I went out with a girl a couple times. Had a good time. Did everything right (I think) yet no sex (but aggressive make outs). Logistics are against us because neither of us have our own place. I was steering us to go back to her moms place.

Anyway I’ve gotten pretty good at closing on dates, so I don’t think it was anything I did wrong per say. I’d like to give her one more chance, but my question is about how long the soft next should last.

It’s been 2.5 weeks since I reached out. She sent me a couple snaps late one night of her in bed, saying wanna come to bed? I viewed them in the morning and didn’t reply.

Have I waited long enough to initiate again? I don’t want to wait too much longer since we haven’t hooked up yet, but I want to get the point across that if she doesn’t put out, she won’t get my attention.

Do you think I’m good to fire away? Or would you wait a little longer?