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I was falsley accused of rape.

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Last week, I m(21) was falsely accused of raping someone I went to university with without screenshots, proof or anything to support her tweet. Being in a fraternity didn't help my case. She posted the tweet slandering my name and my fraternity and it went viral getting over 2k retweets. I had to take down my social media and people saw this as me being guilty. I took it down because people started to share pictures of my family and because I was getting overwhelmed with threats. The damage was done so fast. The next day I got kicked out of programs, my fraternity, and lost my room I was renting (someone leaked my address online). I put everything I had in savings for a lawyer only to find out this disgusting excuse for a human being privated her tweet and went off social media herself probably because she knew she'd look like a fool when I was proved innocent. She tagged my university and told people to file complaints on me. I don't know why SHE didn't file a police report. If she truly believed I raped her she should of filed one so I could prove my innocence in court or at the very least go to my campuses title 9 office. I'm innocent but I have no proof because it didn't happen. I have no money left, no place to my name and barely any food to survive. I lost everything except my beautiful girlfriend who has been letting me stay at her place for free for the summer while I look for a new job. I want to go to civil court but have no money left. No one will believe me. She ruined me mentally, and financially. The tweet is gone but the damage is done. I am now labled a rapist to society. I want to thank my girlfriend who I will call Love. Thank you for believing me when no one else would. I am deeply heartbroken that anyone would believe I'd do such a despicable act. Thank you Love.


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Title I was falsley accused of rape.
Author Toffee1878parker
Upvotes 741
Comments 182
Date 05 July 2020 08:27 AM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit TheRedPill
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/704137
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[–]nixon993415 points416 points  (19 children) | Copy

You need to fucking sue her,find some money and get that bitch,trust me.

[–]kantoshark206 points207 points  (7 children) | Copy

If he starts a gofundme, I would give to that to take her down.

[–]JGFishe101 points102 points  (5 children) | Copy

Likely that gofundme would take the fundraiser down.

[–]Trengingigan9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

He could name it something else. We are the only ones who need to know what it is really about.

[–]Onein1024th7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

use another platform. who cares if its via GoFundMe or paypal

[–]cat_magnet11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

What planet are you living on? They would take it down in a second.

[–]Trengingigan1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Me too. Im in. I want to contribute something.

[–]theconcentrated51 points52 points  (7 children) | Copy

Can you sue with the ss evidence of deleted tweets?

[–]gediwer84 points85 points  (2 children) | Copy

That's what Justin Beiber is doing. Although he has millions of dollars backing him so kinda feels unfair to give his example

[–]TreatYouLikeAQuean28 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hadn't heard anything about the Bieber thing until your comment. Just read a little about it.

Bieber's suit also notes that a month after Kadi claims to have been assaulted she tweeted "I swear if we don't meet I'll find you and fuck you," and in February of this year said in a tweet she'll "never get noticed" by the singer and referred to herself as a Belieber.

Fucking insane!!

This psycho resorts to claiming Bieber raped her just so she can get noticed by him. . . wow.

[–]laiyaise1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Not alone. Anyone can easy fabricate a tweet image to say whatever they want. He would have to use that to get Twitter to get those deleted tweets and verify they existed to be used as evidence.

[–]good-afternoon36 points37 points  (0 children) | Copy

100% this. Civil action seeking over 1M in damages at least.

[–]Revorob7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

This. More men need to sue their false accusers to send a clear message that this shit will not and cannot be tolerated.

[–]rprookie17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Make a fake account or a different account and try to get close to her with that account and ask “ what happened”. she what she says and try to fish for anything you can use in Court.

[–]INNASKILLZ2K18115 points116 points  (17 children) | Copy

Fuck me. You guys don't have legal aid, or any lawyers who will take on a case and only take a fee if they win?

We have that in Australia.

Why did she do this? What's the motivation?

What advice did you get from the lawyer you hired?

[–]Joker_AE89 points90 points  (15 children) | Copy

Fuck me. You guys don't have legal aid, or any lawyers who will take on a case and only take a fee if they win?

that’s the greatest country in the world for ya

Why did she do this? What's the motivation?

Prolly cuz she’s an empowered bottom feeding bitch, PrOgGrEsSiVe SoCiEtY and all that. People like this honestly just need to be put down so they can not pull that shit again and also be made an example of to the rest. The guy is being treated like Hitler v2, without the evidence. Reading these kinda stories always fills me with so much hate dude

[–]INNASKILLZ2K1864 points65 points  (13 children) | Copy

It's fucked. I've been in similar, but not as bad a situation.

Beginning of this year I had a fucking crazy extreme-left psycho feminist who I disagreed with on her Facebook post. Got into a little heated exchange, so she wrote a formal complaint to my work!

I was stupid enough to have my workplace in my profile. I had a formal interview process with my CEO, and was put on a 'work management plan'.

Utter horseshit. Never met this woman before, and don't even live in the same country.

So I get it. Fuck me, lucky I had the resilience to turn the situation in my favour and impress the hell out of my CEO.

But yeah, for a week I was put on paid leave I was thinking 'holy shit, this is it happening for real. I'm a man and can't ever disagree with a bitch in case she goes full retard'.

'Progressive society' = 'I'm a loser, and now there are ways to take my inner hate out on others'.

[–]MilkMoney11130 points31 points  (4 children) | Copy

Which is why social media is shit. Let them have that toxic dump

[–]INNASKILLZ2K1811 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yes. It's just a vessel for one collective virtue signal.

[–]3HardWay1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I love all the "but I'm just on <insert social media site> for planning group events." As if people weren't organizing social gatherings of all kinds prior to "social media" or even the Internet.

[–]NinjaDingo0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I agree, but it comes at the expense of alternative views to their bullshit/men having a voice, so I'm conflicted

[–]MilkMoney1110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I thought that too. But that kind of toxicity has a way of eating itself. You really don’t even have to fight it, let them consume each other.

[–]beginner_9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

who I disagreed with on her Facebook post.

Discussion such stuff on on social media under your real name is just asking for trouble. Hope you learned your lesson.

Also:

Never Wrestle with a Pig. You Both Get Dirty and the Pig Likes It.

Or:

Never play chess with a pigeon. The pigeon just knocks all the pieces over. Then shits all over the board. Then struts around like it won

[–]vadimdavidov39 points40 points  (6 children) | Copy

Dude, are you me? The exact same shit happened with me. I'm in the UK and some fat feminist bitch from the USA contacted my work because I LIKED a comment saying "All lives matter" on some pro-BLM protests post on a public page. I had my fucking workplace on my profile at the time. I didn't even engage in convo with her. Luckily, I didn't get into any trouble, because the girl who mans the email inbox gave me a heads up, but I don't sleep right at night anymore knowing I could lose my job over LIKING a fucking Facebook comment that doesn't conform with the narrative being pushed by MSM and the left.

[–]INNASKILLZ2K1822 points23 points  (3 children) | Copy

Fucking insanity.

It pays to have a very good understanding of extreme-left psychology. Miserable, pathetic, self-loathing people. They've been sold a twisted ideology based on 'equality' and 'justice'.

The more they buy in and support it, the more they feel they have some sort of meaning in their lives. This includes taking down anyone they have been brainwashed to think is the 'enemy'.

That complaint convinced her she was doing something for the greater good, made her feel 'part of' and that she must have meaning because she's woke.

Little do these people give a shit that they're destroying people's lives, guilting the innocent and spreading the hate which extreme-leftism convinced them they were fighting.

These people just want to destroy, and will destroy anyone who disagrees with them.

[–]vadimdavidov14 points15 points  (2 children) | Copy

It fucking infuriates me. It's hard to push me off centre, but this kind of shit really puts me in a violent, violent place. Anyone who doesn't agree with the narrative being pushed is automatically categorised, labeled and exiled.

The only solution here is that we have to find a way to become our own bosses and answer to fucking no one.

[–]HomemadeBananaBread7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I feel you man. Not many things in life make me mad, but these crooked people make my blood boil sometimes. Peathetic low life nobodies with nothing else to do but destroy. Really dissapoint the heck outa me man.

[–]Praeda180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Welcome to modern day Bolshevism: it’s going to get much worse.

[–]DeputyDomeshot1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That is the craziest shit I’ve heard all day.

[–]antoniofelicemunro3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

that’s the greatest country in the world for ya

What are you on about? America does have lawyers who will work without being paid unless you win. In fact, the majority of lawyers will.

[–]antoniofelicemunro6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

The other guys full of shit. America does have lawyers who will work without getting paid unless you win.

[–]selfeduhated385 points386 points  (27 children) | Copy

I find it mad how nowadays people and moreso legit institutions take the online world so seriously. I grew up in the early days of internet use and nobody would ever take online bullshit so seriously its like society in general has devolved into one ran by morons.

[–]BurningOrangeHeaven97 points98 points  (18 children) | Copy

Once there is money involved (internet is very profitable now) all the social justice and business formality boners get whipped out. People actually use their real name and pics online for everything now - can you believe that shit. Really a different time online than it used to be - for the worse.

[–]PandaLitter19 points20 points  (16 children) | Copy

How do we protect ourselves online?

[–]BurningOrangeHeaven15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

I dont know what people should or can do.

Personally I have never taken many pictures of myself and i don't have facebook etc anyway. And i use a fake email for everything. But all that was never to protect myself or anything, i just never liked taking pictures or posting videos etc.

What can you really do if someone takes a picture while youre out together and posts it with some fake story about what happened afterwards - the reactions always come before the facts these days.

[–]tyrryt53 points54 points  (3 children) | Copy

Never use FB, instagram, etc., use anonymous email, and never use your real identity anywhere.

Funny how Internet users used to understood this, nobody gave out real ID or phone numbers - then the wide-eyed naive millenials discovered FB and just gave up all anonymity instantly. Incredibly stupid.

[–]gotmilo114 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

So fucked up how this movement caused us to have to delete our own social media to protect ourselves Yes social media is somewhat desensitizing us.. but it could be used for good platform to sell... And this is why my wuss ass is so afraid to approach, slide in dms and talk to women cause of the fear of harassment cases.. the odds are so against us it's sickening...

I just got to focus on myself more and vett these women more before I shoot my shot...

[–]submit3r0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

If you are online, you are not anonymous.

[–]tyrryt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No, not completely - the FBI can subpoena ISP records, but that takes a criminal investigation.

It's a hell of a lot harder for private companies to build a database of you, your friends, their friends, your habits, movements, purchases, etc., or for some psycho jilted woman to dox you and ruin your life, or insurance companies to deny coverage, or a woke HR dept. to fire you, if you don't hand them that information on social media.

The fact that the government could in severe cases get that information doesn't mean it's fine to just give it out everywhere.

[–]daniellederek13 points14 points  (5 children) | Copy

Never ever take a drunk girl home period full stop.

Spy cameras with audio in your bedroom, leave your phone on recording etc.

Before penetration ask , what do you want. Do you want my cock inside you? Better if she begs fuck me now etc

If anything kinky, or that could be later painted as non consenting is going to happen have a complete conversation about no dont stop not meaning that and what the safe word is.

This can be all done playfully with dirty talk without being clinical.

[–]gotmilo118 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy

Yeah time to start putting does baby sitter cams in my room now.... Creepy but I rather protect myself and make her look stupid in court

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[–]odaklanan_insan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just don't let your plates know where you work/study/live. Then their only way to harm you is filing a police report for rape and winning a court, which is not likely if you didn't rape her.

Hell you don't even have to give them your full name and never add them on social media. Ever....

[–]AquitasVeritas10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Like my dad said and as I say.. a real man can’t even say social media and be taken seriously. We should either be working on ourselves, our job/work or working out.

It even surprises so called instagram models if you dont have and dont care about her social media.

Time comsuming trash.

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[–]1Jaereth1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agree. I have it but when I was in my hookup phase they were never on my socials. Never met my friends or went to my place. I even got the burner app for my phone.

[–]Praeda182 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Stay the fuck off of social media, especially Twitter, far away from these wretched creatures. If (for whatever reason) you can’t pull yourself away from it, ENSURE YOU DOCUMENT EVERYTHING. This includes any post(s) made about, or referencing, you, or any photo you may be tagged in.

Also, get into the habit of either having a friend with you when you dump a bitch, and/or slyly have your iphone recording audio (and ideally video) in your hand during the process. It sucks, but if you want to stay safe you have to protect yourself.

Otherwise, stay the fuck off social media!

[–]fingermeal8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

it started a long time ago when companies would view your facebook page before hiring you.

[–]1319Skew25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy

Remember a time where you couldn't use Wikipedia as a source for any essay because the information was so easy to change and it's sources weren't even verified? You had to cite reviewed and documented sources from reputable locations. Now, you can say anything, have it trend and by ruin a life.

Hang in there OP.

[–]ac7142 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

What are you ranting about? You still can’t use it a direct reference in any academic institution that I’m aware of. You have to cite a legitimate source which wiki is not considered to be.

Social media is not an academic institution. Just in case you weren’t aware.

The workaround is to use the source that Wikipedia uses.

[–]llightbringer10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

It’s like the movie Idiocracy is becoming more true every day.

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[–]YoItsOrbit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sixnine btw has several pics of him in clothes that say "p*ssy eater" and he wears it like a badge of honor. Hell, look at all his new music videos I dare you

[–]ac7140 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, totally. Why care about lawsuits, reputation, or mitigating scandals? It’S jUsT oNlInE wOrLd

[–]AlanTheCow144 points145 points  (13 children) | Copy

this is fucked up shit. the best thing to do would maybe be to get into contact with your parents. you could use her for ALOT of money in civil court for slander and defamation. but like you said, you can't afford a lawyer. maybe your parents would front you the money or something.

[–]Toffee1878parker[S] 110 points111 points  (11 children) | Copy

I've asked already and they don't want to get into problems. I hired a criminal lawyer because I thought she would file a police report. But she didn't because she knows it's not true. She privated her twitter and started deleting followers she accumulated from her stupid tweet. And yes I got Screenshots of EVERYTHING before she went private.

[–]babybopp164 points165 points  (5 children) | Copy

Also don’t think gf/ Love will stand by you for very long. Try to find alternate accommodation set up because if you understand TRP you know that once you stop being seen as a rock and provider, your turn is over pretty fast. That is why you should have looked for one of your boys to stay with them during this time.

[–]PandaLitter39 points40 points  (0 children) | Copy

Going to be a hard pill to swallow when you have no boys. #believehernomatterwhat

[–]BriefcaseHead238 points39 points  (3 children) | Copy

This. Your world is crashing OP. Maybe your girl will be an absolute sweetheart through it all. Maybe you being upset and stressed will make her lose some attraction and maybe even make her slightly believe the tweets. Remain high value. Don't you dare stop your normal gym schedule. Diet on point. Meditating everyday as normal. You need to be in tip top condition for this shit

[–]babybopp11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are right, if he maintains his frame and doesn’t break routine, he can still keep her wanting. But if he despairs and cries whining about what happened, she will activate failure protocol on him.

[–]TheEgyptianConqueror27 points28 points  (1 child) | Copy

Try to find one of those lawyers that doesn't get paid unless you win." They usually aren't as good as the ones that take payment either way, and they'll rip your fuckin eyes out if you do win, but you'll get so much money from this cunt you won't even care. Find a job, the highest paying one you can (if you're smart/really good at something, you can tutor on the side too for at least 30/hr), scrap together any money you can at all, and go after this bitch. There's a way to get proof of that tweet (it's been retweeted over 2k times) and you must have an alibi somewhere. Godspeed to you dude. I know you're feeling down and discouraged, and that's okay, it's normal. But you're a man. After you have your moment, get back up and fight this bitch to the death.

[–]RavenLordx11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

What is the whole "they don't want to get into problems?". Are you their son or not?

[–]rprookie1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do you even know this girl?

Like what’s the story?

[–]kenroyalblue1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Uh...money that she probably doesn't even have. Not necessarily the best idea tbh.

[–]daniellederek109 points110 points  (5 children) | Copy

You need to go full attack dog on this. You are paying money to the university for services rendered. Get the lawyer on this first to get you back into classes. And look into having any records expunged and see what other places would accept credits from outside institutions.

If theres no criminal charges coming beat them all down with defamation and slander. Whatever the expected income from your field of study 5 years out x15 x2 is the number to ask for plus pain and suffering. Bare minimum to settle for is a quiet settlement with non disclosure equivalent to triple what the degree would cost.

[–]invictus082 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Curious, what’s the rationale behind this calculation - expected income 5 years out x 15 x 2?

[–]--Kamikaze--1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

The real question is ”what is the rationale behind false rape accusations?”

[–]trollreign34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy

The most important thing here that I haven't seen mentioned is that you have to get up on your feet and become independent as quickly as possible. You CANNOT depend on your girlfriend "Love" in this scenario. She is not meant to be the rock in your storm, you are supposed to be HER rock in HER storm. Some good women will stand by you for a while, but she cannot support you for very long. If she dumps you next week in the middle of all this, then you will be crushed. Get on your feet, and work hard to at least keep what you still got left.

[–]assa_ssin106 points107 points  (15 children) | Copy

Retaliate.

Make it public, go to your country news and expose her.

Draw the attention of as many people as possible in your country, describe yourself as victim and ask for free legal help.

She started that but you have to finish it, fack her and don't show mercy.

EDIT: You can also ask compensation for a big amount of money from those that harmed you without proof.

EDIT2: If I was in your place I would try to have fun, I would go to a public bridge and threaten to commit suicide so as to draw the attention of the whole country and played the victim card, haha. Also I would try to fack all those who harmed me without proofs asking for big compensations.

[–]albino_red_head50 points51 points  (1 child) | Copy

Do this OP. Call her out for false accusations, no police report, no proof, defamation of character and slander. Call out her followers for not getting the other side of the story and following along like sheep. Challenge her to file a police report with evidence knowing she can’t.

[–]redknightcrusader21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sue your old landlord and any organization that punished you without proof of wrongdoing.

[–]Eccentricpsycho59 points60 points  (2 children) | Copy

This, do what Bieber did crush the girl you won’t be the first find out other people she’s slept with and build a case study

[–]absu66743 points44 points  (1 child) | Copy

Bieber is a famous multimillionaire with well documented alibis.

OP is broke and can barely form a coherent sentence.

These two men should not be using the same strategies.

[–]3HardWay1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hopefully OP has the wisdom to not open his mouth in a court of law.

[–]Raw_American_Steel43 points44 points  (4 children) | Copy

You know that in this blue pilled society there is not a single person in the entire western world who will believe a 21-year-old frat boy over a girl

[–]assa_ssin31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can easily use the legal system to your advantage when there are no solid proofs - I know that very well - as long as you don't confess anything and hire a good lawyer.

OP has the advantage here and hasn't realised it yet. Can possibly make a lot of money out of this.

The people are just news consumer to fight their boredom and are happy to have an opinion for what happens. They will be divided if not favor the OP in this case.

From the actions of the girl - deleted the twit - seems that she doesn't want to draw more attention to the matter.

If all men decided to fight back these girls would hold back from false accusations.

[–]mr4kino11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

Things are changing. You now have an "awoken class" that is getting bigger and bigger. Yes, the majority are BP, but a couple of years ago, things were lot worse.

[–]theguytheguy10006 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

yup, it's definately seeped into the mainstream more and more.

4 years ago when a girl makes an accusation people were like "omg believe her".

now it's slowly going more toward "hold up, a lot of these hoes be lying"

[–]well-ok-then6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

I can’t imagine this working. Even if you have proof you were hundreds of miles away on the night in question, she can say she got the date wrong. I can’t imagine how doing anything public goes well for OP, especially while she’s still around.

[–]parks391 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This! Evidence is for men. The feminine mob cares not for it... only for whatever the girl says... poor thing

[–]panty__wetter48 points49 points  (0 children) | Copy

[–]RedPillAlphaBigCock20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy

Screenshot and record EVERYTHING and I mean EVERYTHING and back that sit up and use archive org and then just CONSULT with a lawyer and see what they say . RECORD fucking EVERYTHING and all the consequences

[–]UltimaterializerX19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

You need to sue both her and the school for defamation, and then you need to go full MGTOW.

[–]samsop44 points45 points  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus Christ.

I was recently banned from a football subreddit because I questioned some high-profile case where an 18 y/o footballer was accused of rape by a "model" he got in touch with on Instagram and invited to his home. In other words, a prostitute. Authorities arrested him then let him go on bail, then later dropped the case. When he posted about it on social media to assert his innocence, people just shrugged it off and didn't want to discuss it anymore.

And you wanna know the funniest part? These simps banned anyone who talked about it in any manner that didn't at least suspect he was guilty and the girl wasn't lying. Apparently the authorities dropping the case did not mean he was innocent, it just meant there wasn't enough evidence to prove guilt. LOL.

It's so funny to me how they say "believe women," but claim this doesn't go against "innocent until proven guilty." You can't believe the accusation without assuming guilt. It reminds me of that video with the Uber guy where the girl sneered she'd "tell everyone you raped me."

It's not even the women that do it that are dangerous at this point. It's the sad losers who are willing to believe them as a matter of principle.

[–]D_Marquis15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

Okay what's the recourse on this? Because any girl can say something & that would mess your rep up. Another reason why I didnt date much in uni and had a gf.

[–]twy34406 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can sue her for damages. It's libel to say someone raped you when they didn't.

[–]Dhahill11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude this literallt happened to me so I feel you. Sucks though. Don't have any advice for you. Fuck that bitch, what makes people do this? Are they deathly insecure, so their self hatred it comes out as cruelty? Food for thought. Fuck them bro. You got 1 life so don't let this bring you down. You will likely have this attatched to you for the rest of your life so idk what you can do but carry on and keep imporving yourself, maybe move? Idk I was fucking depressed for ages when I got kicked from Uni for this shit.

[–]absu66710 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

This thread is full of absolutely garbage advice that’s going to further ruin your life.

Get a lawyer and keep your mouth shut. That is the ONLY appropriate course of action.

[–]EPArt7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Start a go fund me e.t.c contact some mgtow youtube channels their viewers might be able to help you out. Keep sharing your story. Maybe try the police but do some research first. You should go scorched earth on this as this could hang over you for decades to come for no reason when your innocent.

[–]Ballyop5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

So what actually happened? Did you even fuck or is she making this whole thing up?

[–]ventuspilot5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

IANAL but I would look into suing the University in civil court if they kicked you out of programs you have paid for. You have a contract with the university to give you an education, you have paid for it, and they can't let down their end just because of some tweets.

This seems to be a growing business for lawyers. If you have a strong case then you may be able to find a lawyer who will sue without upfront costs for you.

[–]jimd925 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

You didn't go viral, you went locally known. Fuck outta that city and start a new life.

[–]chickensizzla3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bro this is horrid, my only take would be what a previous comment said and ask your parents for help. One thing is certain, you cannot just leave this. You MUST take her to court for this because this is serious damage to your name and to your life that has been inflicted. She's has to pay for this.

[–]ZymfRmzKt6Y2UV5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a CRIME, contact the police. Also, sue her directly, borrow money from parents etc if you have to. Worst case get a loan. You must go on the offensive 100%.

[–]dgillz5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Start a go fund me for your legal expenses

[–]HODL_monk4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

OK, people take online crap WAY too seriously. You need to go to each person or institution that kicked you out of anything because 'reasons' and ask THEM to justify their actions. Like demand they show you a police report if they believe you did something wrong. They may not take you back, but it does prove that THEY are the problem, and THEY are jumping to conclusions based on nothing. After getting their 'side of the non-story', I would file a complaint for each one of them, and add a negative review explaining why judging someone when nothing happened is wrong. People will understand this, even if the powers that be are clueless.

[–]bandraboyz4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

I can't say more about this. But the same thing happened to me. All I did was made sure that the cunt understand that what she is doing is wrong and I will loose my social status along with my education. I told her I will accept the rape case in the court, behave very wisely in jail and come back as early as possible to kill her. There was nothing else I saw I could have done as everyone believed that bitch and was against me. I continued my education and pursuing masters now with a good job.

[–]Randombro111110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is what think should happen but you have to be able to stay the course or else it's all for nothing.

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[–]Ikar117 points8 points  (7 children) | Copy

Can you give us a backstory of why this happened and who she is , if you have screenshots would you mind posting it ?

[–]Toffee1878parker[S] 34 points35 points  (6 children) | Copy

Due to legal reasons I can't. Lawyer's instructions

[–]ironicsadboy11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is one of the few responses I saw you giving. Bro, sue your college and old landlord for damaging you without proof and SUE THAT FUCKING BITCH. Seriously, you need to insist with your parents to back you up in this. That whore can’t get away with this.

[–]skuttt2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

1) you didn't provide any rationale for why she accused you 2) claimed you couldn't afford a lawyer but then 3) said the reason for 1) is due to lawyer instructions.

Doesn’t add up mate. Nice troll, dunno what you’re getting out of it.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

He hired a criminal lawyer but he can't afford one for civil court

[–]skuttt1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You’re right, I failed to read correctly.

I still want context though. Nobody does this for no reason and as much as I am disgusted and sympathize with OP, I want to also gain more knowledge from his scenario.

[–]Toffee1878parker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Please read the comments. I got a criminal lawyer because I thought she had filed a police report. I have nothing left.

[–]Toffee1878parker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I believe she accused me because I chose to pursue a relationship with someone else. I chose "Love" instead of her and she felt alone and wanted my life ruined after that.

[–]1meerita3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

What about your family? Can't your family help you on this?

[–]PlatinumHands1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

He said somewhere that he already asked his parents, but they said they didn't want problems.

[–]Newkker2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I would sue her, your school, whoever kicked you out of your apartment.

This can not be allowed. Go public. I would legitimately donate to your situation. As men we need to start fighting back in the culture war.

[–]Sickem_roy2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Had some obese chick at work accuse me of sexual harassment at work because she was standing up in a narrow hallway with lockers that I couldn’t get by without squeezing through. I said excuse me turned ASS to ASS with my crotch against THE WALL, and fucking shimmied with (ZERO CONTACT) so I could make it down the stairs and get to work on time. She was with her friend and made this exaggerated Omg what a pervert gesture with her hands up in the air as if I was doing it because I’m for some reason in a state of uncontrollable lust over some fat chick I had never spoken to IN MY LIFE. i had seen her around and she seemed fucking nuts and i was definitely right. I was a virgin at the time and a little awkward around woman. This delusional bitch reported me and I had to walk into a room and talk to a bunch of higher ups about whether or not i sexually harrassed a female in the workplace. I knew it was this chick immediately and felt extremely pissed off and frustrated. How tf do you even argue. I can’t point out the fact that I’m not attracted to her because she’s fat af, because then I’m fat shaming or some shit, honestly it felt hopeless in arguing. I ended up quitting, so I guess she got what she wanted. Ugh, still pisses me off thinking about it.

[–]Ivan_The_Reddish3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you're in the US, kicking you out of your place is an illegal eviction. Get the cops to let you back in, and sue your landlord.

[–]CommyO4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Modern America, where men are considered guilty until proven innocent.

I hope you get revenge on that bitch OP.

[–]gediwer13 points14 points  (4 children) | Copy

Talk to your lawyer before doing any of this:

• Make a video stating your side of the story and put all the evidence you have in it. Upload it on YT, Twitter, Insta, everywhere (even TikTok). In it tell ALL the suffering you have received because of her devilish actions include everything, legal fees, mental torment.

• In the video say you are going to sue her for various claims if she doesn't say the truth and apologize.

• Tag all major news channels(inside edition etc) (and possibly big celebrities for eg, Justin Bieber). Also ask people for support because you "know that these are fake allegations and you wouldn't come out on social media if you weren't innocent." Also tag your university.

• Also stir some shit up. I mean put out fake news against her. "She said she was going to accuse so and so as well". Basically make her look like the bad guy. Also put in some shit like she tried to give you illegal drugs or something. Ykwim. (Ik many people will be against this point but here we are trying to bait her out).

• Try to shame her as much as you can "she has slept with so and so" "she did this here and that there". ANYTHING.

• The MOST IMPORTANT part is gaining popularity on social media. If you don't have people backing you, you have basically nothing.

Also very important, HIDE HER NAME or else she can sue you for defamation. Tell everyone who she is without saying her name or giving out any of her info.

Now I want to criticize what you did. You shouldn't have gone private. You should have made these videos as soon as she came out with her fake story. You fked up. People are judging you just because you took your page down. You should have started looking for followers ASAP.

TikTok is popping rn. Upload your story there (after talking to your attorney ofc). You will get views in an instant. Good luck.

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[–]gediwer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I am not even sure if he is reading any of this

[–]RealJoeDee2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

DO NOT DO THIS. Nice in theory but it will completely undermine any lawsuit that can be launched. Maybe AFTER winning in court go HAM with the social media front. For now you buckle down and prepare with your lawyer.

[–]gediwer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's why I said to consult the lawyer beforehand

[–][deleted] 43 points44 points  (7 children) | Copy

Go to the police and explain what's happened. This is a crime. Twitter can retrieve deleted tweets.

[–]absu66771 points72 points  (4 children) | Copy

Dude, NO. Never, ever, EVER, go to the police without a lawyer. ESPECIALLY if you are a male accused of rape. Are you fucking kidding me?!

This is the worst advice I’ve ever seen anywhere, about anything. You’re going to cost this kid his life.

The police are not there to help you. They exist to help get convictions. OP is going to say something stupid, which they’ll interpret as incriminating, and they’ll arrest and charge his ass.

OP: she says I raped her but I didn’t

Cops: did you have sex?

OP: yeah

Cops: can you prove she consented?

OP: uhhhh

Boom. Arrested & charged.

Never EVER speak to the police without a lawyer.

Jesus H Christ.

[–]Hydroponically14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

True, good point.

I literally don’t ever speak to the police.

I don’t help them incriminate me or build a case.

I just wanted to add that if he does to remember to get a report.

But, yeah never without an attorney. I agree 100%.

[–]Hydroponically33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ask for a police report too. You will always need those - as without one it’s almost as if you never went to the PD. Fight this as strongly as you can. If I had more extra cash I’d donate to you. I’ve had this happen before and had a $400,000 bond - I had to plea to some shit that didn’t happen just to get out of jail. Maybe it’s best she didn’t go to PD - as sometimes the grand jury and PD are corrupt and will take hearsay as evidence in hopes you’ll just plea out like I did. There’s free legal services (they’re back up and always busy) but it wouldn’t hurt to look into them. We are nothing in this society without a good name. You don’t want to be a felon for life like me - trust me - it’s no way to live. Even without the criminal record you don’t want this type of slander and libel up for people to read. Contact twitter as well bro - do everything you can. Don’t sleep on this or any accusations moving forward. If it helps - I have a tiny bit on cash app I can send. Enough to get lunch but - maybe if more pitch in you can get somewhere. Keep saving and working and working out to keep your mind right. Know that there’s other people than your chick that believe you. This cancel culture bullshit could ruin anyone. Hang in there homie.

[–]tyrryt2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Find an attorney who will work on a contingency basis, and see if you can sue the school, fraternity, landlord, and the girl. Most attorneys will offer a free initial consultation, to hear the general situation of your case and decide if there's anything to go on. Call around, you have nothing to lose.

[–]BasedAndRedPilled_2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

They should make it illegal to do accuse somebody of rape in public or online. The only time you should be allowed to say somebody is a rapist is if they get convicted.

[–]Pezotecom2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Follow the advice people told you here, fight until the last minute to clean your name. And if doesn't work, please do something horrible in the name of everyone else in this planet who is looking for justice.

[–]bone_shadows2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

deny deny deny. there is no way any one can prove forced penitration. get one of your frat buddies to verify your character on social media and do the same thing they do, accuse them of other false accusations. not trying to victim blame here man but you need to be a little more careful how much you interact with the opposite sex, think of it like court ANYYHING YOU SAY CAN BE HELD AGAINST YOU AT A LATER DATE. you obviously did something to piss this bitch off and there is no much you can do besides see who your real friends are by seeing if they stick by you in these troubled times. other than that, yeah your university shit might be fucked, take it as a sign from god to get into the trades, you are much better off in the long run not going to college, especially if you are getting involved in common hit targets for SJW bitches. it will blow over though, your life is not over and no one didnt beat the fuck out of you and put you in a wheel chair. so remember it could be worse

[–]JeNeSaitQuoi2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

See if any law firms want to take your case pro bono. Try to surf the net for anyone who has spoken about campus date rape. You'll know who may be worth trying and whom to avoid whether by individual or by law firm.

Also appeal to your fraternity. Being falsely accused of date rape is a big risk for college students. Ask at your university law school, if they have free services that you can access.

You have a great girlfriend.

[–]Sickem_roy2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fucked up man, sue that bitch..she is absolute scum. Start a GoFund Me anything. She shouldn’t get away with this shit.

[–]Mgtow_troaway2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lawsuit. Sue her estate for lost wages or damages. These bitches break pretty quick when the walls start closing in. They don't have a gameplan, no one is at the helm in their head, it's all reactionary. It wont clear your name, but since people will hate you either way, better to have the lawsuit victory on your side to clear your name with the people closest to you.

If you don't have enough money, do everything you can to save up money and evidence and beat the statute of limitations.

[–]Perseus_the_Bold2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You may not have any money but the university certainly does and there is no lack of lawyers who will want a cut of that if you decide to sue the school. If a lawyer believed they can win this case they will do it because they will be paid after the suit goes through. Once you get that case going see about filing charges against the person that ruined your life. Putting stuff on the internet counts as it being published which falls under the legal definition of Libel. It is illegal to publish false information that intentionally damages a person's reputation. You can file defamation charges against her. https://www.nealdavislaw.com/criminal-defense-guides/false-allegations-legal-recourse.html

"Perhaps you were falsely accused of rape or some other sex crime which you didn't commit, and as a result you suffered loss of employment, loss of standing in your community, and other damages. Provided no charges are outstanding against you, you may be able to file a defamation of character lawsuit.

Such a lawsuit can target a person who makes deliberate communication — oral or written — with an intent to harm your reputation. Your lawsuit must show that this person knew or should have known that their statements were false, but made them anyway in order to deliberately harm you.

A civil lawsuit for defamation of character via false allegations of a crime can come in two forms: slander and libel."

[–]rorrr[🍰] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sue. Sue everyone involved. Sue people who retweeted too. Sue the university.

[–]Banincoming2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've seen a few false accusations but I've never seen an actual rape, or a victim being taken away to be raped.

In highschool, I went to a huge party with my best friend. The next week in school, I heard he'd raped a girl at the party. A few problems with that:

-He was a super passive and gentle person.

-He's gay but was only out to me.

-I brought him to the party, drank with him, and he passed out on the couch next to me until I drove him to his house at like 10pm.

Happy ending I guess, when the angry mob demanded she go to the cops to have him arrested, she recanted. So no charges, just another life almost destroyed by a dumb girl who wanted attention.

For some strange reason I don't "Believe All Women"...

[–]Loose_Television3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm so sorry for you .. as a woman i feel disgusted by false accusations !! I hope you will get justice

[–]ratpoison9875 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

You’re in university and you write like this?

Something tells me shit post

[–]catsdontsmile1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do what Johnny Depp did and sue her ass

[–]drv120211 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Start a GoFundMe and edit the link into your post. Us guys here will help you out for sure. i, myself, especially love karma. Just don't forget to post us the progress in the future.

[–]MRPhercules1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Is this the incident at OU?

[–]PatrickIIDX1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If I can offer any advice to young men who go to university: Don't have anything to do with women there. Chances are likely the women have been already brainwashed with toxic feminist/leftist/sjw bs that they will falsely accuse you of rape as their definition of it expands.

[–]NamelessAngelon2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Go consult a lawyer, no one here can offer legal advice (which is the advice you need tbh). If you can't afford it see if any will operate on a contingency, at the very least you need to talk to a legal professional about your options (and possible consequences) of taking legal action.

[–]lazykid3482 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sorry to hear this happened to you but if you are innocent then you need to go all out and sue. Try to get money from your parents for a lawyer. Even if you don’t end up getting compensated in the end it’s not about the money, it’s about sending a message.

[–]I_HATE_GOLD_2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I feel like this is a shit post to rile up TRP. This was done last week and you’re ruined financially and mentally? You got kicked out of classes, frat, housing in 1 day?

[–]dahComrad0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You need to contact the BAR in your state and complain about that lawyer.

[–]MilkMoney1110 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Vet. Your. Fucking. Women.

My heart goes out to you OP and thank you for sharing the story so others are reminded.

Your entire life and reputation is not worth nutting in some crazy bitch. Keep your wits and maintain abundance mentality to keep thirst at bay. So you’re not caught off guard being all horny when a chick throws herself on you

[–]Ask_For_Cock_Pics0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's too bad double jeapordy doesn't apply here

[–]hockeyaddict870 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

As a college student this is truly terrifying. It’s crazy how one girl could ruin your life and there’s nothing you can do. Because of courts bias towards women and the fact that you are a broke college student I don’t know if suing is the best route. The only things I can think of are to transfer colleges or release something on social media explaining everything from your perspective.

[–]uwey0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Edit:

I read on and realized how retarded some of y’all here.

You can be all rage but nothing changes. I am not better in anyway but holy shit you can’t have your ID out there and hope no one attack you. Can’t have your cake and eat it. Some rule you can only break once.

Find a good lawyer. Have money. Before that, be a silent rage guy and learn how to evolve in a way effectively out earn those bottle feeder.

You got to understand how society can and will destroy you for fun, like French Revolution, rolling heads is not for justice but for tame the crowd. We not so different from imperial Rome average blood thirsty citizens.

Understand that is all these SWJ have, a shit voice use to control you, but rest assure they can’t make more than you, isn’t that already a satisfying way indeed? Just modifies SOME of your habits, you get to live a best time man can be alive. You got to work around it. By pass them at all cost. Avoid them as well.

[–]stevecapw0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

File a police report against her for false accusations. Then, talk to an attorney about suing your college, landlord, etc

[–]deliglum990 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck that fucking cunt. Miserable twat.

[–]cunningcaring0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You have not told us what happened or why she is unhappy with you. We need both sides of the story.

[–]vwowv0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Best to not say anything. If you say "I didn't do it" people take that as being involved and they take the jury mindset of 'If he had to say he didn't do it it means he was involved, therefore he did it, otherwise why would there be a fuss?'. What you need to do is disappear and let there be silence. After a few months go by you have effectively snuffed out maximum amount of damage upon you. People have no memory for things that have no hot period. You don't want to go around telling people "I was kicked out of my university", "I lost my job" and so on. No one is going to get you back in to the university, no one is going to get you a job after you say such obvious [to you] tragedies. They are just going to think 'sounds like he did it, I better say something psuedo-supportive then keep him at distance. If you are radio silent for months then you are maximum hushing the situation. People will note that you didn't act like people typically do when they are guilty (and when I say guilty I mean someone who is innocent and goes around verbalizing they are innocent, because only guilty people do that). If months later someone you know asks about it, answer indirectly at first make them wait for more then tell them. What I mean is answer mentioning your girlfriend has been so supportive. You are indirectly answering the question. If you ever answer the question (and I'm unclear if you should) answer only after the 'girlfriend is supportive' comment, they will yearn for a direct answer. After making them wait, answer no you didn't, but you don't talk about it because there is nothing you can do, then cue to drop it.

I was in a similar situation, not as bad, not rape, but rumor traveled in a huge friends circle. I disappeared for 8 months and came back a legend. No one even asked me if I did it. Most betas, and women looked at me in awe. I had one fat ugly old woman say to me months after being back "I know you did it" I didn't respond. Mine involved the hottest woman in my circle, who was half my age. She gaga'd for me in front of several other people. She exposed me for something I said to her as a transgression. Funny thing is I said it, but it was to insult her, not be lude. She had been torturing a orbiter by flirting with me in front of him. I started to see this hot women was a piece of shit and dangerous so I said a walmart slut like comment to her to insult her and cue her that I was over her (bad idea), and she turned that into being a transgression. Since I left saying nothing except one comment email to the organizer that it wasn't true, there was no self incrimination. With me gone, she felt emboldened and acted more like a shit slut and people figured it out, especially with rumor slipping out of her flirts to me. She called me a "beautiful man" in front of 5 men. Then one of the men led me to her and she was eye fucking me and one of the dudes started losing his shit. Surely that became part of the rumor mill that she was trying to control when I was not around.

I put this in rant form so I would write more information. Hope you can figure out what worked out for me and apply whatever helps accordingly.

[–]RealJoeDee0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Talk to a lawyer and RECORD EVERYTHING. Be sure to keep the screenshots of them libeling and slandering you for the fat lawsuit you're going to make bank from.

[–]Sword_Artist_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

why the fuck are you posting this in a quarantined subreddit? You do know why this subreddit is quarantined right....? other then that, that really sucks man hope you figure it out.

[–]IcebergHD0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Easy defamation suit if you do go to court imo, document everything thats been taken away from you since that tweet and have your day in court. Don't let some false accusation ruin your life.

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[–]3HardWay0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I hope you have a good lawyer. The way you throw around "this proves this" and "this proves that" shows you have no legal acumen and will be absolutely destroyed without good representation.

[–]DigitalDragonSlayer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Everyone shared advice, some reasonable, some not.

I just wanted to say: stay strong. This too shall pass. You won’t believe how much people forget after 2 weeks.

[–]kinosavy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So much depends on reputation. Guard it with your life. It's so disgusting that we have to account for this shit. We're not sure whether a woman will become someone dear to us or someone contemptible. This is 2020 I guess. I know it might be very difficult, but you might be better off moving somewhere else.

[–]shawdowr0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I can’t believe someone would do this to you. It’s really crazy and fucked up. I’m sorry. And this goes out not only to you but also to every man alive right now. 1/10 is not insignificant. That’s 10%.

According to FBI statistics, there were 95,136 forcible rapes of females in 2002. Lets be conservative and say 1/4 of those women reported their rape, that leaves 23,784 cases. Divide that by 10 and it’s 2,378.

Using my numbers (which are low by a wide amount), 2,378+ men are falsely accused of rape a year.

And what happens when a man is falsely accused of rape? There’s a story right up there for you. Men get fucked. Hard.

It’s terrifying.

[–]Anabolic_Window140 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That’s really scary man. Your girlfriend is a real one for supporting you through this tough situation. Its ridiculous how easy it is to have your life ruined just because of false accusations

[–]1Sir_Distic0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The clock is ticking on your girlfriend. I'm dead serious. She is going to dump you soon.

[–]SpicyYeetJuice0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’m sorry dude that’s terrible. Life is very unpredictable, but I’d pack up and move states. Gl

[–]neo_star0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Go file a police case for the mental agony you've been put through.

[–]1halfback9100 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Get a lawyer who will work pro bono.

[–]lehappyjuice0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

#believeallwomen #patriarchy #metoo

[–]sawyer94117-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's not possible. Believe women you goddamn patriarchal pig.

They're like cops, they can do no wrong.

[–]ShittySoftwar3-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Go to the police, file a report. If you can get there first you got a higher chance of succeeding.

[–]d4ng3rz0n3-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Do not try to sue her. You will NEVER get money from her in court. There is also a risk she will retaliate by pressing formal charges and landing you in jail.

In 1-2 years, nobody will remember this situation or your association with it. Do not focus on clearing your name in civil court or social media. That will drag this on and ruin your reputation more.

You need to distance yourself from this situation as much as possible. Find a job in sales and study how to start your own business. Be grateful for your girlfriend.

[–]SteroidsFreak-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Worst advice ever. If anything he should sue the chick to clear out his name. Let's say he starts his own business and becomes successful in the near future as u mentioned. What do u thinks going to happen when the chick finds out he's got money and became someone? She's guna lie again on social media without repurcussion, his business will fall apart and he's going to be in the same situation.

[–]matagad-5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy

and, what did you post this on red pill? she accused you of a rape for no reason? just randomly? there is more to this story.

[–]teutonicnight99-5 points-4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Most of the time people are accused of rape it actually happened. She randomly accused you of rape?

[–]SteroidsFreak0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You're a special one aren't you.



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