She’s not yours it’s just your turn...

sjswander94 · 2020-06-27T11:58:23+00:00

I like it re-worded and re-framed as " I'm not hers its just her turn"

BetterCallSaulsa · 2020-06-27T07:36:03+00:00

“Insanity is doing the same bitch over and expecting different results.”

DiskKiller2 · 2020-06-27T10:23:47+00:00

Life is a single player game. No one is ever truly “yours”.

Terdmuffin · 2020-06-27T06:29:11+00:00

You need to actually be with a few women to understand t It.

pimptendo · 2020-06-27T08:12:58+00:00

It’s common sense, no one is ever “yours”. I’m surprised that this comes as a surprise to people. Women and men are autonomous beings and they will be with you if your relationship is working. If that changes, they are free to move on, just like you are. The idea that she’s “yours” or that your partner “belongs” to you is dysfunctional bs.

Blue-Raft · 2020-06-27T05:46:32+00:00

This is the ultimate realty for me especially where I live, these chicks dick hop like crazy so they get no investment from me. Don’t know if it’s a good or bad thing, lots of pussy but when you look at the bigger picture it doesn’t seem right. It is what it is I guess.

dadudenines · 2020-06-27T05:26:59+00:00

Very true and sometimes dudes come back for another turn, then you go in for another yourself. Women can rationalize anything.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-06-27T12:50:17+00:00

"I was happy before you, I'll be happy after you"

HumanSockPuppet · 2020-06-27T14:29:21+00:00

"She's not yours, it's just your turn" is the mantra of the TRP new guy. It comes from a fundamental lack of faith in your own value and power.

As you begin to build that power, you will catch glimpses of the REAL endgame mantra: "You're not hers, it's just her turn."

Eventually, women will line-up for the privilege of sharing you.

Bruchibre · 2020-06-27T13:02:08+00:00

You're not hers it's just her turn

PreEntertain · 2020-06-27T16:50:06+00:00

here's how I see it.

I dont give two turtle dicks who's turn it is.

When my dick is inside her, that bitch is mine.

His_Hands_Are_Small · 2020-06-27T19:52:26+00:00

This is a bluepill principle and more-so a bluepill mentality.

If you can't keep her, then you're not good enough. If you were really the prize, then she wouldn't be leaving you, and fighting to find someone else. So many guys here pat themselves on the back, tell themselves that they are the prize, they can't get a girl to commit to them. Meanwhile, even half of betas can manage to keep a girl for life.

It's almost entirely a complete misunderstanding of what it means to be a leader and an alpha. Not saying that they can't get a girl, but there is a difference between the kind of attraction that actually keeps a girl, and the kind that is good for the dregs of women. If you only want short term relationships (not looking for marriage - which btw, is also bluepill, our grandparents didn't live that way, neither should you) then it works for them. But if you want a redpilled trad-family, it's difficult to maintain. Look for better women. If you can't find them, then you either aren't really trying, or you're too insecure.

Strip_Bar · 2020-06-27T09:56:52+00:00

I never liked this, and I don't really feel its "redpill", this is implying you give up on ever having a woman truly be wanting just you and only you, being forever "alpha widowed" by you if you were to leave.

If you have the ability to alpha widow a woman shes ALWAYS yours any time you want her.

getinthevan315 · 2020-06-27T10:01:25+00:00

I love this rule. It's one of the reasons I'm able to care so little about the women who come in and out of my life.

Beasts_0f_Burden · 2020-06-27T12:40:38+00:00

So is this just separating women from property, or are you saying we should act like relationships, even marriage, are fleeting? Like we only ever get a moment, never a life with someone. Even if that ‘moment’ is years.

I’m not quite sure I get the post’s aim..I am new here as well.

withouteverything · 2020-06-27T14:09:58+00:00

“Don’t invest too much in things out of your control”

CSLOBO · 2020-06-27T20:05:50+00:00

It's been one of the hardest things to internalize

blobyqube · 2020-06-27T10:25:18+00:00

Yeah, If your relationship is shit. If it actually works this aint true.

Sob0o · 2020-06-27T10:31:20+00:00

I'm not hers it is just her turn .

MrAnderzon · 2020-06-27T15:38:39+00:00

You don’t want to control her body. We’re not slave owners. Control the bitches mind and the body follows

Patrice O’Neal Rest in Pimp

brasilgringo · 2020-06-27T14:12:30+00:00

As mentioned in other comments, much better to reframe this as "It's just her turn with you."

AnonDude4Reddit · 2020-06-27T19:19:53+00:00

The light-switch effect really proved this to me.

wyota · 2020-06-27T21:13:49+00:00

This post is pure settling. It's sad that some "men" actually sink this low where they're willing to cuck themselves to have a short bit of "access" to women.

ppvknifefight · 2020-06-28T18:36:48+00:00

It's not been very powerful, honestly. It's way too "boogie man" and cowardly thinking for me, like the constant reminder that the relationship i'm in has an expiration date or the big bad chad is going to swoop my bitch. Nah, bitch made thinking.

I prefer very much the "who cares" principle. If/when my relationship ends, I'll handle it and get another chick. Done. I don't care.

noNooodleArms · 2020-06-27T16:34:38+00:00

Absolutely crippling. I had exclusive access to women under 30 for 18 years, over 3 LTR's. I was n = 4, n = 1, and n = 1. Now that I'm in my late 40's and refuse to fuck a new woman over 30, I just have to get used to the fact that I'm gonna be fucking guys girlfriends.

PolesWithGoals · 2020-06-27T16:13:12+00:00

I haven’t noticed this because I’m not desirable to women, will report back if that changes

Title	She’s not yours it’s just your turn...
Author	AceMav21
Upvotes	145
Comments	77
Date	June 27, 2020 5:18 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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