Co-worker accused me of staring at her ass (lifeguarding) Why are they like this?

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December 8, 2018
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I had a morning shift today and the co-worker was doing a private swimming lesson with a kid. I was guarding and looking at everyone in the water (scanning) to make sure no one is drowning. Everything is good. My shift ends and I swim for 30 minutes in the lap lanes. Once I get out, my co-worker is on the life guard stand (working her shift) and tells me to come over to her. She asks me why I was staring at her ass when she was in the pool. I literally had no idea what she was talking about. She said she SAW me staring LMFAO. I said she probably wanted me to stare, but I wasn’t, and I was focusing on doing my job. I then said something like, “Sad how I’m minding my own business lifeguarding and swimming, and then you come out of nowhere and make a lie like this. On everything that is holy (she’s catholic) I wasn’t staring, you’re strange.” She then just said “sorry.” Why do they have to make shit up out of thin air?

P.S. There’s cameras recording everything, so if she takes it up to higher management I’m safe.


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Title Co-worker accused me of staring at her ass (lifeguarding) Why are they like this?
Author Joeatomic
Upvotes 111
Comments 137
Date 08 December 2018 04:50 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/70094
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/a4c9mn/coworker_accused_me_of_staring_at_her_ass/
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[–]binrobinro217 points218 points  (5 children) | Copy

She just wants attention.

[–]bradtwo24 points25 points  (2 children) | Copy

there is a solid reason why this is the highest upvoted comment. it is either attention or sympathy that she was seeking. by you not giving her attention, the void is filled with sympathy. sadly there are pieces of shits in the world who only care about themselves, not the reputations they destroy by spreading lies.

[–]furcryingoutloud26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

If staring at women's asses was illegal, I'd be doing life in prison. No regrets.

[–]kap1pa13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

No ragrets

[–]kyzen1421 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She dont my heart

[–]NeedingAdvice860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

And dick....there is that.

But I doubt the Op running and filing a sexual harassment claim when she tried to show interest is going to help in getting her panties off.

[–]civilizedfrog52 points53 points  (1 child) | Copy

Should have said that you thought someone drowning and it turned out to be her swimming. Then mercilessly mock her swimming.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

perfect response for this dumb girl

[–]Retstortion58 points59 points  (6 children) | Copy

She sounds autistic

[–]TatumBetterFultz17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Definitely on the spectrum

[–]MajIssuesCaptObvious13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

She sounds false chargistic

[–]NeedingAdvice862 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

She was running very openly sexual girl game on him....he is the autistic one for thinking that she was trying to get a sexual harassment claim on him.

A girl talks about you staring at her ass out of the blue...she is running game on you.....and she is very sexually adventurous to boot.

[–]Retstortion4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

There’s a good chance she was accusing him of ocular sexual assault

[–]NeedingAdvice861 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not a chance in the world.

[–]KnightestKnightPeter0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

More like the OP is autistic

After a while these subs start to have the reverse of the intended effects

[–]3chazthundergut64 points65 points  (9 children) | Copy

Jesus christ that's the last time she ever flirts with you LOL

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (4 children) | Copy

Yeah, or he lose his job because of sexual harassment. You never know, pussy is not worth it...

[–]NeedingAdvice86-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bhashahahahahahahah………you obviously have never been around the pool scene...hot chicks in bikinis, invite to parties, drink and fuck those that are DTF.

A girl who has chosen a job in which she spends the summer in a tight bikini with her tits and ass hanging out isn't going to be put off because someone is staring\looks at them.....bahahahhahahahahahahahhahahhahhahah

[–]SalporinRP-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Lol why are you acting like he's at some white collar job. He's a fucking lifeguard. In any summer camp/lifeguarding type job I ever worked all the coworkers were fucking each other.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Maybe he is not seasonal, maybe at the pool.

[–]NeedingAdvice86-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can easily see in this thread why so many of the commenters have real problems with women....social ineptness.

[–]icecruzader10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Probably, and she real nice and forward so that woulda been easy

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

...and that's a good thing. Don't shit where you eat. Even a simple sexual harassment complain from an insane bitch can ruin your life. OP shut this whole bullshit down the perfect way.

[–]KnightestKnightPeter1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

He doesnt work at an office, he's doing a temporary job as a lifeguard.

[–]MGRaiden97110 points111 points  (43 children) | Copy

God damn. My dude....

Girls get their ass stared at all the time, so one more guy isn't a big deal for them. They don't just walk to up every guy and ask why they were staring.

You say you weren't staring. If thats true then she used that so she could talk to you...ABOUT HER ASS. Think!! She literally set you up to talk about sexual features of her body.

You blew it.

[–]Onidramon37 points38 points  (23 children) | Copy

Blew what? You don't even know what this chick looks like. All you know is that she annoyed him at work by making up an imaginary problem like a schizo. We seriously need to put a stop to this dumbass default presumption it's somehow the man's loss when he chooses not to reward a random woman's shitty behavior with sexual interest.

[–]sir_shitfuck12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nah man you must be gay, sounds like you need TRT /s

[–]NeedingAdvice861 point2 points  (21 children) | Copy

WTF are you talking about....she was flirting about him looking at her ass.

It wasn't shitty behavior, it was very sexually open girl game.

How fucking autistic do you have to be to not know that a girl who runs around all summer in a damn bikini is not going to be put off by someone looking at her ass? She doesn't give a shit about guys staring at her ass and likely actually enjoys it as you know she took a fucking job wearing a bikini around a pool with tons of guys.

Bhahahhahahhahahahhahahhh…….fucking damn. Holy shit...this is unbelievable...…..bahahhahahhahhahahahh

You guy card is fucking revoke for 2 weeks until you take the time to mediate on your lack of awareness.

[–]Onidramon5 points6 points  (20 children) | Copy

And still, not a single indication of what this chick looks like. This unknown chick could look like Shrek in the face and be shaped like a dented pear for all we know, with all the social leverage to get him fired and blackballed if he rolls with her nonsense and she regrets the fuck later, and you're here acting like he fumbled an unsolicited proposition for a threesome with two supermodels sitting on his bed in his apartment or something.

Who cares whether she's just flirting or has a mental complex or not, it's his job. The point of a job is to make money without bullshit and go home, not appease attention whores. You have literally every other hour on the clock when you're not working at your job to do that. Only a dude who is completely starved of regular female attention feels like a "guy card" is weighted on obligation to entertain every single goofy chick who crosses your path, no matter the context or her appearance. Learn the value of time, place, priorities standards.

[–]NeedingAdvice861 point2 points  (19 children) | Copy

Doesn't matter...

The reaction of the OP to her behavior was not that this ugly chick was trying to pick up him up....or this ugly chick attempted to flirt with him by making a sexual remark which he felt was beneath him.

No, it was a complete autistic retardation overreaction about a girl flirting with him by accusing him of staring at her ass....He was pissed because he was scared that this lifeguard as going to get him fired for staring at her ass......end of story.

No wonder you retards struggle with women you don't even know when one is sticking her pussy on your damn dick and asking for a fuck...like autistic social retards you would go screaming to your friends that the girl tried to attack your dick and you were thinking of filing an report with the police before she filed one. Then coming up with all sorts of grand schemes like always keeping video cams so you have proof that she attack your dick or she was just wanting validation or any of the other nonsense shit posted by the losers who had no freaking idea that the girl was just openly flirting.

But you keep filing sexual harassment claims against the hot chick in the bikini flirting with you, all the dudes who get it will just be laughing their asses off with the girls about the autistic reactions at the after parties before heading to the boathouse to fuck with some them.

Bhahahhahahhahahahh…...what a bunch of dolts.

[–]Onidramon2 points3 points  (18 children) | Copy

Again, it doesn’t matter if she was intentionally flirting or not. It’s not a bottle of water in the Sahara desert, it’s potential for trouble at work. Do your job and don’t shit where you eat.

[–]NeedingAdvice861 point2 points  (17 children) | Copy

BHahahahhh….you dolts just really have no clue.

It was a lifeguard at a summer pool....

You do know that most of us took those jobs in summer just to meet the hot girls in bikinis, invite them to parties, drink, party and fuck those that were DTF....and there were loads of them.

But they weren't fucking the Op or the others who filed sexual harassment claims against them when they tried to show their interest....bhahhahahahahahhaha

The girls were just like the guys...there to hang out in the sun, be in the scene, see hot guys, and have a great fun summer with parties and make some money without scooping ice cream or working in a cafe...no damn body was filing sexual harassment claims because someone looked at their ass in a bikini.

But you keep incel-ing yourself and patting yourself on the back for being that guy...….guess who ultimately ends up being the "creepy guy", the guys who flirt back with her, has fun, laughs, invites her parties and perhaps fucks her when she is down or the retard who runs screaming to the club manager and acting all weird and shit as the Op overreacted.

Really isn't surprising that so many of you have real problems with women or guys....you are simply socially inept.

[–]Onidramon1 point2 points  (16 children) | Copy

She could be a lifeguard at a pool or an electrician who juggles swords part time. Risking your job is dumb. And you still haven’t addressed the reality that you have no idea whether this woman is actually attractive or not. Your argument presumes that any failure to reciprocate flirting, whether or not she’s actually fuckable, is a mistake. As if being flirted with is a novel one-in-a-million treasure. Even if it’s at work in the current trigger-happy social climate. That’s retarded and thirsty. Be smarter and more selective. You already know this.

[–]NeedingAdvice861 point2 points  (15 children) | Copy

I am making a valid assumption...she was a lifeguard at a summer pool, she is in shape and attractive enough to get hired (you apparently don't know how many club managers select their female life guards, it isn't all who has the life guard certificate, mate) and the Op never mentioned that his ugly chick accused him of looking at her ass.

You are just hamstering a reason why you don't look like one of the dolts who went searching for the latest bodycam hardware to suggest to the Op so he can catch the girl sexually harassing him.

You know you lost.....I had the job, got the pay, lasted the entire summer, invited the chicks to parties had a great time all those summers and fucked my fill of the hot girls in bikinis that roamed around that I found attractive. Been there done that without a single sexual harassment claim or called a creepy dude because I filed a sexual harassment claim because one of the girls expressed interest in me.

You can have the white knight award for saving some imaginary sexual harassment claim along with spending the summer alternating between whacking off and patting yourself on the back...bahahahahahah.

I am not sure how someone is thirsty when they spend a summer fucking a different hot bikini wearing girl every couple of weeks..but keep hamstering.

You win the boy scout of the summer award...….

[–]Onidramon1 point2 points  (14 children) | Copy

Actually, what I win is the argument. For focusing on the topic itself and contributing rational advice instead of ad homimem and terrible advice. Don’t play dumb games and tell others to join in.

[–]russelln71 points72 points  (11 children) | Copy

And yet you still should never shit where you eat. I commend OP for not getting involved with a coworker.

[–]Coo_Larrow15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

She wanted him to eat where she shits

[–]russelln3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Okay that's pretty good.

[–]RedHoodhandles22 points23 points  (7 children) | Copy

Oh come on. This is just some life guarding. He wouldn't blow that sick corporate career if he'd tap that ass.

[–]russelln17 points18 points  (6 children) | Copy

It's about setting a precident for your professional life. Always take your job seriously.

[–]KilluaKanmuru17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lmao, she was so blatant about it. Girls know they're getting their ass looked at on a daily basis. She could've ignored it just the same. But no, she had to calm him over and make her ass the topic of conversation. Man fuck that straight jacket view on life. I'd lifeguard that ass.

[–]RedHoodhandles4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

This guy lifeguards.

[–]epushepepu1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmao! Life guard 101

[–]NeedingAdvice860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

bhahhahahahahahaahahahh……..

Damn....you do know that I took lifeguarding jobs in summer during college in order to damn meet the hot chicks at the pool clubs, invite them to lake parties and fuck, right?

No, of course not, you were not there but were home reading the lifeguard procedure guidelines for the 100th time and analyzing the pool safety restriction manual to impress the club manager who also was at the lake parties banging the girl who ran the towel concession....too bad.

[–]Vynxe-Vainglory0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I disagree with the “always” part of this.

I think analyzing situations on a case by case basis far outweighs hard blanket rules and strict unwavering precepts that have no bearing on shifting realities.

[–]shr3dthegnarbrah0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Some people need to learn to loosen up, some people need to learn to discipline themselves. Hard to figure out, even in real life; much harder to figure out through Reddit.

[–]NeedingAdvice860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is a shit summer pool job...….you know the place where you meet hot chicks with tone bodies in bikinis, invite to parties, get drunk and randomly fuck the ones that come and are DTF.

[–]kagewolf4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

The thing about that is trying to avoid shitting where you eat. Doesn’t matter if it’s “just a lifeguard job” or whatever. Getting unemployed from a job or trying to have someone shit all over your reputation sucks ass.

[–]YesVeryKewl4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

you're an idiot dude

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's his job dude. He didn't blow fucking anything. Low IQ comment

[–]Barkingtaco0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This^

[–]Shieldless_One-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree if he owned his frame she probably would of buckled. Her word against his word is not enough to get him fired so he wouldnt have to worry about shitting where he eats.

Instead he falled into her frame by defending himself against staring at her ass.

A good comeback might of been “i thought you were drowning at first then thought nothing of it when I saw that flotation device”

[–]JW_2-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lol what should he have said?

[–]NeedingAdvice860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"Was I" or "Wow.....ego <whatever her name is>"

She was running pretty sexually open girl game on the dude and he was so defensive that he went looking for ulterior bad motives.

He has now outed himself as a socially repressed know-nothing at that pool and as word goes around none of the girls will want to have anything to do with him.

[–]Granite_Pill9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

There’s cameras recording everything, so if she takes it up to higher management I’m safe.

You would think, but...

[–]masterpiece001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You don't (can't) get fired for using your eyes.

[–]mr_buffalo8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

How many fucking losers are in this thread? OP is athletic enough to be a lifeguard. He doesn't need some crazy uppity bitch in his dating life. Ignore the thirsty betas telling you to shit where you eat. "It's just a summer job, not coporate" Yeah... and OP can walk down the street and talk to any girl.

[–]juggernaut811 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ignore the thirsty betas telling you to shit where you eat.

Yup thirsty AF. Jesus.

[–]NeedingAdvice86-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why walk down the street when you have a pool of hot chicks in bikinis who you flirt with, invite to after work parties, drink and randomly fuck the ones that are DTF?

I can see why so many of the dweebs here have problems with women..they were not invited to the pool or the after parties or can spot when a girl openly ask you to discuss her ass she has hanging out of her tight bikini.

Hell you do know that we took most of those summer lifeguarding jobs just to meet the hot girls in bikinis, right? It wasn't really because we gave a shit about your fat ass sucking in some water or floundering in the kiddie pool.

You should have tried it sometime....it was a helluva summer or two.

[–]ReefaShark78 points79 points  (26 children) | Copy

Do not explain and defend yourself to a woman, especially when she just makes shit up. You were way defensive, just A&A

[–]Joeatomic71 points72 points  (5 children) | Copy

She seemed extremely serious, and in this social climate, and my job, I didn’t want to get blamed for shit

[–]ReefaShark41 points42 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ya but you’re a life guard. They don’t have hr reps for summer jobs

[–]juggernaut86 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

You did the right thing, you held your frame that you didn't do anything and stuck with it. All the people here who think she's secretly trying to flirt with you are clueless. Even if she was trying to flirt in such a stupid way you don't reward that behavior. People who just throw accusations around like that should be avoided.

[–]icecruzader2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's ot as bad a as you would think but it is fked. If you hold your frame you can still getaway with it as long as no white Knight shows up that you just can't brush off or chode away. The girl gave you a hard shit test, but odds that it'll spiral would take you not gaming like you know you should. If you show neediness or fear about it she'll start acting like it was serious and eat you alive with potencial bad concequences

[–]KilluaKanmuru0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Extremely? Get outta here. That's from your perception. Here ya go..you could've easily deflected the pressure to her. "Why were you staring at my bulge?" Done deal. DARE bro. Don't you ever DEER.

[–]sehns0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You did the right move. In these work situations you can always seal the deal with "Don't worry, I'm a feminist." and pretend like you're one of those soy boy types. She'll start to resent feminism and you'll be safe because you're towing the line.

[–]i_forget_my_userids11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bad advice. Never agree and amplify harassment allegations, especially at work. How retarded can you be?

[–]faissaloo22 points23 points  (17 children) | Copy

Absolutely do not A&A, you shouldn't shit where you eat. A strong 'I was not' and returning to whatever you were doing is enough.

[–]lvanden-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agree and Absurd?

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

She wanted the d

[–]rbro198724 points25 points  (2 children) | Copy

Who cares if you were or werent staring? Think to yourself, im an attractive guy, why WOULDNT she want me to stare. And own that shit either way. Outcome independence

[–]1Terminal-Psychosis6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Not when your job is on the line.

Not worth it. Too many other girls to play with.

[–]rbro19871 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree but his question wasnt what should he do. It was what is she thinking. And the correct answer is who cares

[–]genesisofman11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tell her she needs to do squats next time

[–]RRBeachFG24 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

She wanted you to be staring, its called projection and they do it a lot.

[–]i8a4re733 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Absolutely tell HR of the interaction. This will protect you if comes back to haunt you

[–]masterpiece001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No it will not, HR is usually full of mother hen type bitches that will protect other women and turn the situation around to fuck with you.

[–]Thunderfin2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don't act like you weren't.

[–]Rosace_894 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

you did good imo

[–]babtoudestroyer1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My take is that it was a shit test of some sort and her trying to awkwardly flirt with you.

But you did the right move don't shit where you eat. AA is not always the right move if your job and integrity is on the line.

Never mix work and sex so you did the right thing and good on you or calling her out too.

[–]Kirix1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She has power over you to get you fired or at least suspended

[–]Yoasted1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You blew it while she tried flirting with you. Idk next time ask her why she was staring at your ass.

[–]128bitworm1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ignore her

[–]speed3_freak0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Absolutely this. Don't date women that you work with. Period. I wouldn't even have said anything. Just look at her and walk away. There is nothing you could possibly say in this situation that would make it better for you.

[–]dickcomments1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

DUDE.

WOW.

You totally misread the situation.

First, you should not have come out of the game so aggressively. No reason, man or woman, to have your first reaction as aggression.

Second, you should NOT have insulted her. Now you look like a dick for calling her weird, plus she could use that as ammo if she really wanted to make this into something. Always leave people with their respect.

Third, she was fucking flirting with you. Maybe awkwardly, but she was. You miss a chance... again... you come off like a dicks.

I think you need to reassess your view on women and their behavior.

[–]RPW ECFleetingWish1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Yeah, it needs some work"

[–]BuckNekkid181 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I would've used my default answer for women who want to argue. "Ok", ignore her, and keep doing whatever I was doing.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is not your mommy case, it would be literally dumb in metoo no evidence needed era.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

you should start calling her, "Ms. Owl."

how da fuck can she see you staring at her ass while she's looking forward? she must be doing a 360 turn with her neck... meaning it's VERY flexible. you might want to keep that in mind if she's drooling for a unit to suck one day.

[–]lvanden0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You could of turned it around (if she is attractive) and had your way with this one.

[–]KidWonder1010 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I don't know her tone or her body language, so I can't be 100% sure on anything.

However based on my past experiences, If she wasn't interested in you, she wouldn't have said anything at all.

However, with her bringing it up...she was CHOOSING you. Sounds like you blew it though.

Remember, most girls don't know how to pick up and approach guys. It's because they don't have to. It was her female way of "cold approaching" and also to subconsciously test how you would handle the situation.

[–]sir_shitfuck0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She was choosing you OP, run through her hoops or you’re a beta

[–]htbf0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You shouldn't have to defend yourself if a girl accuses you of looking at her ass.

First because she has no proof, second, and what if you looked, it's an ass and you're a man.

So while you don't have to Amplify, you can just smile to her condescendingly and say "maybe" and be on your way. You don't owe her anything more.

[–]bilabrin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"I was actually trying to stare at your cunt but your ass kept getting in the way."

[–]opper-hombre10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good pressure flip

[–]RedHoodhandles0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

'Because it's a fine ass.'

She wanted to give you an opener and you blew it.

[–]Manilatimes0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ask her, ”what ass?”

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

The level of idiocy ignoring the fact that this happened at workplace only leads me to that there are so many highschool incels who only knows red pill theory precepts without thinking about its application.

[–]NeedingAdvice860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You might want to explain\consider why a girl who chose a job in which she spends her summer running around in a tight bikini with her tits and ass hanging out would get upset because someone looked at those tits and ass?

She didn't give a shit that anyone was looking at her ass.....she expects it.

Then you might come to understand more clearly who the incel in this situation likely is and why that person ended up as the incel.

[–]Zanford0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She wants attention/validation. It's possible she's also hoping that she can get power over you by making you afraid of being 'reported' (so that when she bails on work and asks you to cover your shift, you're afraid to say no..shit like that)

You handled it well. You should just be like 'nope' and don't act defensive (that'll make them smell blood in the water)

[–]supacigna690 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is just the mentality of a prude girl. She’s not willing to openly show she wants attention like that “in gods eyes” so she’s going to bring it up to a dude she wouldn’t mind staring at her ass. If it was actually a problem she would’ve told anyone else in her work frame. She’s all yours. I personally don’t have to info to get her but that’s clearly a sign of affection

[–]Kabuki4310 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So were you staring or not ? if not then why not, if yes then why back down ?

[–]furcryingoutloud0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well, does she or does she not have a nice ass?

If she did, my answer would have been just that. "It just caught my attention, cover up more or better yet, use a burka."

Unless it's now a thing that you can't look at a woman's ass either.

[–]Coo_Larrow0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How's her ass?

[–]u-had-it-coming0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You could have banged her.

She was leading, you dumbo.

They do this because they are not direct but they do have physical needs. They want to fuck and luckily you had been chosen for it. But you blew it.

Go back and Apologize and tell her you were staring at her ass along with some other sassy, cool shit. Then bang her.

[–]sir_shitfuck0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Luckily you got chosen OP, like this is some sort of major life gain

[–]curb_stomps_sjws0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

And this is why Muslims have segregated swimming areas. It's not to protect women from men. It's to protect men from women.

[–]imtheoneimmortal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You shouldn't defend yourself, just ignore her

[–]friendandadvisor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She wants OP's penis.

He failed her test.

"By all that I hold holy..." DEERing, big time, and pretty pathetic at that.

[–]i8a4re730 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There is truth there, but essentially the interaction has to be documented. That is sexual harrasment she did and she gaslit you with feminism mindset. If you don’t stand up to the bullying, you’ll be beaten down lower and it does an injustice to fellow men. Beat her at her own game

[–]i8a4re730 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Also, might pay to post this in the Men’s Rights Activist Page (MRA). Some of the men in there would have been stung with them and may present some solutions

[–]NeedingAdvice860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She was hitting on you.....

You should have just laughed it off or said something as benign as "was I"...basically giving off the impression that she was a conceited egomaniac to think that every guy in the pool went around drooling over her ass.

Sounds like you are pretty defensive around women...she wasn't labeling you as a predator but was flirting in a pretty sexual way.

She likely wanted the dick and knew that slayers would have picked up on her sexual flirt, escalated and fucked her that evening.

Your overreaction tends to suggest that you might be slightly autistic? Or just inexperienced around girls? Am I right?

[–]NeedingAdvice860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This post is actually pretty fucking informative...but only because its comments scream about why so many of the fucking retards on this sub are actually HERE.

Yes, you are one of those if you actually thought that this girl was trying to get the Op fired and did not recognize that this girl was running girl game on the Op....and very sexually open\adventurous game on him as well.

If that was your thought, your man card has been revoked for the duration until you come to understand WHY your first reaction to a girl who chose a job that involved her running around a pool in with her ass and tits hanging out of her bikini calling you over to "accuse" you of staring at her ass was actually not flirting with you but was really put off by you looking at the ass which she spends all summer with it hanging out of her bikini.

No wonder you have severe problems with women.

[–]stylesm110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like she's trying to start something sexual w you

But even if don't play into it, just don't react

[–]FlyingSexistPig0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You have a number of different responses to stuff like this. I think she was hoping for: "'cause you're hot." or some other aggressive response.

You could have been an asshole: "Well, it's so big it makes light bend, and no matter where I look, there's your ass"

[–]KilluaKanmuru0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lmfao @ that line! I'll use this on my gf. Thank you.

[–]htbf-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

That was her trying to flirt with you and you fucked it up.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

No, that wasn't flirting. They are 1000s of other ways she could flirt with him, but not this one.

[–]NeedingAdvice860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is actually really sexually open flirting.....no girl is going to bring up her ass to a guy she doesn't find attractive....she would just have been sure to stay as far away from the guy as possible and never allowed herself to be alone with him if it creeped her out.

She works at job that requires her to wear a tight bikini with her tits and ass hanging out all summer...she isn't fucking freaked out because someone looked at that ass. She expects it but she most damn certainly isn't going around to you and the rest of the incels to accuse YOU of staring at her ass. She only did that with the guy who interested her.

Come on.....



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