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I Genuinely am disgusted by simps and it's fucking me up.[rant]

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June 25, 2020

We all know the guys I'm talking about. The thirsty messages, calling women queens, being a doormat etc. I even have friends who are like that and every time I see them posting stuff it just makes me disgusted.

I just see them make mistakes(that I used to make) and know that it's so avoidable. I even catch them being depressed over females. I know that trying to give them advice will never work(I tried). It's like they can't see the bigger picture and give their dignity up to be with a girl who just uses them.

Am I just mad at the world or myself? I don't know why I have the urge to want to change people, I really see the potential and they're wasting it away on girls. Are simps maybe just destined to be simps forever? If I could change couldn't they?

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Title I Genuinely am disgusted by simps and it's fucking me up.[rant]
Author Theoneandholy69
Upvotes 123
Comments 86
Date 25 June 2020 06:05 AM UTC (8 months ago)
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[–]fretty55593 points94 points  (12 children) | Copy

You're mad at yourself. If you were acting on your full potential you wouldn't be concerned about what other men are doing. And unless you can get any girl in the world I suggest you don't judge others. I do think you should try to help them if you feel like it though, but don't let their actions have power over your emotions.

[–]ogpine032527 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, this sums it up here. OP shouldn't give a single fuck about other guys. They have no bearing in his own life.

[–]xnesteax6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

They make a difference because they push the egos of the women so that even fatties feel like a 7/10

[–]Ranarrseeds4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Why even care about fatties in the first place. If you’re jacked and successful they are and will always be irrelevant waste of space (and food).

[–]xnesteax0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Problem is though that even the ripped 'chads' be simpin

[–]throwawaycunt19970 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Except women by default are insecure. The only difference is that a broken fatty with a temporarily fed ego is going to sing her whale song of butchedness louder. Treat like any other large scale (no pun intended) shit test like feminism -> ignore these hoes that don’t matter.

[–]proactive-defense2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Why make pussy the measurement of oneself? Some women will just never want a particular individual, realistically.

[–]fretty555-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah you shouldn't really make it the measurement of oneself, but in terms of judging other men on their interactions with women it's a good way to humble yourself. Also though the scientific measure of a man's success technically is how much he can reproduce

[–]throwawaycunt19972 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

That intuitive psyche analysis right off the bat is impressive.

[–]fretty5552 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]nateydanger0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Can't help agree. Is someone spending money on an onlyfans account getting in the way of your workout, your journey of self improvement and maximization of your own attributes? Then why the fuck do you care.

[–]dracoj210 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

How do you find out your natural attributes to max them out?

[–]nateydanger1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Failure. If I can attest my success to any one single thing it's failure. I started by making myself a promise that for 1 year I would say yes to anything anyone asked me to do. I tried shit, failed. Tried some more shit, liked it. All the while I dedicated myself TO myself. Healthy lifestyles, good eating, working out.

There's no secret sauce. This is a journey away from external validation to internal validation. Today I dont need a single person or thing to make me happy.

[–][deleted] 45 points46 points  (0 children) | Copy

The less masculine men become and the more feminised society gets. Higher value men will become a rarer commodity. You can either use that to your advantage or bitch about it.

Play on Players.

[–][deleted]  (24 children) | Copy


[–]ohris135 points136 points  (15 children) | Copy

In my experience. Simp culture deludes women into thinking that they deserve such treatment, which is troublesome.

[–]p-seudonym88 points89 points  (9 children) | Copy

They may think that they want to be treated like a queen, but at the end of the day they still want to be degraded by Chad. You can’t trump biology.

[–]ohris35 points36 points  (7 children) | Copy

Entitled women have inflated standards that the objective Chad could be billy beta in their eyes. Also, to maintain their perceived superiority, Entitled women will shit test the fuck out of possible suitors to break their frame and simp them up, and if they maintain frame, these women will actively fight their instinct to submit thinking that they deserve better. Seducing entitled women is possible but it's such a grind that 95% of the time it's not worth it.

TL;DR: entitlement won't stop women's desire to be "degraded by Chad", but it sure will hinder it.

[–]p-seudonym15 points16 points  (4 children) | Copy

Yeh, good point. I’m shocked at how testy sub-5 women are these days - definitely a result of their egos being pumped up on social media, tinder, etc.

[–]longjeep20056 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

It really is shocking, and funny how highly some <5 girls think of themselves. Like, I wouldn’t hit that if I were desperate and alone, and you’re acting bitchy to me, a stranger? lol. They don’t get that brazen confidence from nowhere, it comes from the social media and the guys who fuck anything

[–]Pycnostyle1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

People who are high value and know it aren't mean to others. Confident and even a bit cocky? Sure! But when you're already on top, you don't need to cut others down to try to boost yourself up.

But, if you were unattractive and knew it, wouldn't you be pissy too? These women can taste the social media validation yet they know they can't parlay that into bagging a Chad for more than a quick pump and dump. So they're bitter and frustrated and take their failures out on men, in general.

Personally, I just avoid those who ooze negativity. I'd rather spend my limited time with people who are fun to be around.

[–]AngTheEphemeral0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Do women like that end up losing in the end? By having standards that are higher than what they can attract / get to commit to them and by "pricing themselves out of the market"?

[–]KilluminatiGotti20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Absolutely they do. They end up bitter and alone.

[–]thesoloronin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

”The juice is not worth the squeeze” - Rich Cooper

[–]ihavenopeopleskills0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ugh. Why would a man *want* an entitled-mentality woman in the first place?

[–]sportsdude5230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

this is something i've never really understood. how come their biology has them wanting to be degraded by a Chad?

[–]superomar132 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Which is why its awesome when you can fuck with their expectations and show them they aren't some special snowflake lol

[–]DerpJungler5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

The greatest lesson of TRP comes when you manage to change sides and see your mistakes In others.

From blue pilled ("simp") crying when chads steal their girls, to being a chad and thanking the simps for their girls.

[–]azynporter10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

That is true but if you think about it, simps are the reason why onlyfans, instagram “models”, and (to some stand point) feminazis exist. Maybe some other shit as well.

[–]jadensmithsson0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nah, it’s all a byproduct of feminism. Simps just reinforce the “necessity” for those things.

[–]HisRoyalAwesomeness2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Next time you see a simp, go up to him, shake his hand, and thank him for his service."


[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree

[–]MrAnderzon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This guy gets it. Less competition

[–]mega_kook0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hot take and I like it.

[–]LIEX4400 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

😭😭😭 this made my day

[–]reduxDev12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah they can change, but fuck em dude more women for you.

[–]Siyuen_Tea7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're projecting your self hatred on to other people, they remind you of what you once were and it bothers you.

Take a minute and reflect, how did the advice of others effect you. Were you ready to change the first time you heard the advice or did it take time to accept. When you first heard the advice, did you genuinely believe it as true or was it a reality you learned to accept.

Don't be too mad, all our minds have been broken in different ways. You can keep throwing the advice out there but in the end a person will only change when they're ready, not when you are.

[–]cockkksucker13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's not ur job dude. Upgrade urself, find cooler friends.

[–]Mission_Outcome4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Blue Pill conditioning is strong but after one too many bad experiences , they might come to the Red Pill by themselves.

[–]HisRoyalAwesomeness5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

I'm with you here. There is simply no clear way in hell that you (nor any of us) can change some poor simp's life for the better. Let them be.

They'll keep getting rejected again and again until one of two things happen:

1) See the light and realize the error of their ways


2) Give up and be bitter, vindictive, and possibly fade into inceldom or whatever the hell.

Then again, I could give a fuck what happens. Simps are easy competition. You can clean their clocks any day of the week.

[–]pyth0ns1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

or 3)
They finally get a chick that uses and abuses the fuck out of them... But hey, its just how its supposed to be right?

(Happy wife, happy life) :)

[–]HisRoyalAwesomeness0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good call.

[–]Naboo_the_enigma9 points10 points  (4 children) | Copy

I'm glad simps exist. I find it more worrying that trp is becoming more mainstream nowadays

[–]ImBiButClaimImStr81 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Why worrying? Are you insecure or lack abundance? If you're high value you shouldn't give a shit

[–]Naboo_the_enigma4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Not everything has to do with an "alpha" mindset. It being mainstream means it can be demonised even more and turn into something it wasn't originally. I.e. people taking it too far or not understanding the original meaning. Something you're clearly pointing out with these kind of comments.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I created TRP. It has been demonized since before its beginning.

It's not a movement anyway, so you need not worry about its appearance.

[–]BloodSurgery2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, as HumanSockPuppet pointed out, TRP isnt a religion, or a movement, or an ideology. Its pretty much a self improvement forum, that talks about how to get women, but not by doing PIA tricks, but by knowing how to be a man and understanding women.

[–]Vitamin_ABCDE2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why do you even care about this? Just be glad they exist; less competition for us.

[–]DiskKiller22 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe you're still in the anger phase yourself. Make progress. Eventually you can serve as a role model for the people who are starting to suspect something is wrong.

[–]y0ussefhesham2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's good for us though. The more simps, the easier life is us for us because we'll instantly standout.

[–]bandraboyz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]RelativeTeal2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're mad at yourself. Anger and desire are the same thing in ancient thinking. Why aren't you also mad at gay men for being effeminite, or poor people for being poor? These people are not your competition, but you see something of yourself in others that you hate. Grow up.

[–]kingofclubsmorde2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are projecting your own insecurities and demons. Otherwise you would not care, would live and let them live and lead by an example.

I have a suggestion: Find your trigger points, control your ego & emotions and learn about stoicism.

You are taking life too seriously.

[–]Somelier12342 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If your spending that much time worrying about other men and their shortcomings it’s a tell tale sign that you’re not as confident as you think you are.

[–]JulianUNE4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

The thing that amazes me is the men who comment on a picture of a girl with her legs spread about how they want to lick and eat.

What happened to fucking?

[–]drevenx133 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Simps are the reason 3/10 women and below believe they deserve 8/10 and above men. They make ugly women more valuable.

[–]OttoVonBismark711 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

their egos genuinely blow my mind, and there is 0 self-awareness

[–]Pycnostyle0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

If a particular woman is a 3/10 to you, why do you concern yourself with what her taste in men is? It makes no difference.

[–]drevenx131 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're right but it's kinda funny when a fat ugly woman look down on you because she thinks she's entitled to Chad and she will end up marrying him.

I've seen many fat ugly whales that dillusional.

[–]ASTRA-LUX1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You sound like you’re going through puberty.. wtf is wrong with you? Ever heard of stoicism?

[–]SoulRedemption1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get angry. Move on.

No point being continuously annoyed at something which is not in locus of your control, and especially something that does not affect your mission.

[–]ImBiButClaimImStr81 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"and it's fucking me up"

LOL. Chill champ.

[–]Redditorsheaven1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have faced A look alike scenario with my friend. (21,M). I feel like he always pedestialize women. Specially, attractive women. Lately he told my that we can hire escorts and have fun together. My opinion on escorts is clear that I would never spend extra money for someone who does not enjoy spending time with me. Moreover, I wanna spend time with the girl that I like, so we need to find some girls by approaching good looking girls in events or in restaurant etc. he told me “you are living in the dream” “you will be an old man when you will find a girl like that”. I questioned my friendship with such a simp lol. He is not an ugly guy at all. But he is definitely simp and low standard guy, Which is opposed to me.

And once our another friend approached to nice girl and get her insta, but this guy have told “how is that possible at all” LMAO

[–]KettleLogic1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Belle D makes £77k a week post tax from only fans. Just wanted to get ya even angrier.

[–]Theoneandholy690 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I actually respect her more than them lol

[–]KettleLogic0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah me too. Fantastic hustle.

[–]Pycnostyle0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I don't know who that is, but really? $5M/yr? That seems off, but if she can do it, more power to her!

[–]KettleLogic0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Shes the gamer bathwater girl.

I wish it was off. Her only fans is 35 a month with 19.2k subs.

[–]IXseed1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're "teaching" them the wrong way. Don't give advice. Lead by example. Are YOU the guy who's dating multiple women, got his fitness and money on lock and is just living a kickass life? Too many times I see dudes who are trying to be TRP spokesmen and are fat slobs who ain't getting no play and then wonder "Why do my friends simp? Why are they getting married and giving their power to the WAMEN!?"

[–]nastyhumans1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Simps weed out the women with self respect. A true Chad cant have any of that.

[–]EdvardMunch1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Likely its because you dont want to be so bad. Try accepting it and move on.

I eat everything, thats a secret to power. Become it all. I follow gay instagrams and im not gay, but its knowledge. Allow it all because it means little.

[–]pdiggs15001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not their fault. As a former SIMP, this is how we were raised in the west, Even in the east, countries like India and Korea have a strong Simp culture. Simps are a product of their environment.

A SIMP breaking through and discovering TRP is one of the most beautiful things.

Not sure why you're triggered though.

[–]idontevenlift371 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Simps should only bother you if your friends are exhibiting that kind of behavior, and if they are either try to help then see the error of their ways or get new friends. Yeah it’s pathetic to see, but simps are everywhere and our society relies on them. Stay on your grind.

[–]RagingMayo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I watched a video of Alexander Grace about simps and I really digged his view. He basically agreed that being a simp is a terrible state to be in, but that the term is kinda used as a word to degrade men. Instead we should feel compassion for these mofos and try to remember that many of us were exactly like them.

I try to share tidbits of red pill philosophy every now and then, when a friend is telling me about his problems with women. But I don't talk about red pill itself or try to shower them with what I have learned here. Step by step you start to sow some seeds in the heads of your bros. I don't do this proactively, but rather if it fits the situation.

[–]FlowFreal1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It is what it is.

The better for us though, so..

[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]levijonsn1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

i'm torn. It's like they're the easiest competition so it's nice to have them around but then again they really drive down the value of male attention.

[–]Pycnostyle1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lead by example. Some will follow; some will not. That's life. But doling out unsolicited advice is a waste of your time and effort.

[–]bumbuff0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

I can understand the sentiment, but do you know of what I am calling the 'gay fallacy'?

Politicians that seem the most vocal against anything related to gay rights always seems to be a closet gay. Or at least bi.

A more general description: People that tend to vocalize their issues with an item tend to relate to it far more frequently than they are truly in opposition to it.

There are plenty of examples in the U.S. right now. Every organization that is regularly on the News (including the news company themselves) has an example of "rules for thee, not for me" that we could dig up, if not shown daily on TV. It's a similar philosophy to what I described above.

My story has a point: who cares? It's not you, you can't change them. You shouldn't change them. You should change you to be the best you possible. You can't help those that won't help themselves.

Ranting about it so passionately only makes me think you're a self-aware simp. And maybe you hate yourself for it.

I could be wrong. But I don't think so.

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[–]bumbuff0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

If true then you have a lot of work left to do in reaching real enlightenment through RP. You wouldn't let this affect you.

Unless you're simply here for PUA advice, which means you're missing out on a lot and have very little self-respect.

[–]dracoj210 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks bro I appreciate the reply I’m definitely going to try that

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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