She Stopped Mid Blowjob & Kicked Me Out

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A little bewildered.

This girl asked for my number at the store. We went out on a date that ended in making out. She invited me over to her place yesterday.

We played some beer pong with her friends which then led us to the bedroom. I escalated and started giving her oral. She tells me to take my clothes off and gets down and starts blowing me.

Mid blowjob; She says she can’t do this and I have to leave. Tried to comfort but she was very adamant about me leaving.

Everything seemed to be going just fine so I was a little bewildered. Just made sure she was okay.

Besides the fact that she may have some trauma related issue or heavy ASD; any ideas as to why this happened?

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Title She Stopped Mid Blowjob & Kicked Me Out
Author AsianAway
Upvotes 150
Comments 126
Date 25 June 2020 03:21 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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anti-slut defense

[–]glowing_dolphins388 points389 points  (28 children) | Copy

It’s not about you, and it’s not yours to fix. Some people are having a tough time in their heads. You’re a stranger, and it’s not really your business.

Abandon your search for narrative closure.

Also, I know it can be suuuper fun, but really don’t stick your dick in crazy.

[–]TelasRayo66 points67 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is solid advice, look no further.

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[–]TheRedPillRipper20 points21 points  (6 children) | Copy

Also don’t forget to get that “After Text.” Just in case.

Godspeed and good luck!

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[–]juliusstreicher8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

If ANYBODY mentions it to you, or texts you, do NOT answer them for any reason. She could come up with a rape accusation, and you don't know which of them are recording your conversation.

[–]RagingMayo2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Could someone explain this to me?

[–]TheRedPillRipper2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Search The After Text on the main sub for info.

Godspeed and good luck!

[–]RagingMayo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ok I looked it up, but what should I write, if I would be at a girl’s place?

[–]thesoloronin-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not game alpha enough to understand this yet. Would appreciate some more elaboration on this.

[–]BarcaLiverpool7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

You’re chillen man. Don’t think much of it. Things like this happen. Keep your head up and strive for perfection. Cheers king

[–]Stargazer3413 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Golden wisdom. Apply this going forward

[–]pm_me_domme_pics7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah nothing but facts here. Narrative closure is rarely available in situations like these and you're better off not knowing anyways

[–]Dimenzije906 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy

Im not from an english speaking country. What does "search for narrative closure" mean?

[–]longlimbedalbatross3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

It means to learn why what happened happened.

[–]glowing_dolphins3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

You need to know the end of the story. What happens next. Did the hero live? Did the football team win? Why was the girl so sad?

“Closure” = the feeling of the story being complete.

“Narrative” = story.

The search for that feeling can make you do things that are not useful or good. Life is full of stories that disappear, rather than being explained.

[–]Dimenzije900 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Thank you. Really nice explenation. And very wise words.

[–]glowing_dolphins0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No prob. Source is a sidebar book “the way of the superior man”.

The language is a bit waffly (“move your energy“) but the message is great. Found it about 10 years ago. Read it about once a year. It’s gold.

[–]SavorThePill4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It seems more and more people are going fucking crazy. 2020 is breaking people, or driving them to become erratic and irrational (which is a marvel in itself, considering many people were already quite irrational). In finance, we'd call this period of collective deterioration and/or dysfunction of many people's psyches as a squeeze.

[–]LaaNeet5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy

but really don’t stick your dick in crazy.

Why not?

[–]arokosi21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

Go try it and see. Have fun.

[–]Greaterbird9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

They let their emotions do all their thinking for them, which is great for sex but dangerous once they turn on you. If a girl says she has BPD, run.

[–]thesoloronin2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Most of the time they won’t say it. One finds out through her behaviour and the emotional roller coaster eventually.

Been thru that shit. Not gonna put myself thru that again.

[–]UniversalFapture0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy



[–]Greaterbird0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Two different disorders

[–]salezman126 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you are asking "why not" you do not have the experience, ability, or constitution to do it without it ending poorly.

[–]SavorThePill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

you askin for a case, son

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Correct. TRP is a numbers game. We try to teach you how to maximize your odds and success rate by knowing what generally works, and, more importantly, by knowing how to figure out what works.

We do not attempt to account for the fall of every sparrow, not only because we cannot, but because we wouldn't if we could.

Some women will just have some unusual shit going on. Speculate about it only out of idle curiosity, as a form of entertainment... because you can't fix it, and will likely never even know what it is.

Do not overinvest time, thought, care, or effort into any woman who has not yet demonstrated, over time, that such investment will be worthwhile.

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Guarnerre1995178 points179 points  (3 children) | Copy

Bro youre either a rebound or shes cheating.

She has someone else on her mind.

Move on

[–]CassWCD23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

this is it. no need to read any further.

[–]Black JesusDerekMorganBAU285 points286 points  (42 children) | Copy

She had a man. 100%.

[–]drevenx1348 points49 points  (8 children) | Copy

Well, at least she had some remorse. I've fucked girls who cheated on their man without any consideration or feeling. I call them hoes.

[–]PreEntertain15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

I call them fun

[–]theguytheguy100020 points21 points  (4 children) | Copy

yeah. dey hoes.

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[–]RagingMayo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Or she could just be a cheating bitch.

[–][deleted]  (1 child) | Copy


[–]mickenrorty13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeh it just means OP wasn’t hot enough to be guilt free

[–]mr_Tobbor54 points55 points  (8 children) | Copy

Last minute resistence? In the middle of the suction?

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten115 points116 points  (4 children) | Copy

Guaranteed tell she is cheating with you. That kinda guilt is STRONG

[–]silvereddi40 points41 points  (1 child) | Copy

Well his cock was in her mouth eventually, a bit too late for her to realize. It’s still cheating, could’ve also finished her job.

[–]TFWnoLTR31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy

There you go, applying male logic to female behavior.

[–]mrmaika1016 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yup. Happened to me a few months ago. Best move is to pack your bags and find another broad.

[–]1DullIntroduction18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

It just happened.

[–]golgynat0r9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

my friend's ex did this to his best friend, stopping mid-bj packed her things and left in tears ....

few days later he felt something was off, pressured her and she said everything, not enough attention (even tho he was with her 24/7)

[–]Sad_Sleeper2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Watch what they do, not what they say. It was too much attention more likely.

[–]golgynat0r1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]mrrooftops13 points14 points  (23 children) | Copy

It's rare, but some girls like fucking over guys when he is being pleasured. It's a form of abusive control by withdrawing what he desires the most knowing that it will screw with his mind.

[–]Black JesusDerekMorganBAU18 points19 points  (21 children) | Copy

Occam's razor. Usually the simplest explanation is the best.

Besides, I've lived it. Got kicked out in the middle of eating this bitch's pussy. Gave me some homemade pasta and sent me on my way.

[–]brosky733110 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

2 servings of pasta, nice

[–]SteveJobsIdiotCousin19 points20 points  (18 children) | Copy

What are y’all doing eating box anyways? Most of these girls still have other dudes cum up in there, plus it’s the most extreme form of validation there is.

AMS says don’t eat box, I find it repulsive anyways so I welcome this advice.

I keep a hitachi in the nightstand and when the girl asks what it’s for, I let her know it’s bc I don’t eat pussy. All is forgiven after a few orgasms from the D, the D + hitachi or just the hitachi.

Not shitting on you m8, just offering my perspective. Don’t know how y’all do it! Ewwww!!!!


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[–]KidBrody77-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

If you are grossed out by vaginas you are definitely on the homosexual spectrum. Probably more homo that hetero honestly. The reason gay men are gay is because they are disgusted and grossed out by vaginas.

[–]nDoMitable4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I get more hard when im getting head and less hard when im giving head....

I thought i was one of the few that wasnt about it

[–]peachez2006 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

What kind of nasty ass ho trusts a dude to sanitize a sex toy in-between hook ups? Fucking gross man.

[–]idevastate7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Eating pussy is for me man, it's so fun.

[–]CryptoViceroy7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fair play man, but if your fucking sloots then I'd be cautious eating box.

Literally last night I fucked some slut in a bush, we get back to her friends and she's bragging about me being the 3rd guy she'd fucked in a day. Glad I wrapped up tbf.

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[–]SteveJobsIdiotCousin4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy

Dick is all external - easily cleaned w a few swipes of a washrag. Pussy is not. That 3rd party cum is still up in there festering and slowly discharging!

[–]KidBrody771 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

You don't lick inside her hole LOL. You must be terrible at oral. You lick her clit which is external and well above her hole.

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[–]AgreeableHelicopter24 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Dude...I don't even eat out my own gf let alone a random bitch who's fucking 5 guys in a day

[–]OneMoreOneMoreTime2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve seen it. Scariest shit I have to fear in this life.

[–]ay-fuh-q41 points42 points  (3 children) | Copy

She felt guilty about cheating. ACCEPTING pleasure is easier for a cheater to do than GIVE pleasure.

[–]thesoloronin4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fucking hell. I needed this piece of info like the last piece to my puzzle.

Thanks a billion!

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[–]ay-fuh-q1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Think about it. Lets say YOU are the one cheating with another girl.

You don't fuck the other girl. You don't go down on the other girl. You just let her blow you. In your mind, this is the gentlest form of cheating because YOU didn't do anything to provide pleasure for another person. All you did was accept pleasure. You still only give pleasure to your girlfriend. In your mind, you "didn't really cheat" because you didn't do anything at all for the other girl. She only did it to you.

So, if we go back to OP's description. He went down on her. No problem for her.
She starts to go down on him and then, mid blowjob, she stops and sends him packing. The guilt of her having a boyfriend and sucking a different dick was too much for her.

It exemplifies the cliche statement of: "I was sucking his dick for like 20 seconds and then thought of you so I stopped."

[–]IXseed67 points68 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is one of those "bitches is goofy" moment. Unless you said something dumb like "marry me" or something.

[–]MindlessCalendar40 points41 points  (0 children) | Copy

She was probably cheating and had LMR.

[–]lonelydude196 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]OrzhovPalatine27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy

All on her, could be anything from shes recently out of a relationship, she knows you're not sticking around, etc etc.

Who knows, you don't seem to of talked her out of fucking you which is all that matters.

Something happened on her end, who knows what it is. Let her sort it out and go about your day.

[–]Protocol_Apollo26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

Happened to me before...later found out she had a boyfriend and their relationship was very hot and cold: fake breakups, real breakups, fake makeups, real makeups.

Or maybe she just found your dick disgusting.

[–]__TheDon__8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Most likely had a BF

[–]ppvknifefight37 points38 points  (1 child) | Copy

Your dong smelled like boiled bologna.

[–]travlingsomewhere6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

She probably had a bf lol

[–]Jeremykla12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Could also be a turn on for her. Some girls get off from getting you blue balls.

Don't overthink it and just move on. To many bitches to care about this shit.

[–]_BrownPanther4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You just dodged a bullet. Congratulations.

[–]Zanford5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your timeline was confusing - you said you'd hooked up before on several prior booty calls? Had she blown you all the way and swallowed before, or not?

Most likely just late ASD (other commenters said she may be cheating and got hit by a wave of guilt; possible). Unlikely but possible she's a sadistic tease who enjoyed blueballing ya.

Her issues are not your circus, not your monkeys, move on.

Don't contact her. If she reaches out, maaaybe consider a no effort booty call (i.e. she comes over and gets down to business). Don't go down on her.

[–]ThreeEyez8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yea she’s probably dealing with some shit bro. Don’t over think it. Go bang some other chicks. She’s probably no good for you man. You don’t want those issues, trust me. Plenty of women out here.

[–]arokosi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


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[–]alfred31111 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Perhaps she saw some warts in your dick and had to backed out and be nice not to tell you about it

[–]Kabuki4312 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's in a full blown relationship, you were a short escape. She figured out what she can get away with, and disposed you. Nothing on you bro.

[–]Fiendorfoes2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’s either married or dating someone else important, most likely. (Not that that should matter to you but yeah)

[–]Livecrazyjoe3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol take a shower bro.

[–]Killjoys131 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Whatever doubt I had, your edit cleared it. Now I would tell you to kick this bitch out of your mid and get going with your life. Some people are fucked in their brain and she seems to be one of them. You don't have to fix her and you shouldn't even give two fucks about her. Let her handle herself.

[–]Aspanu241 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

There’s no telling man. Could be cheating on her boyfriend, could’ve been raped & having flashback, could have some stressful shit going on in her life and it’s out of character for her to suck dick. Who knows but just forget about it and go on to the next

[–]pdiggs15001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've had this happen to me.

In the middle of a Smash session "No this is wrong, I can't do it"

[–]_Last_Man_Standing_1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

she's a dude

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Clean your ass bro.

[–]Stupyyy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don't let your dick rule your life unless you want to wreck your life.

[–]kclanton800 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

An abnormal situations like this it's best not to try and figure out what happened. Outliers are outliers. Just move on and do not contact her.....I bet she will reach out to you anyway eventually to finish what she started

[–]PolesWithGoals0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Perhaps the holy music stopped and that was a signal to her

[–]flyinghorse10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Did you grab her head and push down as she was giving oral? I know some women who hate that with men they dont know well

[–]ShittySoftwar30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She was cheating bro

[–]peachez2000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Either she remembered that there is a God and that he frowns on fornication or you have some kind of genital warts she spotted.

[–]peachez2000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe you kept hitting the back of her throat and it pissed her off

Or maybe your precum tastes like ass.

[–]Tambamwham0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeh... she has a boyfriend

[–]peachez2000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe your moans sounded like a kitten. Or maybe you were laying there like a dead fish. Or maybe you kept slamming her head down too hard. Ask her if you want a do-over or move on if you don't care.

[–]Bleu_Cheese_Pursuits0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Get prepared for a false allegation of sexual assault...

[–]Nergaal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

LMR. Probably your mistake was not distracting her enough

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[–]CareIsMight0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

She probably has issues. Similar thing happened to me after a ONS. Chick completely broke down, tried to comfort her but she kicked me out. It's half wanting to be loved/being with someone and half questioning it and becoming emotionally overwhelmed. Not your fault.

[–]ynwa_glastobater0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

She probably has issues if she was the one that asked his number first

[–]CareIsMight0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Do you reckon if a girl asks for a guy's number first that it's a sign she has issues? Just curious because it's the first I've heard of it.

[–]DirtyLickins0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Are you blessed with a micropenis?

[–]Intentional690 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don't feel too bad. I had a girl I was on and off with for a couple of months. She meets me at the bar and we go to her place, mid blow job her phone rings at 2am she answers it still going and then stops. She tells me I need to leave because her bf is on the way over lol

[–]Gwentonio0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Expect a toomee# post

[–]HumbleTrees0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Your dick cheese was extra mature and she prefers it mild.

[–]Psychological_Radish-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

If there was one thing you did wrong, it was not banging her on the first date. You gave her too much time to think about it and she got cold feet. I've learned from situations like this that you have to seize the moment. A girl may be hot and horny totally down to bang one night, then go completely cold a few days later. That's the nature of being driven by emotions.

Of course, this is just my speculation. None of us were there. Maybe the end result would have been the same no matter what you did. Whatever the case, forget it and move on. Under normal circumstances everything would have gone well, this is just one of those rare things.

[–]ThenIJizzedInMyPants0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A girl may be hot and horny totally down to bang one night, then go completely cold a few days later.

100% true.

[–]ChaotixEDM0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Your dick prob tasted bad or something lol

[–]Bungeeeeee0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

1# Don't be so invested. You are there, but only because you want to and you are looking forward to return to your hobbies/mission/some other girl you are fucking or dating. But you decided to give her the time of the day.

2# Be in your frame. Be "above" her. Dominate her. Let her enter your frame.

3# Always lead, be assertive and do what you want. She follows.

Seems like you are her plate and she is calling the shots and you want her more than she does you. It's obvious she felt guilty/was out of the moment, but following the above would have still gotten you respect and sex.

[–]MikeAlphaGolf0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She’s either cheating, or you have mad dick cheese..

[–]gopalvinay0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe your dick smelled like her ex-Boyfriend

[–]mr_Tobbor-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy

What is clear: She doesn't respect you. If you have played the game right or had a (primarily) A mode behavior with her she will respect (suck and give you anal easily) you. Respect means: She gives you anal and suction, preferebly the second immediately after the first without gargling).

[–]Seddit bloop dispenserWjourney-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy


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