). I had my own little place (no roommates) and my own car (logistics).

[–]dzmisrb430 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Thanks on advices.

Yeah you are probably right about rejection part.

As far as attraction to young girls does it chance at all with age or not even little bit? Are you as attracted to 20 year old girls compared to 30 year old girls as before?

[–]oooKenshiooo0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

In my experience, your taste begins to widen. I can appreciate a sexy 35 year old as much as I can appreciate a sexy 18y.o.

Hot women above 30 are rare... but those who are, are almost always have incredibly tight bodies, because at that age being skinny-fat like most girls usually are in their 20s is not an option anymore. So she is either chubby or she is fit.
The sex is also more dirty, less awkward and there is less mindgames - again, if you pick right from the get go.

I usually like to keep a mixed rotation. The setup I liked the most was having a 18-21 y.o. for stroking my ego (due to their nature they were subject to frequent replacing), 1 or 2 mid 20 girls during the week as easy lays and 1 or 2 friends with benefits in their early 30s, who were interesting enough in a conversation and who fucked dirty with low maintenance.

I would then proceed to bed a new girl every week, because I enjoyed the hunt.

[–]dzmisrb430 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

You are obviously next level lol.

New girl every week and choosing which combo to take like from some store hahahaha.

How do you approach 18-20 year old girls as older guy? In which setting and do you hit on on them immediately or wait for strong sings?

[–]oooKenshiooo0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Tinder has worked sufficiently well for me, especially when using tinder gold. However, since my 32nd birthday I rarely get (hot) matches below 22 - but it still happens every few months.

If I want to go young, I usually achieve it through one of my hobbies - I am into music and fitness. There is always at least one or two cute girls at every show. Oftentimes, they work as waitresses or hostesses as a side-gig and are bored out of their minds. I'd chat them up between sets, opening by asking them to bring me and the band some drinks and then going on from there.

The conversation rarely gets stale, because I have to be on stage about every 15-20 minutes. And I have ample reason to re-engage because I need my glass refilled. Sometimes we do shots in secret. Usually you also close out at about the same time, so inviting them for an afterparty is always an option.

Also, backpacker hotspots yield great results, because there is frequent rotation of the people and a live-in-the-moment-mindset going on.
I once knew a 43 y.o. guy in Italy who would rent out bicycles and motorbikes in some tourist trap near the coast. That creep would hit on every girl that walked into the store.... He would have a new 20 yo girlfriend every week.

[–]dzmisrb430 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Thanks for advices :D

Also btw do you think a guy should wait for special girl in terms of attraction to lose virginity to or not? Am thinking about it now. Because I was virgin until now I know it's bad but I only now can think about this.

I was very undesirable until my 20s, it started getting better year ago when I lost weight and got haircut. I was total loner with zero self confidence and very fearful zero chances obviously. Now I can get a lot of 5s and 6s but I don't get nay rush from them. And I wonder if i was loser all this time and waited so long is it right to lose it to random 5s or 6s who fucks whatever she sees. Should I wait for 7 or 8 who I feel something towards who has nicer personality to lose virginity to? From your expireance does it matter?

[–]jm5115 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Anger phase.

[–]signsoflife6209 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you were a woman you’d do the same. It’s nothing personal

[–]arcanepolar8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get out of your head dude. This is what you've said: You are admitting you have self confidence issues. Young women who have many options can smell it from a mile away and you aren't having success. Older women are more desperate and giving you a shot.

And you're angry because of this? What were you expecting exactly?

[–]ummetinlideri36 points37 points  (5 children) | Copy

Pump and dump

[–]cryocai20 points21 points  (4 children) | Copy

Fuck and chuck

[–]Guarnerre199516 points17 points  (3 children) | Copy

Hit the clit and quit

[–]TheTastelessBatman13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy

Smash and dash.

[–]I-am-ed31 points32 points  (1 child) | Copy

dick down and settle down

wait

[–]CookieAdmiral4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You meant to say: Smash and pass

[–]alfred31112 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Women hitting the wall is the easiest lay, be glad and careful about it, wrap your dick or they will be walking in an isle with you or fathering a child with her

[–]Brave-Snow4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I used to be angry about the game as well. Then I realized in a way men are just as "bad" as women .

[–]omkar-m4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s just the way world works man. Women always want to be with alpha that’s in their nature. Have you read about hypergamy? Honestly everyone wants best partner, you want best pussy and she wants best alpha. When women understand that they have secured the best alpha (from their standards) then they will settle with him otherwise they keep gaming. So either you play the game or wait till they hit the walls and notice you.

[–]SuperCrazy078 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

You need to let it go. You’d have done the same if you could.

Here’s some good news for you-

After college (22-32) zero women went out of their way to hit on me. By 35, I’d regularly have 25-32 yo girls initiating contact. From 41-present, girls in their mid 20s initiate and persist.

I don’t do anything except be friendly. I reject them because I’m married and they say “I don’t care”.

Your time is coming. But, I don’t think you’ll have that experience if you’re bitter. I’m not “Chad.” I just am happy with who I am and like to have fun.

Just enjoy life and cute girls will be there for many years to come.

[–]throwawayandtossout4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Focus less on what's around you (women, young or old) and more on yourself. You seem to have some issues and thankfully, you seem aware you have them. I recommend seeing a therapist (probably a man tbh) and straightening out some of these issues you have. Focus on bettering yourself and how to improve yourself (anger, frustration) and your outlook on life (why you're so angry towards others).

Honestly, I believe a lot of truth comes from attachment theory, and your "fucked up childhood" is almost certainly a major contributing factor in all of this. By focusing on yourself and your healing, the rest will follow. Start at the root of the issues .. your past traumas. Anger, hatred, etc. will only cripple you in life, even though you're directing it outwardly. Figure out how to let go of all of that. A good therapist will help guide you down that path.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sex tends to be better with this age group, they aren't as entitled and they aren't as addicted to social media. If you're luck they won't even have tiktok.

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[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It's not about you. He doesn't give a damn about you. You are a fine a dozen she was balance 12 guys just like you while you thought you were the only person hitting it raw. He's mad because he doesn't see the need in courting or investing energy in them now.

[–]redhorndog10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

How do you guys deal with the fact they never cared for you in their golden days and now that there are no better options left, they are finally giving you a shot?

You dont. Best revenge - get with a younger girl that is more than enough. It conveys she doesnt meet your standards.

Having said that feel free to pump and dump them. But actions have consequences one of them might be beyond batshit crazy,

[–]IXseed2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You need to grow up. Why do you care if some random women don't care for you? No one owes you shit. You're blaming women and your parents for YOUR issues. You're a grown ass man. You're too old to be blaming others and wanting to seek revenge. Take that energy instead inward and work to fix them.

It's true we don't choose the hand we're dealt in life but it's on us on how we play it.

[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Here's some actionable advice, date those girls. Nut on their face. Don't ask, just do it. If they say not to do it again, tell them don't come around again. Eventually you will get that anger out. And it will end up on their face. IF after doing this a few times you're still irrationally angry, seek help.

[–]Transport1270 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

LMAO

[–]DucardthaDon4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You sound like a fucking incel

[–]Brebos224 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

"How do you guys deal with the fact they never cared for you in their golden days and now that there are no better options left, they are finally giving you a shot? "

"I've been thinking about whether this is because of my "standards" in women, but the more I think about it the more I'm sure it's still related to my lack of confidence and my struggle with self worth (fucked up childhood, parents who just don't care even in the present)."

This is exactly why they didn't "give you a shot".

  1. Are you working on improving yourself? You know you have a certain problem, fix it. Women can smell these things.
  2. No man should ever wait on a woman to give him a shot. You shoot your shot, if you miss try again. If you hit and for some reason it doesn't work out, try again. Never wait on a woman to decide she wants to be with you or date you.
  3. Revenge won't solve a thing, the feeling of wanting revenge, in this case, comes from a deeper place and can't just be fixed by hurting someone else. Those girls in their golden years didn't do anything wrong. It's your perception of their behaviour that makes you think they did something. Work on that..

[–]dark_rabbit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

These ARE your golden days, trust me your 30s are better than your 20s. Go out there and enjoy life. You’re only hurting yourself.

[–]rewter21 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why do you think anybody cares what you're angry at and that you're angry at all in the first place?

[–]TigerTamingSword1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Might as well be angry at your parents and teachers for not raising you to be alpha from early age. If these girls gave you a shot back then, you'd probably still be a content little beta, holding dearly to all sorts of laughable illusions, unprepared for the eventual time life decided to bend you over. These women you despise were just playing the game, as you were and are,

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[–]Bleu_Cheese_Pursuits3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Dude the whole point of TRP is to maximize the probability with which you can fuck high SMV girls. Like if we wanted to fuck fat, ugly, old chicks, then we wouldn't be here. 18-20 is as high SMV as girls get.

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[–]BKLager1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nobody in here is dating Hollywood actresses. If OP lives in suburban bumfuck nowhere, USA (or anywhere really) chances are the chicks all get pregnant by mid/late 20s, turn into whales, etc. Hell even in major cities, the culture of drinking / going out is toxic and everyone looks disgusting by mid / late 20s unless they make an active effort to take care of themselves / avoid that culture.

Peaking around early 20s if not younger is not a crazy thought. 18-20 might be super young, sure, but I don’t think it’s that weird. Idk what you gain by attempting to shame someone for wanting to date the most attractive age bracket they can.

[–]Bleu_Cheese_Pursuits1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you don't believe my comment about high SMV, well guess what...it is researched and documented. The following study was performed with a gigantic sample size (200,000 North Americans) and used an extremely objective measure of desirability (number of conversations initiated by members of the opposite sex on a popular dating app) Take the time to examine Figure 2. In it you'll see my point clearly corroborated. Average male desirability is lower than average female desirability during their 20s, but female desirability is at an all time high at age ~20 and diminishes for the rest of their lives. Average male desirability peaks at around age 50 (perhaps it is not a coincidence that average male salary peaks at age 48)

https://advances.sciencemag.org/content/4/8/eaap9815

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[–]MGTOW_BEASTMODE1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Free easy experienced pussy.. what's not to like?

[–]trpppp1231 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've felt similar. Especially since I lost my v-card at 25. I'm 29 now, and to get over this, I'm pumping and dumping as much as I can moving forward. I will be avoiding LTRs in my prime (30-35) the same way. I will also date younger girls 20-25 now.

You see man, girls get their prime between 18-25 and need to use that short time span to collect as many dicks as they can because they just don't know any better about how this hurts their future potential. In that same respect, men only reach their prime later on in life when they have an established career, fitness, experience, etc. Now a lot of men choose to settle down by then, which is a big mistake because this is actually the optimal time to exercise your sexual strategy by fucking as many women as you can. And go for younger chicks, don't even bother with older ones if you don't want to.

[–]tyrantgrey0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Women are like dogs. Now, don’t hate me for saying that, women have been calling us trash and dogs and pigs for a while. They’ve even said “kill all men” or “make his pockets hurt.”

Now, they might tell you, this was all jokes, and their reasoning is some sly bullshit that amounts to “teehee we’re just little girls how could we ever hurt a man? Uwu.”

Honestly though, women have been training men like dogs, they’ve been writing books with literally that title and there is no backlash on that.

If i even breathe a little too loud around a bitch, I’m the worst.

But yes. Women are like dogs. Do you get angry at a dog biting you? When you got too scared to use your leash and assert your authority. When you shut up every time that bitch barked and yelled.

Would you be angry at anyone but yourself? For allowing bullshit to flourish and whores to be whores? It is the strength of discipline, and discipline is the strong hand of a man, that keeps the waters at bay and the fires in their pits. Women are nothing.

And you, a man. How do you complain about the world falling out of place when you refuse to take your place as king within it?

Fight those who do wrong. Slap a bitch and punch an asshole.

Everyone deserves to feel your corrective hand slap them on their face.

I’ve gone on a diatribe but, don’t be angry at women for being women. Men let then become that way. Be a man and fix it. Or throw it away.

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[–]_-resonance-_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Enter white night.

[–]alucard1uk0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like you need to take that time out for your self, if you already have I'd say you need to do it again. A woman in your life is an addition, you are the prize. It is just your turn. If your not happy dating women 30+ then aim younger.

[–]flyinghorse10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This may only be some men as a lot of us dated women in their prime. Most women i've dated have been between 21 to 25.

[–]dkod0660 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I used to feel so like you man. It does nothing for you. Just drains you and makes you hateful. As some of the comments have suggested, don't hate the game, play it. Take your turn on the merry go round with these whores. Use your RP knowledge to not let any of them suck in though.

[–]PrometheusRisesIN0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don't hate the game. : Barney Stinson. May gid give us strength in our endeavours.

[–]Natural_Singer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

i used to just fuck them with the pretense of a relationship and then leave. im less bitter now but cant say it wasnt funny

[–]ihavenopeopleskills0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're not entitled to them and they aren't entitled to you.

These are merely market forces. I'm 36, Marine Corps dress blues bagged me almost no dates, and I'm still single / never married.

> Also, I keep thinking I might be too old to have the real cute and young girls.

Ehh...if Rodney Carrington can pull it off, so can you. ;)

[–]Trance-World0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Be a man

[–]Noodlesoupe20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’m sure they’re mad because you are more attracted to younger women and they are losing value. Don’t be mad at biology

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OP, my advice to men around your age is to pump and dump these women.

Accept their new interest but never ever take them seriously.

Have sex with them, then ghost them. Lead them on if you have to. If they want a relationship right away, agree to it, then have sex with her, then break up/ghost.

That’s the way you get revenge on them.

Only seriously commit to younger women.

[–]cydestiny0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Understand this, are you struggling because of your childhood or your parents OR it's just merely a choice?

Why cling on the past? What are you doing now to improve yourself? What have you build? What is your mission?

[–]zachthrowaway3000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

when you really understand women you realise they are fucked in the head.

[–]KuritaT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Guys, thanks for all the responses. Some good input for me to think about.

Some people were focused on finding out whether I am improving myself and investing in my future, here is what I do:

- I've been working out for 6 years straight, I lift, run and I have a bike. 6 days a week, 1 rest day.

- I have a full-time job with shitty payment, currently working on starting my own business and I'm studying in my spare time for this reason. I will have my diploma in 02/2021. I'm planning to keep the job in part-time at first.

- I play guitar in a band along with 3 other girls. (no gigs, just started playing 2 years ago, it's casual whenever we have the time to meet up)

- Traveled to Brazil last year, made me want to learn portuguese, so I am learning some portuguese whenever I have time left.

So...quite a lot if you ask me. I have my own apartment and it's great...

The ONE thing I lack is a social circle. I have a few friends and also a few brazilian people that I got to know are still in regular contact with me, but I don't have a whole lot of people who call me or hang out with me on a regular basis.

Got fucked over and was let down by "friends" and girlfriends in the past, I tend to shut down and avoid relationships... There are a few people I still trust, though.

Also tried out Tinder recently, got a few easy lays in the past but that was in 2013. Seems to be too much work in 2020. Deleted the app as I cannot compete with the bling bling some people demonstrate on their IGs, was only getting matches with women around 30 and fat whales.

So yeah, I don't think it's hopless, maybe you guys are right and I should see a therapist.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How do you guys deal with the fact they never cared for you in their golden days and now that there are no better options left, they are finally giving you a shot?

Pitilessly.

All attractive women jerk guys around...... they jerked me around when they were young and I was naive.

I don't jerk people around and I am always honest, but equally I'm not going to protect her future feelings at the expense of my own life. I've got the upper hand now: great life, great options. Most importantly I am going to keep it that way. No sacrifices for a gender that has done nothing but try and exploit me. No settling down, no financial incentives for her. No preferential treatment. No monogamy.

but so far I refuse to date/fuck these women but so far I refuse to date/fuck these women

But you date/fuck younger women?

That makes no sense if women's uncaring nature is the problem.

Maybe you just wanna bang younger girls, and that's fine.

Also, I keep thinking I might be too old to have the real cute and young girls.

Nah, you can still have the early 20's girls. You're fine.

[–]RepresentativeMood20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

if you want revenge just pump and dump them. they are looking for beta bucks, give em a taste of reality

[–]kclanton800 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Deal only with women under the age of 25.... problem solved.

Let go of anger and revenge..... Both useless feelings.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dangling the relationship out there and stringing them along with no real shot at commitment.

[–]GYN-k4H-Q3z-75B0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You need to stop caring. Let them become old and miserable. Keep fishing for what you want.

[–]KidGrizz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

31 is still young man. I had my lil one at 26 n wish I waited until my 30s. I’m single now after my last relationship with a young woman she was 6 years younger. I am happy to be single! I’m not pressed over any females at all. A model can walk right pass me n I won’t give two shits. N e way don’t be mad or try to get back at them. Just find what you want and have fun. Don’t spend ya time being angry life it too short. And you don’t need a woman to make you happy. Find happiness on your own. I prolly stay single forever. Fuck em lol

[–]catsdontsmile-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

These women to me look like second hand leftovers. I don't think you should be angry, be repulsed. It's even worse when they start prying about your career as if betting you, and it's like... Dude the only reason I'm talking to you is I'm bored and waiting for a better option to show up. The moment I see them show signs of this I ignore it, and if they insist I just hard next them. I'm not in there for a job interview by someone who's beneath me. Hell, if you think about it this way is treating them like they used to treat men. Find peace in that.

If you think further about it, you are all treating each other according to your smv.

[–]U_GotTriggered-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

You should hate fuck them and slide out.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get revenge by dangling your commitment tantalizingly in front of Wall Women. Fuck them with a vague implication that commitment is possible, and never contact them again.

Then, when that becomes unsatisfying, realize that you needn't pin your happiness on the behaviours of other people. Then you can stop being angry.

[–]drevenx13-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

I see nothing wrong with your thinking. Could be worse, for example you could be a simping beta husband getting cheated on and about to pay the divorce and child support.

You’re doing alright.



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