Pothead Girls - Turnoff? Red flag?

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July 3, 2020
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Do you also have a turn off on a girl the moment you hear she is a pothead and loves smoking and TALKING about weed.

I don't have anything against MJ, I am not a user myself though. And if a person is using it, I can respect that, but when the person is a pothead, meaning keeps talking about it, like it makes her cool - my dick dissapears.

Do you also get turned off by that?

And is it a red flag?


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Title Pothead Girls - Turnoff? Red flag?
Author nadzaghlar
Upvotes 120
Comments 150
Date 03 July 2020 10:02 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit askTRP
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[–]exegol24182 points183 points  (10 children) | Copy

Yes, big red flag and turn off. A little on the occasion is totally fine but huge pothead... absolutely do not want to get intertwined with that.

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[–]drunkPKMNtrainer80 points81 points  (6 children) | Copy

She just trying to score some free pot from you ahaha

[–]guyman275320 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is facts

[–]morphite657 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy

I've known girls to continue dating a guy they're not interested in just to score free weed

[–]throwawaycunt19974 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

I have taken this model and reversed this with stoner plates. I’ve scored free weed by the oz before; this is 110% profit if sold. (free product = free money + sex and getting high for free)

[–]zamahx2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Where u think plate got their weed from? Hope you aint eat out any of them hoes for some extra vitamin DZ

[–]throwawaycunt19976 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

No shit, Sherlock. They’re a fucking plate, not a wife.

[–]krusecontrol910 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This

[–]Sweatingtoomuch17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

That was the correct move lmao

[–]kellykebab25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. Yes.

[–]comcain134 points135 points  (21 children) | Copy

Yes. People don't obsess on pot if they like life.

Cheers

[–]sehns9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

Just as a counter to this point, there's always exceptions to the rule. I know some super high functioning successful and in-shape people who smoke pot frequently. I'll be the first to admit that's certainly not the norm though.

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[–]MysticalMike19907 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Balance

[–]propmane-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're a moron

[–]hmsthinkingmeat72 points73 points  (6 children) | Copy

Sounds like she'll have poor impulse control and be unreliable, not someone I'd want to get involved with.

It's just asking for trouble.

[–]CasaDeFranco6 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy

I dated a woman who was a bombshell, 6ft blonde, spoke three languages, worked at a MBB firm, she also casually did cocaine. Great fun, but too many red flags. After I ended it, the months following I had this massive void in my life.

She was just an explosive ride, life afterwards felt something was missing. It was like what an Alpha widow must feel like.

[–]hmsthinkingmeat2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Problem people with all kind of disorders have a way of probing your brain that makes they themselves addictive to you.

That's why it's best to say no from the start and not even take the first shot of them.

Took me 23 years and the best part of my life to discover this

[–]ValorElite1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

How was hanging out with her? Was she just a good time overall or did she understand you on a deeper level? Why do you think she left such a void in your life?

[–]CasaDeFranco4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Our rapport was just totally effortless, our first date rolled into four days of just some of the most memorable adventures I've had, like we had known one another for some time.

Her and I just had a lot of fun, a simple night like having dinner together, she'd be full of surprises.

She would be like, here's a nice bottle of red I've been saving - something really special, she'd interupt as I'd cook to kiss my neck, whisper in my ear something in her language, then we I would teach her to dance. I've only met a few people in my life, a few men and one women like her, and I knew it almost instantly she was going to change my life.

Great family, great professional career, incredibly charimatic. She came from family money and expect me to be like her father, and perhaps most other men, she expected I would never say no. She knew she was exceptional and acted accordingly.

The candle that burns twice as bright, burns half as long. One day I realised that in trying to avoid losing her, I had lost myself. I knew the further invested in her I became, the more chips on the table I would risk losing, and with her temperament, it was likely the house would win. Even if her family had more money than me, I knew she would be the kind of women who would approach a divorce like winner takes all.

I still think of her from time to time, I hope she finds happiness, I just know it cannot be with me.

[–]ValorElite2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Awesome write up brother - thanks for taking the time!

Sounds like quite the experience for you, so thanks for taking the time to share it with us.

[–]celebritycoke67 points68 points  (25 children) | Copy

I’m totally cool with taking part but if it turns into a lifestyle then huge turn off. Stinky pussy. Dirty toenails and fingernails. Generally unkept. Shit diet. You can drink coffee and it not be your religion, why can’t weed be the same?

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[–]celebritycoke41 points42 points  (8 children) | Copy

I know plenty of top shelf chicks who smoke and that’s totally cool. I just fucking hate stoners and any stoner related culture. I’m a massive pot smoker but I keep that shit completely hidden

[–]GonadGravy17 points18 points  (4 children) | Copy

I’m with you 100%. Weed/drug culture is a huge turnoff but I love a few hits before a heavy lifting session, sex or sleep.

If a woman’s entire identity revolves around any one thing, like being a pothead, that’s a hard next for me.

[–]jackothebast2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

How does it benefit lifting? I've heard this before and always wondered.

[–]GonadGravy10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

Main thing for me and other people I’ve talked to that do it is mind muscle connection. Really helps focus in on the lift and tune everything else out, feeling every muscle group work in synchronization. Arnold talked a lot about this.

Second, I’m always happy to be there after a puff or two. I love the gym, it’s my “zen” time. A tiny bit of weed let’s me focus in my aggression. I never half ass it and push way harder. For me, it’s truly a performance enhancing drug.

Going to the gym fully lit, blazed out? Nah no thanks. That’s too much for me. Just a toke or two to shift my perspective and lift my spirit.

[–]jackothebast1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah that makes sense, I'll have to try it. Glad you mentioned only having a bit, I probably would have gone to far and ruined it otherwise.

[–]BIitheFooI1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I love that too man. Just did it earlier today, in fact.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Same. Theres something weird about getting pulled into the weed culture.

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[–]celebritycoke1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy

Lmao. Go to any weed shop. Take a real fucking close look at the chicks who work there. Good from far , far from good.

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[–]celebritycoke0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

I’m not bashing pot. I’m a recreational weed smoker for the past 10 years. It’s a part of who I am but I hide all the cliches away because I find the culture repulsive and degenerative.

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[–]dusara2172 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

I really think it ought to just be treated as alcohol

Wait, so you do or don't think that getting high every day should be acceptable? Because, last I checked, getting drunk every day is not.

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[–]dusara2172 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Right, and then when that's you're only personality trait, I"m sure that's completely accepted. What, you mean you talk about things other than Irish carbombs and screwdrivers?

The entire point of the thread is that defining your life around pot is unattractive and is not indicative of good life decisions. Not that pot is bad in all circumstances no matter what.

[–]celebritycoke0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You know man I totally agree with you. But for some reason, having drinks with my mother in law is considered a bonding and a positive experience for all party’s, yet marijuana would not be socially ok. That’s fucked up in my mind but mainstream society doesn’t see things our way. Life’s a video game just gotta play it

[–]Huntbutt-5 points-4 points  (3 children) | Copy

same as tobbaco.

it literally makes their pussy smell terrible...its facts.

They needa do edibles or hit vapes to negate these things

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[–]Huntbutt-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

dude if they hitting j's and ripping bongs consistently, trust me, their pussy will literally start to smell off.

Pardon my nasty but the vag like excretes the toxins or some shit causing the smell

[–]BIitheFooI1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not true. Dated a party girl as FWB for a year and she’s a super stoner. We also did other stuff besides weed but she mostly smoked. Clean v, nails kept, dressed cute and super submissive. Just don’t fall in love or get too attached. Enjoy your turn while it lasts. I agree that anything can become escapism and she did have a ton of ex issues and daddy issues. But great in bed and fun for drug addled exploration in cities.

[–]TheTrueLordHumungous23 points24 points  (1 child) | Copy

Anyone who lets their vices run them is not someone you want to be a part of your life.

[–]ViolentInteger7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Addiction is a red flag for the LTR level. When you notice this, you change nothing but make note that they are permanently disqualified from LTR status.

If her addiction is serious enough, it's a dealbreaker at the plate and FWB levels as well; you don't want to get dragged down in a whirlwind of drama and bullshit that comes along with that.

Lastly, ANY behavior that bothers you personally is a red flag. So if you don't like even light/moderate use, then your abundance mentality should tell you to move on.

[–]TxnyMontana6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Red flag and turn off. Even regular smokers are a big turn off to me.

[–]courtesy_flush_plz29 points30 points  (10 children) | Copy

Depends on her lifestyle really .. if she's lazy & eats like shit & doesn't exercise it's a turnoff.

But if shes solid in those areas ☝🏼 & smokes it's actually more of a turnon than if she didn't puff & still had a good lifestyle

[–]kunemhameha14 points15 points  (9 children) | Copy

This^ My now LTR and I smoke A LOT. I smoke WAY more than she does but she's regularly high...and gets her shit done. We both do. I love to get up in the morning, do my routine and then take a big rip before hitting the gym. She never gloats about it.. just does it. Without making it a scene. Unless we're out then she'll be like: We're running out and we need to get some more! ...agreed haha

[–]Project_Zero_Betas6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the correct answer OP

[–]bluefingerblue5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah bro. This is the answer. It’s not the drug that’s the problem. It’s how one uses it that could be the problem.

I like to hit my pen before the gym too. Keeps me present and focused on my workout as opposed to thinking about all the other shit I need to do instead.

[–]kunemhameha0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There we go! I just had a convo with a friend about a mutual friend of ours who decided to quit because he wanted to get his life in order. Well he quit, it's been a couple of weeks and he's still stuck in the same non-progrerssive routine (he's more attentive and slightly more motivated) which means he's got a lot of deep routed problems that would cloud the judgment. And the high causing a lot of distraction. (IMO) I used to have the same problem where I was in the same mind state but I got to work; researched chemical reactions in the body/vitamin intake/testesterone building methods/anti anxiety foods/meditation/dopamine reactions/serotonin reactions/fucking ETC/you fucking name it. I believe that everything is chemical. And I am not th same person I was a year ago. I am amazing. And I'll become even more amazing. I did that with marijuana present in my daily life.

[–]GonadGravy8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

I’m with you guys but a lot of guys here are conservative trads who think weed is the devils lettuce and any woman or man who touches it is a lazy, unmotivated stoner. Or that it makes people a drug addict. Alcohol is perfectly acceptable for men to drink though, not women.

Simply not true. I’m always up at at ‘em, working out, moving forward and on my purpose. Moderation is key like anything else in life.

[–]rambler4298 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

In case you didn't know, there are a lot of 'Conservatives' who don't mind weed at all, we just don't like hippies who make it a lifestyle.

[–]GonadGravy2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

No doubt, I agree there. I’m talking more about the extreme conservatives who frequent our boards.

[–]acoltismypassport2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

More power to you if you can make an LTR work with a girl who smokes weed. But I simply cannot imagine dating a girl who took drugs on a regular basis. Spare me the sophistry of 'but booze is drugs too hur-dur.' Booze doesn't make you smell like a dumpster fire, turn you into a slow-response tard, or naturally incline a person toward a sedentary lifestyle (in comparison to if they didn't smoke) 99% of the time.

I'd almost guarantee your acceptance of it is because you yourself indulge. Just like occasionally coke fiends are cool with coke taking chicks - because they'd be hypocritical if they weren't cool with it.

[–]kunemhameha2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, you're not wrong. I will smoke till the day I die. I function on it. I work on it. I make money on it. I'm high right now. I take care of my shit REGARDLESS if I am high or not because I am a man and a women that can keep up with that has made her first step into my peripheral.

I used to be a hardcore alcoholic. Booze DEFINITELY stinks.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Booze is 10x worse

[–]ShittySoftwar333 points34 points  (8 children) | Copy

Red flag, probably sucks her dealers dick

[–]GonadGravy7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

Obviously a reasonable, based assumption. She probably smokes crack too since weed is a gateway drug. /s

[–]Shitcuckedredditsays-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

I love how I can tell how much of a stoner people are just by how much offended they get when someone talks trash about their addiction

[–]GonadGravy7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shows what you know, I was more offended about the penis sucking bit. Total lazy hippie stoner stoner here, I’m actually on my way to suck a few dicks for a bag of that sweet narcotic bliss.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ive seen it!

[–]offnr0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Me! It was me!!

[–]drsherbert1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

If she’s got her own weed man, she’s definitely either fucked him, wants to fuck him or will fuck him at some point.

[–]ShittySoftwar30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yep

[–]Kabuki4315 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes any mention of pot 3 times in an hour and yes its a huge red flag.

[–]__TheDon__3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Turn off and a red flag. People who are obsessed with weed are usually also annoying af, and have no life/personality outside of the plant itself lmao

[–]AlgaeEater4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Instant Cringe, and Instant Red Flag.

What to Expect: Entry Level Job. No College. NO Credit Score. NO Savings. No personality. Poor impulse control, NO car (and if they do have a car, theyve probably been in 3 accidents with it. NO opinions of their own (all opinions are opinions they've been convinced of by others). Example: My ex hahaha.

What else to expect: Mental illness, no drive to accomplish anything, no life goals, no hobbies, shitload of druggie male friends who are just trying to bang her which is weird because the girl's usually a 3/10 'look wise' anyway lol

[–]BurntYams4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

It’s not the MJ that turns me off,

it’s the type of people who prioritize that shit and let it take over them, their personality, and daily activities

Would much rather spend my time with a girl who’s more driven and ambitious than a girl who just eats cheetos and smokes weed all day

[–]1DullIntroduction3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If it turns you off, why would you even think about LTR?

[–]acoltismypassport3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

lol

I avoid bitches who smoke weed/take drugs like the plague. Guaranteed head cases/crazy fucks.

More power to you if you want to deal with that, but there's plenty of pussy out there without that kinda baggage.

[–]cunningcaring2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't smoke but it's not a turn off. Stoner chicks can be a rocking good time.

[–]ThatOneTy2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Huge red flag.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve never had luck with pot head girls. No ambitions. They drag you down. Some are pretty hot, but it’s never the 10’s.

[–]cfbovernfl4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Most definitely. Only losers would date them.

[–]FrickOffAHS2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I actually met with a girl who talked about cocaine like this just yesterday. For some reason she thought mooching cocaine off people once a week made her an interesting person. My response to this was literally, “Bruh, doing coke doesn’t make you any less boring”

The meetup didn’t last much longer. Red flag or not, it’s just annoying

[–]cnwilks2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I once saw someone on reddit say that if you're thinking about trying a new drug, take a look at the people who use it regularly, because those are going to be your friends once you start. I joke about the fact that I've never done coke for the same reason I've never killed anyone: I'm afraid I'd like it. I also don't understand why in the hell anyone would ever use meth. But there are plenty of successful, driven people who smoke pot regularly without wearing clothing covered with pot leaves or starting hardcore drugs. I don't even really consider pot a drug. But Nixon got it scheduled as a narcotic in the same category as heroin in his culture war against African-Americans and hippies. Far more people die from using tobacco and alcohol.

To answer your question, if it's a turnoff for you, there are plenty of women who don't smoke pot for you to date. But if I'm vibing with an interesting woman at a party, and she invites me out to her car to smoke a bowl, I'm going. It would be a far bigger deal for me if she was a chain smoker or a cat hoarder.

[–]Jdamoftruth4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's usually just an indication she's trying to score free weed....

[–]thatbadrogue212 points13 points  (3 children) | Copy

Pot is great. How many girls are you attracted to that 'obsess' over alcohol and partying? Michael Phelps smokes more weed than snoop dogg and look at that dude. Would you hard next the female phelps just because she likes weed? If she's super lazy- that's another issue but don't try to say it's the weed that turns you off when it's really her lack of having her life in order. Don't make the association of weed and lazy because that's not how it works. You know how much easier it is to have dates after a bowl? It makes you feel really comfortable in your own skin and moment, and you wouldn't understand it because as you indicated- you're not a 'user'.

Next you're going to ask if a girl having black nail polish makes her a cat-sacrificing satanist and if it's a red flag. If you don't like it- don't date a girl with black nail polish, much like don't date a girl who smokes weed if you don't like weed...?

[–]kaizen9871 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Seconded. Though I argue that smoking in and of itself isn't a desirable trait for LTRs.

For the same reason I mostly mess with edibles and haven't experienced negative effects as a result of my marijuana use.

[–]thatbadrogue21 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

well I mean if the only thing she's good at (See lazy) is smoking weed; yes you have a problem.

[–]imtrynaclapnocap1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Best response I’ve seen.

[–]Abeham101 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

First ask yourself is it an issue for you? If it is, there’s you’re answer. If you’re unsure know that these girls are probably going nowhere in life. If you’re just trying to plate them it COULD be a different story but you won’t know till you interact more with her.

[–]danakdakdnakdn1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Both

[–]BoyFromMiami1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude red flag. Smoking is cool, it’s legal in many places. Por head? Whack. Alcoholic? Whack.

[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Would you date a lush?

[–]WhatRemainsAfter1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Any person with drugs is a red flag. You cannot trust them. When craving gets better of them, they will hit any low. I learned it the hard way.

For girls, I almost feel repulsive. ONS - totally. Plates - makes sense. Smoke a joint and fuck their brains out.

But anything worth investing time - Never.

[–]IXseed1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why do you care? Are YOU into girls who smoke? That's all that matters. Stop wasting your time wondering what other guys want.

[–]Zero-Milk1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Turnoff. Not interested.

[–]AshyBoneVR41 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Depends on how reliant they are on it. If they can live without it, and only smoke on rare occasions, there's nothing wrong with that. If they fuckin LIVE for smoking weed, and always need to get high, there's a reason for that. I'd say most of the time it's due to anxiety, or they want to escape or numb their life. Is she productive or active at all? If the answer to both is no, hard pass. Don't waste your time.

[–]carlosceja271 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes, someone's personality should not revolve around a drug. Now if you're asking if it's a red flag that someone smokes than it's a no. It's a red flag when it's all they do.

[–]BIGBIRD_eblazio1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Absolutely for a ons- you found a freak with daddy issues; she will likely drain you.
Absolutely not for a LTR - she’s damaged goods with significant mental issues.

[–]mortalcoil11 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If she likes to toke, she likes to poke.

[–]Atconian1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If she a pothead she belong to da streets

[–]SalporinRP1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Potheads of any gender are a big turnoff. I'm not some evangelist either. In my college days I smoked pot, took LSD/shrooms two times, and a coke a few times on wild nights.

But the people who are out of college and still desperately trying to cling to the loser pot lifestyle are honestly a joke. They treat it like smoking pot is a personality trait.

I still smoke pot from time to time (probably once every 6-8 weeks) but I'm not under some illusion that it's some cool fad. I just enjoy sparking a joint with my friends once in a while.

[–]misfithustle3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes.

Matter of fact, I am actually turned off in different ways by most stoners.

Something about pot make's me put stoners in the same category as retards. Weed should not rule one's life, and I have seen it ultimately do just that. It can completely ruin someone. Zero ambitions or will to do anything but smoke.

When I hear a stoner say "Lets pull up and smoke" every 20 minutes I want to bitch smack them. Yes Im refering to friends of mine unfortunately.

Weird thing is that I use to smoke weed, and I dabble in psychedelics. But I'm headed for trade school this month to work out a career, some of the stoners I know are still stuck in highschool and slumping around.

[–]seducter3 points4 points  (8 children) | Copy

Holy fuck are all of you retarded? Literally everyone in here saying it's a red flag. You realize weed is the safest, non addicting drug out there? And I've never met a woman who actually liked weed. For some reason, they all HATE weed (they will start by pretending they like it but once you give them any leeway, they will start shitting on you for smoking).

I love how weed's a red flag, but go ahead and keep buying these chick's alcohol.

I smoke weed every day and am more athletic than most I know (BJJ, weightlifting, cardio, yoga, blah blah).

Weed's about as dangerous as coffee. Would you say "I left right away" as soon as she proposed goin for coffee?

Give your heads a fucking shake.

[–]imtrynaclapnocap1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s a little bit more dangerous than coffee but yeah I agree that it’s not as bad as most people think, just gotta know how to be productive with it

[–]fpuen1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It doesn't matter how safe or good a thing is, it matters what types of people indulge in that activity. Which has more to do with the perception and culture of said activity than its merits.

[–]spedoid0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Agreed, I'm amazed at how wrong the comments are here. There is nothing wrong with smoking weed if you have your shit together

[–]seducter2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Amen brother, I honestly wish MORE chicks liked weed.

[–]vadimdavidov-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Cope

Weed makes people retarded, even though safe. Goofy and shit. No man with his shit together respects a stoner.

[–]seducter2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’ll be honest, nobody respects an uptight asshole who doesn’t know what he’s talking about. And I say that with the utmost respect. So get you’re shit sorted first and we can talk.

[–]vadimdavidov-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cope

DuRRR HurRR 420 LEGaLiZe iT!!!11

[–]extasis_T3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Why are you even asking this on here? if it bothers you, then of course it’s a red flag and a turn off.

My girlfriend and I have smoked weed daily for half a decade and we are both eating healthy, staying active, attending college and getting our shit done. I see weed in the same light I see coffee.

Different strokes for different folks. I don’t have many friends who smoke, and I have never met anyone who sits around smoking all day with no ambition. Although it seems to be the stereotype so I have no doubt misuse and little discipline can turn into that.

I would say, if that is what is going on, it is definitely a red flag. But even then I would say it’s more of a lifestyle/discipline issue than it is a weed issue.

[–]ChadBreeder10 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Big difference between college and the real world. I can’t elaborate here but I was in your shoes once and more than likely I was much more involved in it than you currently are. The real world is much different than college.

[–]extasis_T0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Well, my chronic pain probably will not change much once I leave college. And I won’t be taking any opiates. I have been using daily for 7 years and have seen very little negatives in treating pain compared to opiates. It’s saved my life.

[–]ChadBreeder11 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Trust me, bro. The day I retire I’ll be right back at it. I 100% respect you for not using big pharma’s poisons. For me, I never would have been able to quit if my profession wasn’t so black and white about it. However, for me it’s been a blessing in disguise because there are a lot of benefits of not being addicted to something. Yes, it is addicting as are other psychoactive substances (e.g., caffeine, alcohol, etc.) otherwise you wouldn’t do it in the first place.

[–]mr4kino2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes.

Yes.

And for the third question that you didn't ask "Do I next her?". Yes.

[–]TacoMedic1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t like the smell which is why I use it maybe once a month and only edibles, I’ve smoked/ripped thrice in my life. However, I dont act like I’m holier than thou and if others are doing it, I don’t give a fuck.

The problem with potheads is the same with alcoholics. It’s the obsession. I don’t want any girl with any obsession unless it’s working out, her job, or giving me head. Potheads are addicted to the high in the same way that alcoholics are addicted to the feeling of being drunk.

[–]damiksta931 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

the 2 biggest whores ive ever come across were potheads... coincidence? i think not

[–]Zanakii1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I mean it's the same for guys or girls who play video games every single day, or just watch TV every single day, or tiktok, or sew etc.

If someone only does 1 thing and that's their identity and they dont branch out or do other things it's boring. It's less about the weed and more about how obsessed with weed they are.

[–]Gawernator0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah if they’re obsessed that’s bad. Just occasional usage is well, pretty much the norm here in CA. WonderCBD even sponsors me

[–]SimplyFishOil0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

In your shitty area? No. At the beach? Bad bitches everywhere. You gotta have something to offer though, cause they're playing the same game that you are.

[–]JustSatan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If a girl stays high all the time and doesn't do anything with her life, it's a turn-off, yeah--she's a loser. But there's nothing wrong with a girl who likes to smoke weed and get a lil weird/freaky from time to time. Live a little

[–]flacko_red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t do drugs so it’s a turnoff for me. Nothing against them, but I just don’t want them in my life. The more excessive the use, the brighter the red flag for me.

[–]HeyAwkwardOne0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I cant say never met a pot women that talks about mj.

[–]hollabomb0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yep

[–]whuttupfoo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

10 times out of 10 a pothead will have a dirty ass room. I've never met a stoner, male or female, with a clean living environment.

You're signing up for a bitch that doesn't wash dishes and leaves her clothes in a visible pile in the corner of her room.

[–]ProFriendZoner0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The first red flag is your own ... You "hear" she is a pothead.

Is she or isn't she.

Do you know this for a fact or are you going by what others say?

If you're going by what others say, you need to hit the sidebar.

And yes, If someone is a pothead or a cokehead or a druggie or alcoholic it is a serious red flag. Stay away.

[–]2319Skew0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes it's a flag but not necessarily a turn off. That depends on her persona and lifestyle. I would hook up with a woman that smokes pot but I wouldn't plan to make her anything more than someone I can occasionally see for sex or hang out at her place.

[–]Blue-Raft0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes it’s gross

[–]jamescastillo76-1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy

Dude pass her to me, I’ve been getting into weed a lot lately

[–]ddd13374 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

As a guy who has been smoking weed a lot 2 years ago, stop while you can. It fucks you.

[–]AlpacaStrap-4 points-3 points  (1 child) | Copy

100%

[–]OneWayTicketUP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed, not worth it. I miss it but I smoke once every few months, that's it. I just know myself from experience, been an addict. Self-awareness is key, and not that head high awareness.

[–]AlpacaStrap-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Definitely not LTR material

[–]vadimdavidov-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Massive red flag.

[–]AlanTheCow-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

don't think its an issue for a plate, but a big red flag for an ltr

[–]MGTOWMODSSUCK-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus you guys are a bunch of pretentious killjoys.

[–]Zapche-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Feel it out but I enjoy smoking a lot and am responsible

[–]cracksniffer666-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

I lived with a girl for 2 years.. (never again).

When she woke up, she SPRANG out of bed, grabbed her cigarettes, sprinted towards the door, sat on the porch, and INHALED a fucking cigarette.

Is she like that about it? If so......run.

EDIT: (for the boys) I ended up working with someone that fucked her before me, but didn't know I was with her. He always talked about her, coming back to bed, smelling like trash and cigarettes. I just kept my head down, and my mouth shut. Yes, she was fucking hot.

[–]brianmcg321-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

They are fun to party with.

[–]huey764-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Huge turn on for me, makes me wanna fuck her brains out while we are both stupid baked. Although definitely not LTR material.



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