Inspired by the thread about quarantine affecting your sex life. I’m curious what does a normal sex frequency look like in a committed relationship? If you can include your and your captain’s ages, how often you have sex, who initiates more, and are you dating/engaged without living together, cohabiting, married? And for how long?
I’ll start. My captain and I are dating, don’t live together. We’ve been together exclusively just over six months and see each other three or four days a week. We average sex three or four times a week, occasionally as low as two times or as high as five. I’m 26 and he’s 43.
Edit: thanks for the gold kind stranger 😊 it’s my first. And thank you to everyone for responding! I’m answering little by little but it’s so cool to see how raw and open all of you are. I love seeing how in love with your men almost all of you sound and how you’ve all found rhythms that work great for you. So cool how every couple is so different but so perfect for each other. And for those of you who don’t have the situation you completely desire, thank you so much for your openness and vulnerability, I’m sure it helps many women feel great to know they aren’t alone if they’re struggling. I love this community!
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