So it happens I live in a non-Western society now. And I've made a good friendship with a woman who calls me her brother. She is my sister. Although when we met we both contemplated making the relationship something more, it never could have worked out. (I'm basically queer, but would marry to have kids, but maybe not...?) So now we're officially brother and sister. She even has a long distance relationship going, that she is waiting to consummate.

Because of the Covid quarantine, we decided to live together.

Highlights from the past 3 months:

  1. Wake up, discover kitchen is clean.

  2. Have breakfast served to me.

  3. Lunch is ready on time, and tasty.

  4. Get surprised during the day by a bowl of fruit or snacks.

  5. Sweeping and mopping on the regular.

  6. I'm not supposed to do the dishes.

  7. Kindness and gentleness.

  8. Let's me get angry from time to time without trying to push my buttons.

  9. Does all the shopping.

  10. Minimal emotional drama that is easy to take care of. Nothing is pushed on me, and I deal with it as a notice it. (Think: family dramas due to COVID issues, money issues, etc.)

  11. Takes out the garbage (maybe).

What I do:

  1. Pay the bills.

  2. Try not to get too angry. Keep everything in limits.

  3. Say thank you from time to time.

  4. Do the dishes and mop the floor from time to time, even if she says not to do it.

  5. Generally organize and manage the household, and any other people, and the general situation.

  6. Envision the future and try to develop strategies for the household, including business opportunities.

  7. Work.

This is the world America lost.

Now the top tier (15%) of women, fed on a diet of feminism, construct the male as a useless, dangerous, loser. 35% of women follow this line as their personal ideology, making society hostile to men who have to listen to an endless litany of complains and accusations, real and imagined. And they won't cook you breakfast. Cooking breakfast is part of the patriarchal conspiracy to keep women in the kitchen.

But they are so good in the kitchen.

Honestly, I'm enjoying the hell out of this.

It used to be so calm.

Edit: P.S. If it isn't obvious, this means that a traditional society can absorb and make functional queer male experience, contra everything the LGBTQ advocates will tell you. Modern women, because of their excessive emotional requirements can never be partners to queer men, except in the consumerist sense, i.e. wearing make up and dresses and talking about talk show gossip (barf!).