If you are married, your wife probably has cheated, might still be cheating and definitley knows who her backup man is.

If you are spinning a plate, it's highly probable she is fucking other men and definitley has branches in sight if you don't offer committment when she needs it.

If you are in an LDR, then you're retarded and are 100% in an imaginary relationship while she gets plowed with you as the safety net.

I spin a soft harem and my longest and favorite told me recently that she met someone else, has gone to excersize class with him, and is seriously thinking of leaving her husband to start something with this guy. By now, she knows getting committment from me is like squeezing water from a stone. I rarely get lunch with her, let alone dates, if sex isnt in the cards. It's why she can't cut me loose despite knowing better. Women are brutally honest with the guys that dont judge and are seen as fuckboy/playthings. Most men will never meet the woman in front of him.

Another young woman who works for me is engaged. Asked my advice last month if she should have a last fling.

I tell every guy who doesn't believe it: Crack that IPhone or email acct and meet your girl.

Will you find undying devotions of love to you, conversations with her BFF about turning down dick because relationship, or will you see her praising what a fine catch you are and her worries about keeping you pleased?

No, No, and Fuck no.

You will find dick pics, emotional affairs, and orbiters you never heard of. And thats if you are lucky.

So Mr Bitter OP, what's a guy to do?

The only way to possibly keep a woman straight with you is if she thinks you will find out and dump her ass for disloyalty. And you best be her best option.

Even that isn't a lock so why not go the truly masculine way and never fully give her the keys to your life. Keep something back. Make her eternally and tirelessly work to fully gain your commitment and always keep it dangling just out of reach. The brass ring on the merry go round.

Now, I love women. They are fun and a great source of danger and play.

But...I love me the best and womens love a challenge