What are signs a possible LTR has ridden the cock carousel?

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December 17, 2018

In a scenario where your relationship with a plate has been developing and heading towards an LTR, what signs of previous CC are there?

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Title What are signs a possible LTR has ridden the cock carousel?
Author nzjbruh
Upvotes 62
Comments 135
Date 17 December 2018 01:56 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/70890
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/a700n5/what_are_signs_a_possible_ltr_has_ridden_the_cock/
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[–]CaffeineAndCalculus231 points232 points  (9 children) | Copy

If she goes down on you for the first time and hits you with the vacuum seal, cork-screw, gack gack maneuver

[–]SaucySasquatch37 points38 points  (0 children) | Copy

This one’s a dead give-away

[–]vtagler35 points36 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten60 points61 points  (0 children) | Copy

Depending on your hoe management skills this is immediate keeper material.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Also a sign she’s a keeper...

[–]vtagler11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

The good old gluck gluck

[–]redpilledjoe2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the realist shit I ever seen

[–]AntiSharp 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

3.3yr account and you just got more than half your karma today how you feelin?

[–]CaffeineAndCalculus4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

It feels good. I’d like to thank my fellow redpillers for all the upvotes, and that one girl I dated way-back-when who I discovered that nugget of wisdom from. Another one to add is if she suggests anal first = dead giveaway she’s been on the CC

[–]vtagler0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yep dead giveaway.

Which you then follow up with a tons (and i mean tons) of lube and a fucking mess

[–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime108 points109 points  (54 children) | Copy

How quickly did she sleep with you?

Has she indicated sex has any worth to her or does it seem like just another past time?

How often does she go out, is she a party girl?

How many "ex's" has she had?

Do her friends sleep around?

What does she say her number is?

It's usually fairly obvious, the fact that you're asking means she probably hasn't or you haven't vetted her at all.

[–]nzjbruh62 points63 points  (47 children) | Copy

Date 2

Mentioned it's one of the basic human needs

Not a party girl


Sounds like her friends do

Haven't asked her count, but it's definitely 8+

Answered my own question. Thanks.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (43 children) | Copy

Anything bigger than n = 5 is a red flag.

[–]praguetologist154 points155 points  (39 children) | Copy

Where the fuck do you all meet people w less than 5 n count. Like seriously. Not one girl or guy I know has an n count that low.

[–]Victorious66672 points73 points  (7 children) | Copy

When a girl says 5 she means 15

[–]Scorchyy48 points49 points  (5 children) | Copy

You always gotta multiply by 3, that’s the golden rule

[–]Zimzazim26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

American pie has taught us that

[–]Pieisgood18613 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

When I was younger and first learned about TRP, I thought it meant to become like Stifler.

[–]BorneofBlood7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

She said she only fucked like 4 or 5 niggas, so you know you gotta multiply by 3 - J Cole

[–]DopeMeme_Deficiency25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy

Agreed. I'm 44, and I stopped asking for the number by the time I was 19. The answer? It's high. But as long as she's clean, and tested, it's not like it matters. We all have a past, I just don't want to catch anything from yours

[–]GeuseyBetel4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy


Edit: Go Protestant then

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

"bUt I'M nOt ReLiGioUs"

- Dummies who want to ride the decline but also rebuild the west

[–]GeuseyBetel0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

as an athiest christian, I attest

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Atheist christian" while I've never heard this used before, I feel the same way about my religious beliefs haha

[–]GeuseyBetel0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

the more euphemistic term would be a "Jordan Peterson Christian". it's nice to meet someone with a brain 🤝

[–]aShiftyLad0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Every heard the phrase, sweating like a whore in church?

Why do you think they actually go to church? :P ( applies largely to catholic and jewish girls)

[–]Kurush5590 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ill send my thoughts your way next time Catholic Debby is gagging on me

[–]Decoasta93 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

He has collected data from world over and made a classification model, which when inputted with information tells if a girl is slut or not. The model says anything over 5 is a slut.

Since he has data points and there are girls who have n count less than that.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (14 children) | Copy

Spin more plates.

[–]Bitscoinmooning 1 points [recovered]  (13 children) | Copy

Stop living in fantasy. In Muslim countries where they get arranged marriages women will have their hymen rebuilt after fucking 100 guys before their wedding night. You are a stupid faggot.

To fix women you need to fix society. Get rid of welfare abortion birth control. Put pornographers to death. Women are only as good as the container they are put in.

[–]seedster5 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Lol whut. Can we ban this nujob.

Lol get rid of poebogeaohy. Would you like to convert to Islam and live in the middle East?

There some serious neckbeard fuckery going on in your head.

[–]edargham 1 points [recovered]  (10 children) | Copy

“Women will have their hymen rebuilt after fucking a 100 guys before their wedding night” I’m shocked. Is this for real?

You bet you have to fix Society. Just how do you planning on implementing it?

[–]Bitscoinmooning 1 points [recovered]  (8 children) | Copy

Literally just gave a basic gestalt you dumb faggot. Welfare birth control abortion and porn. Get rid of it all. Then identify and remove all Jews. Ban Jews from media and other institutions create a pan Eurasian ethnostate. Again no Jews. The key is to elect nationalists at first secure the border get our interests or accelerationism and eventually the outcome will be a fatwa on Jews everywhere in the world.

[–]edargham 1 points [recovered]  (7 children) | Copy

Better start with the latter and then the former will disappear with them. Good shit post sand-nigga

[–]CrazyHorseInvincible[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Bitscoinmooning 1 points [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy

This is the problem with this God awful site. You're in such an echo chamber you have no idea what right wing politics actually is. You're so dumb that you think Ben Shapiro and Jordan Peterson are right wing. And that any corrective measures to society WAAAAA Islam! You have no understanding of the political spectrum you dont get the basic historical context or the biological paradigms that lend themselves to a functional society. You're just some duhhh free market good faggot and you aren't ever going to grow out if that. Dumb fucking NPC.

[–]Ricklogical 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

I feel like there is this gap between TRP dogma and reality on this point.

Tinder has vastly altered the landscape very quickly. Even very shitty women are getting all the dick they want if they can just use a phone.

Women who fuck less than 5 people exist, but they are pretty rare. My partner is in my range [mid 30's] and it doesn't bother me at all.

She's taken bigger dicks and been treated in a more violent dominating manner. Doesn't bother me at all.

I think people get hooked up on all sorts of shit that doesn't matter to keep themselves from attaching to a woman for any reason 'lest they break the heart into little bits' when I have gone the opposite way, loving hard, fucking hard, and cutting the cord hard.

I wouldn't want a low n count girl. She better have stellar communication and very low inhibitions or I'm the fuck out. Chicks that haven't fucked a variety of men also in my opinion are WAY THE FUCK MORE LIKELY TO CHEAT because media is pumping them full of that feeling that they are missing out on something. A good solid n-count over 20 signals that she went out, took a good hard look around the block, learned what she likes, doesn't like, and how to do it right before cutting down on that hoe shit to get serious about having a stable relationship.

She's been with disasters and been the disasters and knows the kind of man that she thrives with and takes dives with. She's not a lost cause because she fucked a bunch, she's seasoned and aware.

Now plenty of women at this point become alpha widows, as we all try to ascend beyond the expectations of such women this is not a big issue, most of them however do not deserve it. But that's just most people, most people tend to be shit all through life. Red flags from the past can be taken two ways. She's been through it and learned or she's been through it and blamed someone else, like an addict or a drunk.

As a general rule people are just junkies hooked on one thing or another which causes much of their personality development, along with all other development types, to suffer and be weak.

Keep that shit in mind. If a woman seems solid but has lots of shit in her past, she might be better for it, no reason not to plate her and learn slowly over time.

Don't expect a good LTR woman to come around. If it happens, you will know, if you don't know, then keep holding out and being a good FWB type. Life is long and full of women. Fuck them all.

[–]mrpthrowa2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Hamster hamster hamster

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's what keeps me away from that number by my name, I go off.

Thanks for the reminder cap.

[–]MrFiles9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Stupidest shit I ever heard

[–]cdogg751 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

in high school.sure

[–]trpppp1233 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

The paradox of unicorns

[–]astrogatorjones1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

date 2........possible LTR.......

you are doing it wrong bro, go spin more plates

[–]nzjbruh12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

We're way past two dates. That's when we first had sex.

[–]astrogatorjones3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

oh I'm stupid please ignore

[–]BraindeadIQ11 points12 points  (5 children) | Copy

The how quickly she sleeps with you can't that also be sign that your High Value man?

[–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime18 points19 points  (3 children) | Copy

It can, that's why it's required that you look at multiple variables.

[–]nzjbruh4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Usually dates 1-2 I sleep with a plate. No sex on date 3 I don't pursue, so I didn't know how to look at it given its all I know.

[–]Decoasta9-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

How old are you? Also depends on which phase of life you are at and analyzing yourself. Is your biggest fear being cheated on? Are there other qualities which you value apart from fidelity and submissiveness in bed. Do you see yourself with her long-term if she never cheated?

You have to look into this with multiple lenses. Not only the TRP ones and then take a decision.

[–]nzjbruh5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm 23. I find at my age I've managed to get relatively high smv. I didn't care about fidelity with any plate until I started liking this one more which leads me to a fear of oneitis

[–]magx010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Let's say it is: are you the only one out there?

[–]redvelvet_oreo32 points33 points  (3 children) | Copy

One flag for me is if she talks about a particular time in her life often that stood out. She obviously won’t tell you about the finer details. Maybe it was a trip or college. If it comes up often out of no where it was a time the CC was in full effect.

[–]askmrcia2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is a good one. When they mentioned they travel to some place I always ask them to get more detail in what they actually did over there.

They tend to give vague answers and say they went hiking. But it's like, yea what did you do at 7pm because surely your ass wasn't hiking.

Watching them bounce around the question tells you all you need to know.

It's funny asking this question. Like they mention they love to travel but can't tell you shit about the culture or the customs of that country.

Because all they do is go somewhere and post pics for Instagram and then hit the bars late at night. Ofcourse they will never admit this though.

You just gotta know how to read these types of girls. Like if they party a lot then that's exactly what they are doing when they go to other places. If they like to chill and truly hike then that's what they are doing in other places.

[–]nzjbruh1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good point. I'll try to pick up on that.

[–]redvelvet_oreo4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s something I noticed in girls I have dated over a period of time. Don’t get to caught up on it though.

[–]1HS-Thompson64 points65 points  (5 children) | Copy

1) Does she have a working vagina?

2) Is she thinner than an adult hippopotamus and more attractive than a severe burn victim?

If the answers to both of the above are yes, then she probably has.

Also worrying about this is a waste of time. Focus your attention on how she acts in your presence as you’ll never really know the rest of the story.

[–]omega_dawg9329 points30 points  (0 children) | Copy

best statement here.

if doesn't matter and you'll never know the real number anyway.

she doesn't even know the real number bc "it didn't count" is REAL in girl world.

"disease free and fucking me." that's what counts.

[–]nzjbruh8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy

That's what I'm debating. With social media and sexuality acceptance, unicorns don't exist. Everyone, including me, is sleeping around. Can't decide to overlook it or not.

[–]_the_shape_13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

You can always more or less issue an ultimatum of sorts by requesting that she take a full STD panel (you'd be doing the same, of course), a very reasonable proposition these days, I think.

That's about as good as it's going to get. From there on, the best course of action to ensure a sustained degree of peace of mind would be to only concern yourself with very obvious signs something is off (ex. frequent girl's night out/returns some point the next day, acting overly protective with her phone). Beyond that, it's imperative that you stop dwelling on whether or not she's been bukkaked, done double-anal, squirted all over your best friend's car, because all of these juicy little 'secrets' more than likely won't ever be surfacing to make their way to you.

Other than that, it's the sort of question that you shouldn't stretch your mind trying to get to the bottom of. If you had fucked well over 200 girls, would your current LTR having been plowed by 9 different guys in the past really dig into your skin that much? Doesn't that sound more like a problem for a guy who's only had 3-4 lays (or less) in his life?

[–]nzjbruh2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your comment struck me the most. It was very insightful to read as it gave perspective.

[–]magx010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well if everyone is you have no choice.

[–]1atticusfinch197335 points36 points  (2 children) | Copy

You can easily find all this out by having a simple conversation about it. Then vet according to any red flags you see and find out if she's trickle truthing or lying outright.

I had an ex that had a lot of male "friends" and then when I did my due diligence I found out she had slept with most of them but she would never admit it.

[–]smirk_addict9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

How did you find out? I was recently seeing this chick who was slow rolling me when I knew she was meeting and fucking other guys. I presented myself as too stable and reasonable. It ended because I called her out on her bullshit. She was the obnoxious liberal minded type that was prone to self destructive behavior and full of hypocrisy and double standards. Just being honest, she was very attractive and all I cared about was sleeping with her. But the bullshit was intolerable.

[–]1redhawkes16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

How long have you vetted her? Anything less than 5-6 months is a no go.

From there, you'd have more or less info to make decision according to her red flags.

[–]andystyle2411 points12 points  (9 children) | Copy

In my opinion, how she is during sex or going down on you for the first few times should dictate a little bit. If she obviously doesn’t know what she’s doing, maybe she hasn’t been ran through too much. Maybe I’m just naive though

[–]nantucketghost23 points24 points  (8 children) | Copy

Yes, you nailed it. My wife gave me a blowjob early in our relationship. Worst blowjob in my life. I remember lying there and realizing that she had no clue. Had to will myself to cum. Then she swallowed and I realized that the rest can be taught. She was willing to please and willing to learn.

[–]kendallb1832 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the truth. Right here.

[–]chickentikkamasala10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’m never having sex

[–]chickentikkamasala10 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

The sole reason for men wanting a low n count is because of divorce stats otherwise they don’t even care. Like a man wouldn’t care if thr girl had slept with 1000 guys as long as she didn’t carry the baggage that comes with it.

[–]askmrcia2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Yup. I personally don't care what the number is. But the problem comes when a girl acts innocent and naive as if she never had a lot sex partners.

That's the problem because they are lying. Like they will make you wait weeks until you can have sex, but she let many guys before you hit within the first night.

This is when the number of sex partners bother me. Now if the girl is upfront about being a slut that likes to sleep around and she don't change when she gets with me then I don't care about the number.

But if she acts like a church girl that had sex with only two guys and I find out later she bang many men then yes its a problem

[–]chickentikkamasala10 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

What if a girl is upfront about being a virgin?

[–]askmrcia0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I don't get your question. If she's upfront about being a Virgin and acts like one (meaning she don't act like an attention whore on social media) then I don't see anything wrong with that

[–]chickentikkamasala10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nah if she’s an actual virgin. Not just acts like one

[–]beefthathasredmiddle0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]OilyB14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

She gets bored easily, she has a queen complex: 'I should be entertained'. Furthermore, she is self centered, has a hard time sacrificing. This superficial attitude is mostly ego-driven: they don't need to know about you any deeper than how much entertainment, support, attention and companionship you can provide them. This is what the CC does to women.

Your history, fears, hopes, dreams, infallibilities, happiness - their attention span concerning these topics is a couple of minutes.

[–]Pokeylaw2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This sounds like a girl I know in college my roommate hates her I think she's pretty cool only bc I can fuck with her so much before she leaves "angry" LMAO

[–]1kick623 points24 points  (5 children) | Copy

Is she attractive? Is she not a virgin? Cock carousel.

[–]LOLCanadianNeighbor 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

Thanks for the chuckle. It’s so simple yet so true.

[–]1kick69 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy

Everyone wants to find the loophole that this one girl they met “totally isn’t like that.” Riiiiight

[–]LOLCanadianNeighbor 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Even a fairly religious girl that I went out with that was a virgin and she was the same. She was 25 at the time and she was the first one to want to jump on.

[–]1kick61 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

And for all you know, she’d been using the “catholic loophole” for a decade.

[–]yungvibegod22 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just assume they all have, that way you arent shocked once the truth inevitably reveals itself

[–]_Fresh_cakes_ 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

-she’s not ticklish

-piercings anywhere other than ears and belly

  • tattoos near crotch area

[–]Bruchibre2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’s not ticklish haha, baci se she’s used to being poked everywhere?

[–]smirk_addict4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy

You probably have 4 comments in this whole thread of people trying to actually be helpful... You mentioned that she has 3 exs but an n-count of 8+. How old is she? She has had 3 relationships but fucked about 3 times as many guys. That’s a red flag for me. Also you said her friends sleep around. Another red flag for me. But also, you guys would’ve probably not be casually fucking had she not been this way. It doesn’t sound like you Alpha widowed her. Speaking objectively, not trying to insult you. I’m leaning towards CC rider dude. But as long as you feel like you’re getting your needs met then do you.

[–]nzjbruh1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

20, her exes were high school. I am leaning towards CC as well. No insult taken at all.

[–]smirk_addict2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

She’s 20. She hasn’t had a boyfriend since high school. She’s been doing the fuck buddy, hook up thing since then. Her friends party. But it sounds like, despite these things you like spending time with her and fucking her and you are just worried this could bite you in the ass if you commit. I can’t really say. But you do kinda look like a Captain Save-a-Ho.

[–]nzjbruh6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Kk just because I don't take offence to constructive criticism at first doesn't mean start practicing creative insults.

[–]smirk_addict1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I dial it back a bit. But if I were in your situation, that’s what I would be telling myself.

[–]KrustyKrabReject1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's actually a standard phrase.

[–]Bruchibre0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

8+ at 20yo is kind of a CC track record but yeah at 20 you shouldn’t think too much about it and enjoy the ride.

[–]bigman19999 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

Do girls care if guys have fucked around

[–]magx015 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes they will call you a "player" or "fuckboi" and try to pretend they are disgusted but all it does is make them intrigued/want you more.

[–]nzjbruh8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

From my experience, they liked it. I was her second she was my 17th. She liked that I knew what I was doing.

[–]Bruchibre0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Who cares about what girls care about. This question is for men.

[–]Auxfite0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The more hoes you fuck the more they want you. Women always lie and act turned off. The reason being is because they know you can’t be manipulated

[–]DopeMeme_Deficiency3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

Is she a hb4 or better? Does she have any social skills at all? Is she breathing?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, she's taken a few turns on the carousel.

My advice is to get over it. Virginal women are a myth

[–]vullnet1230 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Makes me regret fucking it up with my virgin ex, but I'm sure time would've made her leave anyway

[–]Velebit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, I had a virgin once too. Gave up on the relationship because it was boring because she didn't know anything and a few days after breaking up with her she is together with her best male friend. 2 years later she married him and they have a kid.

[–]Minhha05103 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Today they have surgery to amend the virgina. A girl once was riding the cock carousel could be the “virgin bride”. Forgot about it man, like everyone here mentioned, if she suck your dick anytime you want and she is not sleeping around when with you, shes good to go for a LTR.

[–]holyshocker1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She has "Jerry's entrance" and an arrow pointing to her asshole as a tattoo.

[–]Bruchibre0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She’s casual about sex, she has the thousand cock stare. See how she behaves with alpha dudes. The trick is to be super casual about it, like you don’t care. She’ll slowly open up, act like you’re cool about it.

[–]reversec0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The gawk gawk 99 combo finish

[–]thisisnotme__--0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She fucks well.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

  • Constantly surrounded by an entourage of orbiters and exes.
  • Total sex pro -or- goes starfish(trying to project innocence or keep your expectations low because you're a Betabux she isn't really attracted to).
  • In the same vein, you want a blowjob and she talks of how she's "not that kind of girl anymore" and/or she doesn't like blowjobs because her ex made her give rough ones, etc.
  • Receives lots of weird "hey" and "are you up?" texts on the weekend, even if she ignores them. These are past hookups sniffing around because they're horny. Some smarter thots might block all of them or change numbers but most can't resist the ego boost.
  • Has moved around a lot. Midwestern and Southern thots often pick some big coastal city as a sort of Shangri-La they want to move to someday.
  • Tattoos, cutting scars, piercings other than earlobes.
  • Took more than 5 years to finish college, multiple transfers, etc. Riding the cock carousel is a full-time job and getting her heart crushed by Chad isn't really conducive to focusing on her schoolwork.

[–]mrHappyPotatoe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sign #1: She have almost no good memories with or about her father.

[–]civilizedfrog0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

The first time you nut on her and she immediately goes to wash it away. You know when she does this she has rode the CC.

Also, if she is older, she has large n-count.

[–]Just15150 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

how come? can't see the correlation with that one.

[–]x6x6x619820 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Also remember, whatever number she ADMITS to, multiply it with 3, that's a rule!

[–]anakun-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is she female?

[–]Nazrath21120 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She has, no woman hasn't.

[–]Musicgoon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If she's an actual Female and not a straight up lesbian, the chances are slmost certain. Get over it.

[–]magx010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Is she an attractive female in the social media age?

K then.

[–]LaimbeerAdvocate-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]FromTheCaveIntoLight-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is she breathing? Then 99% she did

[–]ShinyRedKetoPill-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Signs she has a count higher than what she disclosed to you: She’s over 18 and didn’t grow up in a cave. That’s all it takes.

[–]Puddles503-1 points0 points  (12 children) | Copy

Any male or female that would even ask past age 25 is automatically a hard next ltr wise due to immaturity. Keep concerns in the relevant/present ie "will you take a full std panel"?

[–]Bruchibre2 points3 points  (11 children) | Copy

Are you a woman?

[–]Puddles503-1 points0 points  (10 children) | Copy

Yup...and before you ask why I subscribed, it's because I work in a trade with 96% men. Insights into the male head are useful for me in getting along at work. I end up giving a lot of advice to the work guys on dating and divorce...some of it similar to trp stuff which is ironic.

[–]Bruchibre0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy

I wasn’t going to ask you why :) thanks for answering anyway! Must be interesting yes, all men are not TRP but you can probably find good insight here. I was asking if you were a woman because your answer showed insight of woman’s head :) men think differently in general. Dating and divorce I assume your colleagues are in their 30s or early 40s.

[–]Puddles5030 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

From 21-65...so it runs the gamet! It's sort of fun most of the time and an interesting immersion into gender topics.

[–]Puddles5030 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

And thank you for not jumping on me for sneaking in lol. I think it would be good for more ladies to read some of this. It seems like most people are automatons who never question social norms.

[–]Bruchibre1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

No problem at all, I'm actually quite surprised there are not more ladies on that sub. Fun fact: I once answered some post in RedPillWomen and got bashed for it because "questions are adressed to women here" :)

[–]Puddles5030 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Lol that's nuts, a bunch of women in a group decoding male behavior is about as useless as the reverse.

[–]Bruchibre0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

It's more for women who accept TRP concepts and try to be the best TRP women... you should pay a visit to the sub. To be honest though, sometimes I feel it's some guy from here who posted passing of as a woman :)

[–]Puddles5030 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'll be honest, I did read through that communities info and it's description of a red pill woman....and it made me want to vomit. It's a bunch of nonsense written by someome who knows little about feminity or females. I think rp concepts help men feel better and can be empowering as far as hook ups/self improvement but arn't particularly relevant to women or the nuances of deeper human relationships and the importance of being valuable to ones community ....at least as stated so poorly in the info. Way too many over generalizations and unproven hypotheses.

Plus, the two concepts of red pill men and women seem to conflict as stated in the info...

Men are encouraged to train be cock carousel horses and women are encouraged to avoid the carousel ride leaving no win/win outcome.

In reality I think women spin their own plates as they please until they accept a LTR and that dudes really just want equality (ie sex and options). Men and women have many differences in how they are built, think and view the world and but in the end I don't think the goals are entirely different. Pleasure and met expectations can be achieved simultaneously. I think people would rather imagine an ill conceived gender war than think deeper and address our sexually repressed culture degrading to both male/female archetypes.

[–]Puddles5030 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Sorry for the long diatribe, whiskey and the internet don't mix. And after reading through that stuff I'm even more thankful for my man lol.

[–]Bruchibre0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's OK, I think it still makes sense! haha. I hope it's evening where you are otherwise if you have whiskey during the day you might have another problem.

[–]jakethesnake5000-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just ask her number, but never tell her yours.

[–]amwfhunter-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

How old is she and how old are u?

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