There has always been one element that hindered my "level up" journey and dating strategy: get to know exactly how men think. Before I read this book, I read 'The Power of the Pussy' by Kara King, 'Ho Tactics' and 'Solving Single' by G. L. Lambert so I already knew overall what men think and how they more or less see women and dating. However, I still felt something was missing in these books, that I didn't *fully* grasp just what's going in men's head. Enter. This. Book. Every Man Sees You Naked by David M. Matthews.

Girls, this book is amazing. I paid $9 to read the ebook (there is no free online version sadly) based on the interesting preview on Amazon and the male comments in the review section calling this book "spot on". I wondered what new things I would learn from it and to be honest, I doubted it would enlighten me more than I am already.

Oh boy was I wrong! So, though I didn't learn anything new on *what* men think (any woman who ever read a Cosmo magazine or scrolled through this sub would have figured that out), what I learn is *how* they think. I can safely say this book delivered the hardest, coldest blackpill I ever swallowed. This book is rude, crude but also incredibly frank and honest. There is no sugarcoating, no attempt at soothing my hurt feelings. I had to take several pauses because some stuffs I read in this book were shocking and hurtful. I did gasp, I did scowl, I did grimace, I did scream "what the hell!!!!" but even if 50% of this book was hard to read, I know it's nothing but the truth.

Though I advise everyone to part from their hard earned $9 and read the whole book, I'm still going to share some of the most blackpilled truths in this book with you guys.

  1. Let's start with the title: Every Man Sees You Naked. You can read this part in the preview of the book on Amazon but here's a short summary: every man, when they see you, imagine you naked and then right after imagine having sex with you. Every man: your university professor, the male cashier at Walmart, your BFF's father and yes... even your own father (for the father, there is no 'imagining sex with you' bit though, just imagining you naked). So even if you don't catch them red handed, this is what's going on in their head.
  2. Men are not just obsessed with sex, sex defines them. Almost everything they do is in hope of getting laid. If they pursue a career, dress better, get fit, go through a therapy, want a girlfriend, are nice to you, are willing to open their wallets for you... Almost everything men do is because they think it'll lead to sex. This is beyond just "thinking about sex all the time", their brain revolves around sex. This is why men believe that women who are nice to them, smile at them, or just look their way want to have sex with them: because that how they work so they think women are also the same. That's also why if you browse an incel subreddit, all they talk about is sex, sex, sex. Never love. Actually, not just incel subreddits. Everywhere, what men mention all the time is sex, never love. Worse: in their list of priorities, sex always comes first, yes before even food. If men had to choose between getting laid and getting food, they would gladly starve every day! Sex is their raison d'être, period.
  3. There are only 2 categories of women for men: fuckable and unfuckable. Their behavior towards you is based on which category they put you in. If you're fuckable, they'll do everything to sleep with you and if they can't, they'll try to be your friend in hope you will one day open your legs for them. You can ask any of your male single friend if they would be down to fuck, they will all say yes because men are rarely ever friends with women they don't find attractive. Women they don't find attractive are invisible. When Harry in "How Harry Met Sally" says men can't be friends with women, he's telling the truth y'all. That's just not how they think. They can be friends with other men but there's always a secret agenda when they're close to a woman. They might not always be plotting to have sex with you but if you ask them out, they'll always say yes (given they're heterosexual and single).
  4. Men are naturally allergic to monogamy. If you give a man the choice between staying with his One True Love™ for the rest of his life or spend it having sex with new attractive women every day... Ladies, he'll pick the second option without blinking. The only reason men commit to a woman is because they will have a regular sexual partner this way (on top of free emotional labor and free cleaning+cooking+childrearing). They want sex first, then comfort and then companionship. Don't be fooled by romcoms and romance books. The men in these pieces of fiction think like women, not like men. That's why when Hugh Hefner died, you could see millions of men crying on Twitter, calling him an "inspiration". That's why men aren't repulsed by Leonardo DiCaprio going through an endless stream of 18 years old blonde bikini models, they would too if they could. The ultimate dream for them is to live like Hank Moody from Californication or Don Draper from Mad Men. They only get married because of societal pressure and because they know it's impossible for them to have daily one night stands with 10/10 women unless they're billionaires. Men are crazy about "new pussy", the thought of sleeping with a new woman haunt their dreams and most of them would cheat if given the opportunity (the ones that don't cheat no matter what just value loyalty more, but a lot of these loyal men see no problem with imagining having sex with someone else while they're sleeping with you! It's not cheating if it's in their heads!).
  5. Men are desperate for sex. They're so desperate, they're willing to do anything for it. After all, didn't Henry IV create an entire religion just to get into Anne Boleyn's pants??? It means also that everything a man tells you before having sex with you is a lie. They're willing to lie about everything, tell you what you want to hear, romance you, wine and dine you, give you gifts etc as long as it guarantees an access to your coochie.
  6. Men don't know if they like you until they have sex with you. Yup. Don't be fooled, you will only know if this relationship is going somewhere after having sex with him. So don't get attached before sex, just like men never get attached before it.
  7. Men don't necessarily respect women. They would have sex with you even if they think you're a major doormat, the world's worst racist woman, a serial killer, they don't care as long as you put out for them. They think "yes, this woman is Satan in heels but I would still do her". Actually they love when women go around with skimpy outfits or when they hit on them because it's an almost guarantee ticket to Sexland. That's it. So when you see a scrote telling you to make the first move, what they truly want is women they find remotely attractive to give them their coochie on a silver platter. Then you're discarded because they don't care about you beyond that. Respect has nothing to do with your attractiveness. And he says that a man treating you with respect is not the same as a man respecting you. On that part, though, the author doesn't delve much on it. I can't help but believe that deep down, most men don't respect women but I guess even this blackpill was too hard to write, even in this frank book?

TD;LR: A man's brain revolves around SEX, SEX, SEX. Almost everything they do is linked to "muH peNis".