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I’m female

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February 7, 2019
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Am I in the wrong place? No. I just don’t stand for what I see in many modern feminists. How about when a woman accuses a man of rape and she gets her way when all the evidence points to it being consensual?

Not looking for toxic arguments, just like peaceful debates and understanding people’s reasoning.

Tell me your honest opinions about women, and I’ll honestly respond back


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Title I’m female
Author Bayza5
Upvotes 30
Comments 18
Date 07 February 2019 05:43 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit antifeminists
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/710837
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/antifeminists/comments/ao0jq1/im_female/
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[–]jones91gg9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’m female too and can’t stand modern feminism. 🤨

[–]jhesmommy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Same

[–]student54905 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

Ugh, tell me about it. I had a friend that started getting into modern feminist literature in her first year of university. A few months later she falsely accused someone of rape and even filed a police report. I cut her out of my life quick but to this day I cannot get rid of the disgust I feel knowing this actually happened.

[–]Profligate-Prophet3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah patriarchy theory has so many holes in it as well it only serves to make feminist anti-male.

[–]jhesmommy1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Women that are found to make false accusations should.be handed down severe penalties. It's good that you removed her from your life. If she's capable of doing that to someone, then you need to be careful.

[–]student54900 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I completely agree. I wish I had gone to the police station and reported her as well but much like her, I had no evidence. The police didn’t take her report seriously and nothing happen to either her or the guy (thank God).

[–]jhesmommy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Another thing to note is now, if she is ever assaulted, her credibility could be gone and no one would take her seriously. False allegations hurt real victims when they speak out, so if she was truly about protecting women she would have never done this in the first place. You're a good person and I'm glad she wasn't able to drag you down into the muck with her

[–]Profligate-Prophet4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah just cause people are anti-feminist doesnt mean they hate women. Infact I am pretty sure you can be a male feminist and most people dislike them even more. Do you really want perceptions on women? Or perceptions on feminism? Ones a gender the other is an ideology. Two very different things.

[–]arealchillbrownie3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm sure a lot of women are anti feminist but tbh I personally cannot trust them. Until or unless I see women fighting feminists and calling them out on their bullshit in numbers big enough to make big media notice, I just dont trust anyone who says they're anti feminist. Sorry, just being real.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Same. Heck, I even started https://www.reddit.com/r/WomenVsFeminism/, given that the previous one got shut down. And the only thing worse than a female feminist is a male feminist. Oh Jesus, don't get me started. Of course, the issue is many call themselves feminists to mean egalitarians, but it's just not the same, as a lot of things are understood by 'feminism'. It carries with it a lot of connotations and it means different things depending on who you ask- which is why a lot or most people would first ask you what exactly you mean by feminism before answering whether they're a feminist or not. To be completely aware of all the crap feminism has in it and to still call yourself a feminist is just ridiculous to me. And to also be a male doing it, on top of it? Laughable. I don't want to say that it's a deal breaker if some guy I seem to hit it off with tells me he's a feminist (I wait to actually weigh him up properly and get a sense of his idea of what feminism is) but it definitely makes a bad impression on me and puts a damper on whatever I had going on in my head about him.

This aside, I'm just sick and tired of all the gender, non-gender, gender-neutral, gender fluidity etc BS. Also of the absurd extent questions of consent and harassment have been pushed to, blurring the lines, and muddying the waters and interaction between men and women.

[–]JuliustheWise0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I despise male feminists more than there female counterparts.

[–]Forgotten_FuRyan1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I believe that all western women are passively feminists, regardless of their espoused beliefs. Simply put: virtually no women petition the government to take away the following unearned privileges (rights) brought to them by feminism; thus, they're feminists in the truest sense of the word. Observe: Only caucasian men don't receive Affirmative Action university admissions, scholarships and government or privately mandated hiring; women are it's primary beneficiary. Only men are required by law to register for Selective Service or become felons, be fined and lose voting rights; yet, women are the population and voting majority. I tell these things to other men very regularly.

[–]czerdec0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I mean, it depends what you want to do. We generally avoid getting into the weeds of why feminist theory is bullshit.

To be perfectly honest, not many of us are willing to really do the work of actually reading the garbage that academic feminists write in their stupid little journals. Worse, you can't really judge an academic work unless you are willing to overcome any difficulties you have with reading philosophy.

So probably not one in a thousand of us has done the real work of learning good philosophy and understanding how feminism is nothing more than ineptly misapplied philosophical tools.

Feminists use these tools wrongly, but most of the posters on this subreddit have no interest in learning the tools, so their criticism of feminism is one where the feminists have an excellent retort: "you refuse to learn what I do and the specific methods I use, yet despite your willful ignorance, you insist that you know I am wrong despite the fact that if you don't know what I do, you can't reach a valid conclusion of any depth about whether I'm right or wrong"

Unfortunately, that's game, set and match for the feminists. They're terrible at intellectual jiu-jitsu, but because almost all of us are worse, they win most of their online interactions just by being less ignorant than the low-information antifeminist she's debating with.

High-information antifeminists are extremely rare on reddit, and it's fucking lonely.

I'm sure feminists mock this subreddit mercilessly in private, because the people who do that are completely mistaken and naive.

It's unfortunate, because the feminists are genuinely inept, but most of us on this subreddit are even "inepter".

[–]JuliustheWise1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Debating a feminist is the same as trying to have a theological debate with an Islamic Fundamentalist, it’s pointless

[–]JuliustheWise0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

IMO feminism is mysoginstic, it hates feminity, tells women a narrative that they are weak victims, shamed women who don’t want to adopt gender roles that were traditionally male, I can’t imagine going through childbirth that takes strength, men and women need each other.

I’m Russian , it would be ridiculous to say that it would be abnormal of me to glorify and support all of Putin’s actions

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

you're not in the wrong place, read a pool recently that stated most women don't agree with feminism

[–]choubidou130 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

women are not as bad as men, but feminists are the toxic side of the women (dont get me wrong, men also have a toxic side)

[–]wheremypp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I like women who disprove that whole 'women are weak' thing some guys have going on and dont brag about it

I like a strong woman who goes to the gym and doesnt complain about how the men are going to rape her with their eyes.

I like a woman who takes charge of their life and when things go wrong they dont crack under pressure.

I like a woman who will try to do something difficult or new on her own before asking for help.

What I dont like are women who listen to Cardi B and Ariana grande and idolize them because they represent "strong women", while they themselves are the most sensitive and weak people

I dont like women who say "adulting is hard" and expect men to do things for them and complain about how all men are pigs

I dont like women who think the wage gap is real and have a big victim mentality about how people are gonna treat you poorly in the workplace.

If you're getting paid less for the same work, say something because that's illegal, if people treat you different just dont associate with them.

I like women who understand life is hard and unfair and that they have to be intelligent and strong to get through it. Not expect everybody to hand everything to them.

This goes the same for men. Though. Dont be spineless. Figure your shit out, it's okay to ask for help just try to solve your problems first before you do.

I operate my life giving no respect to people until its earned, and its been working very well for me.



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