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Cheating is cheating, for whatever reason it's cheating

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January 4, 2020

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Title Cheating is cheating, for whatever reason it's cheating
Author Hegwik
Upvotes 40
Comments 14
Date 04 January 2020 07:24 AM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit antifeminists
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/707345
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/antifeminists/comments/ejtj63/cheating_is_cheating_for_whatever_reason_its/
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[–]redmaster_282738 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

Why did you link this? I didn't want to feel like shit today, men do this, men do that. Have you noticed on this sub barely anyone makes generalisations

[–]Hegwik[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Happy cake day

[–]redmaster_282731 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol thanks

[–]ILOVHENTAI6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus Christ, those comments are more toxic than a Chinese lake

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

All the comments on that post are biased to death. They assume that men cheat because they are weaklings and women cheat because they're getting abused. How about not cheating at all?

[–]TechDude301 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

The whole thing is biased. Have you seen their rules? All of them are in absolute hatred to men where not only can guys not post by any means but if they feel that you are indeed a guy which I don't even know how they would come to that "logical" conclusion you get banned without hesitation just for being a guy.

That whole sub is toxic and is geared towards feminists who only join it to bash and ridicule men while going "ree give us equality reee" making each and every single one of them look beyond pathetic. If there was a way to remove a whole sub from existing I would be in huge favor of removing that seeing how it does nothing but promote hate which should be against Reddit's given rules.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Good points. After digging deeper I'm actually confused as to whether they are serious or not. I saw a post and they mentioned something about a misandry kink. I don't know if they're making it up to justify their hate. If they actually mean what they say it could serve as a good tool for the argument "Feminism is about equality"

[–]TechDude301 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I mean with their given rules I'm leaning more towards them actually being rather serious. Take the first rule for example where they don't allow any violence or abuse towards men but will gladly allow criticism stating that men are subhuman and thus need to be controlled by women.

Then there's a rule stating that while men have issues they are in fact smaller when compared to a women's all while having another rule where if any good person wants to make a post in favor of men by saying that they have it just as hard it states as in the rules "report immediately, i don't have time for this shit" from one of the given mod's that run that pile of garbage.

They do all of this while perhaps not paying any care to their one biggest rule which is "don't report someone just because they have a different opinion. it's okay to disagree with people and have arguments in here. Just don't break the rules!" Which is complete and utter nonsense that they want to make a rule of not wanting to report others just because they have a different opinion but will gladly still ban those who clearly do.

All in all that sub reddit is both toxic and I feel that it heavily breaks the rules by being incredibly sexist and rather prejudiced and should in fact be taken down but chances are that won't happen unless a good amount of people voice their opinion.

[–]Zhyttya1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Honestly, I was going to trash talk those feminists so bad in that sub, but that's not worth it. Every single comment it's hating on men, and saying that men cheat because they are horny, where women cheat because their relationship doesn't fulfill them. They are so full of crap. They cannot absolutely get kids. The next generation with this type of thinking will be absolutely crap.

[–]TechDude301 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

And because of them and others who hold the same like mind is why I choose to not date anymore seeing how at this point even a simple hello will cause them to lash out for wishing them to have a good day.

[–]TechDude301 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My god are those comments toxic towards men. They honestly feel that cheating is somehow validated if it means you are doing it for the right given reason and to them their "reasoning" it just flat out insane. It doesn't matter how much glitter and diamonds you try and stick to a pile of crap cause in the end it's still just a pile of crap.

Cheating is still cheating no matter how you try to spin it and is just a poor excuse as to why you couldn't be bothered to end the relationship like a grown adult but instead resort to petty and rather selfish tactics like a child would.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I'm pretty realistic (I think) about this topic.

Yes, cheating is cheating. But it is true that men & women cheat for different reasons (***on average***): men cheat probably because they were too horny while being provoked and/or look for more/different sexual stimulation; women cheat because of mainly emotional reasons, like unsatisfaction in the relationship they are involved in, with consequential and voluntary act of spite.

Not similar, not much different either, since that in both cases there's a base of unsatisfaction. I personally have never cheated on someone. I strive to be sincere and just tell the truth, whether good or bad.

With that said, this kind of shit is why I don't like being in a 'serious relationship'. At the end of the day, all of this is just emphasized and overrated.

[–]TechDude300 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

See while there are some parts that I can agree with such as cheating is still cheating the reasoning as to why either party in question partake in cheating is honestly many different reasons.

You have moments of weakness, a sense of not being satisfied or being fulfilled from your partner and yes even being horny to which all of these reasons among many others can apply to both given parties. To say that men cheat because the are most likely horny as the number one answer is just wrong. Men are capable of being ignored in a relationship just like women can be and women can be just as horny as a guy can.

There really is no right answer that we can default to other then whatever the reason being given is. I've known guys being cheated on by both their girlfriends and boyfriends for many given reasons and the same stuff has happened to girls that I know.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well, I know you can't give a definite answer for everybody's case. But at the same time I recognise there are biological differences indeed, that's why I specified "on average" in the main comment. But yes, every case is different at the end of the day. I mean, that is just my opinion, which is based on my direct & indirect experience. With that said, I honestly don't care much about what other people do with their love relationships, nor I want to appear as someone who wants to be morally superior and stuff like that.

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