What to say when she asks “is everything ok?”

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June 18, 2020

Pretty early on in this process. Very much into the STFU phase of things, with occasional ass slap/grab, tease, etc. I am giving her a lot less attention as I am focusing more on myself and less on getting validation from her. What’s the best way to answer the “are you ok?” Or “why are you being quiet?” or “do you want to talk about anything?” Any thoughts?

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Title What to say when she asks “is everything ok?”
Author DanPaladin
Upvotes 23
Comments 15
Date 18 June 2020 12:46 AM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/696807
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/hb45uw/what_to_say_when_she_asks_is_everything_ok/
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[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine27 points28 points  (5 children) | Copy

“But I walk around with big dick energy and she feels it so she asks if I’m ok.”

Yep. She’s scared and her hamster is wondering what happened to my little beta. He’s acting different. Betas aren’t allowed to act like this.

Keeping AAing this. “I just love hanging out with my favorite person .. me”. Smile , wink, walk away.

But trust me, at one point she’ll corner you , really pissed off, probably accuse you of cheating, and demand an answer- it’s really just a comfort test disguised as a shit test- Just tell her you’re working on yourself trying to be better person- that’s it. Simple, Kiss, hug. Don’t talk about fight club. Shut your fcking mouth. MMSLP has a section on this comfort test.

Great progress man.

Start with Mmslp drive bys on her. Ramp up the game. Are you learning basic game skills yet? Kino, Opener, attraction, banter, stacking, push pull, accusing, hook point, comfort building, seduction. When you’re married and good at it, you can go straight to seduction because the attraction level is there.

Don’t go full retard faggot with the stfu stuff and being quiet. You’re Supposed to be having fun. A red pill man is happy. He can see threw the BS matrix and has the cheat code now. Game is fun AF and she’ll thank you for it.

[–]DanPaladin[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Great answer. Thanks bro.

[–]IveSawitall2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

"Don't talk about fight club".. I still haven't been able to understand this slogan even though I have heard it several times now. Could you point me to a direction of understanding ?

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

In the movie, TD says it’s the first rule of fight club. He knows betas can’t keep their fucking mouths shut, they constantly need validation, and if the police ever find out they will shut it down.

Worse thing you can do is tell your wife you read about this stuff online and how it will help “us”. The Shit tests will intensify in magnitude and frequency.

She’ll always see what you’re doing as a trick and will call you out on it. Oh,, that’s a “drive by” or Kino you're doing on me... don’t get any thoughts today because I’m in the mood ,, bla bla bla.

Just like the love language BS - you haven't spoke my love language in weeks (just happens to be expensive gifts) so no pussy for you and then she will shame you for even thinking about it.

Women will always hold it over you as a trump card.

Worse case if you don’t make any new progress in the gym or attraction or not fast enough , she’ll use that against you later when she doesn’t feelz attraction.

Bottom line: Women just want you to get it. Shouldn’t have to read it from a book. It will magnify her resentment she already has towards you for being a fucking loser beta. It needs to be perceived as natural. It will be once you internalize all of this.

There’s a reason the wizard has his curtains closed in Oz.... she doesn’t need to know how it all works. She just wants to feelz and have fun- like a fucking child. Give it to her.. and she will give it to you. Keep it closed and shut your fucking mouth.

Women are programmed to reward their Prize with sex. Become the prize faggot.

[–]IveSawitall4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck! Nailed it to death. Thank you OP for that effort and time.. well explained.

[–]Tyred_BiggumsRed Beret16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

Had the exact same thing happen to me today.

Quick backstory: been extremely sick Monday and Tuesday. Like second time in my life I thought I could die and it’d be a reprieve.

Anyhow, got this today from the Nurse I’m dating (who fucking gave me an IV Monday because I was dryer than a drunk captain’s wife’s sandy vagina). I wanted to be alone in my misery since then.

“Is everything ok?”

My answer: you need a hug. “Yep”. Problem solved.

It’s not the fact I was in rough shape the last two days. She doesn’t give a fuck (ok maybe a little bit of concern but feelz gotta feelz).

Be congruent, feelz into your woman and give her that roller coaster of emotion.

Just play with her - she doesn’t want to hear your struggles. She wants you to be the oak.

[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret17 points18 points  (4 children) | Copy

Go read WISNIFG.

Negative inquiry and AM.

Are you OK?

"Why wouldn't I be ok?"

"Not really. I'm worried about how i can logistically reproduce the human population after covid."

"Am I ok? I might be." Smile, slap ass, walkaway.

This is supposed to be fun, dude.

This is usually a sign the hamster is running and STFU is working.

Sidebar.... ------>

[–]PillUpAss13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

I always liked “I’m ok, but my dick has something it needs to work out with you.” Many a BJ has followed.

[–]Vegasman200020 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"not really, it has been too long since I spanked you"

[–]business---travel3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Go read WISNIFG.

WISNIFG is such a great read. I cannot recommend it enough to guys I know that need that book.

[–]DanPaladin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Love it. Thanks bro.

[–]apietroski84 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Sounds like someone is looking for some leadership from the captain. Do you know where she can find any?

You need to do more than just avoid your wife and not talk to her.

[–]DanPaladin[S] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

We talk a lot. I’m just honestly at a loss of what to say other than “no I’m doing great”. She clearly sees some change in me. Down 33 pounds to 6ft 175. Socializing, exercising, etc. But I walk around with big dick energy and she feels it so she asks if I’m ok.

She grabbed my dick for the first time in ages this past weekend and we fucked with passion. I mean I know I’m a faggot but that is tremendous progress for me. I’m just looking for advice from guys who aren’t as big a faggot as me in regard to this specific scenario.

[–]apietroski86 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

The last time my wife asked me that I told her i have a beautiful wife, two kids, a roof over our heads and our health. I also told her I could think of a few things that would make me even better. Then proceed to fuck with passion.

Newb gains are nice, but they will plateau. Keep reading, lifting, and remember you are the prize.

[–]UsefulWalk41 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"You're right its quite in here, lets go upstairs and make some noise"

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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