So today I did a survey on my Instagram and these are the results. So basically its okay is she tries to physically hurt you but not okay if you try to defend yourself.

This is statistically and scientifically a mess. You changed the wording which messes with your result and what's the sample size here anyway?

Kinda funny that whenever someone talks about equality there's an anti-feminist that pops up like "oh so can I hit women now?!" 1) it's weird to fixate on violence against women 2) can't we just agree that hitting people is not ok? 3) if you're just not very good at expressing yourself and want to advocate against permissive norms about female on male violence, feminists are your allies because that falls under the scope of toxic masculinity.