What do you when a girl identifies red pill behavior and calls you manipulative/abusive/narcissistic?

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July 13, 2020
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Girl had heard of red pill before. She has been in therapy due to relationships before and through that she's learned a lot about the underlying psychology behind certain types of relationships.

Now she's accusing me of being a manipulative abusive narcissist. I've been reading through the symptoms of a narcissist and I will admit, a lot of red pill teachings could be classified as narcissistic.

Advice?


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Title What do you when a girl identifies red pill behavior and calls you manipulative/abusive/narcissistic?
Author HappyVer
Upvotes 143
Comments 107
Date 13 July 2020 11:19 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/712440
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/hqq72w/what_do_you_when_a_girl_identifies_red_pill/
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[–]jst_whtevir297 points298 points  (10 children) | Copy

Which one of you fuckers alpha widowed this guy's oneitis

[–]ellendegenorate86 points87 points  (6 children) | Copy

op, if she's blonde and her name starts with M then hit me up

my old gf found my alt reddit acc by snooping then went crazy about trp, also said she wanted to major in psychology lmao.

[–]wessyy33 points34 points  (2 children) | Copy

Same shit happened to me, although she already majored psychology

[–]AllocNeighley12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

You too? Though this one asian

[–]wessyy7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Mine definitely wasn't asian

[–]hockeyaddict879 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

The psychology majors are the ones who need evaluated themselves lmao

[–]RPOpenUp8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

Macdonalds?

[–]SolidSnake0056 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Holy sh!t, someone give this man a gold coin! 💰💲🎖🏅🥇Hahaha! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–]entrep422 points23 points  (1 child) | Copy

We don't do that here

[–]zHelios10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's ironic

[–]Mufasavader8833 points34 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hard next like Gorbachev did to mother USSR

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

In Mother Russia, RODINA HARD NEXTS YOU!

[–]cydestiny138 points139 points  (7 children) | Copy

Why would you care in the first place since she's just a FWB?

If you were really a manipulative abusive narcissist, she won't even say it in your face.

And be careful, she sounds like someone who would wreck your life up an down "because of her past relationship".

[–]rprookie30 points31 points  (5 children) | Copy

I would honestly look at her crazy too and act stupid,”redpill? I don’t understand what you mean by that?” Or some bullshit.

But wouldn’t matter, sounds like she got issues.

[–]cydestiny8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

I wouldn't want to trigger a drama out of her, I have better things to do.

[–]Blackstar18861 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

How good of a philosophy can it be if you have to keep it in the closet?

[–]underthecovers490 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Gaslighting her is your solution.

[–]rprookie0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Basically, using gas with lights.

[–]IotaCandle0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So you'd lie to gaslight her?

[–]ebaymasochist2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you were really a manipulative abusive narcissist, she won't even say it in your face.

And be careful, she sounds like someone who would wreck your life up an down "because of her past relationship".

Manipulative abusive narcissist, or MAN for short... lol

Bro once she calls you the N word, every single issue now becomes YOUR fault. Biggest power move of the last two years is for narcissists to label everyone else as narcissists

[–]Blackhawk2479119 points120 points  (10 children) | Copy

She’s just parroting things she’s heard her therapist say.

What is your relationship with this girl?

[–]HappyVer[S] 36 points37 points  (9 children) | Copy

FWB

[–]Blackhawk247986 points87 points  (0 children) | Copy

If she’s still draining your balls despite the stupid shit she’s saying, ignore and crack on.

If it becomes a nuisance, next.

[–]TXJohn83123 points124 points  (2 children) | Copy

Buy her a ball gag to wear at your house, and stop worrying about it.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

😂

[–]jackandjill227 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock33 points34 points  (4 children) | Copy

FWB

If she opened her legs for you, it means her lizard brain believes you were good enough. No change necessary. If women don't want these guys to exist, they should stop giving them pussy.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy

"How come evil guys like you exist?"

Because you keep fucking us and making more of them.

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Women incentivize what they give pussy to. Women could literally change the world forever by next week if they formed a pussy cartel against 'assholes' a bad guys. Rejecting their texts, no social media responses, no phone calls, not talking to them at the clubs or at work, no kisses, no pussy, not even saying hi. But they don't want to.

If women stood by what they say, watch thugs close up shop and hang up their colors. Crime rates would drop so fast it would be an economic problem. Law enforcement, courts, prisons, and many government sectors dependent on criminal activity for their livelihood would sdo false flag attacks and create new boogie men to keep the racket goin. But women will never do it. Only when their eggs dry up do they start shaming the next gen for going for the same guys they fucked but cant do so anymore and the next gen doesn't listen either. Cycle repeats forever because nature.

[–]Redditributor0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

This has upvotes?

[–]TRPCops[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Brigading month old posts? That's a perma

[–]Smuggler-Tuek68 points69 points  (13 children) | Copy

A big difference is outcome independence. You thinking you are amazing is okay. You mandating everyone else view you as the best thing ever is where it crosses a line. There’s nothing abusive about caring for yourself more than someone else. It’s the healthy way to be. If she feels entitled to you being in her frame that’s on her, not you. I’d just next and move on.

[–]bjbdbz276 points77 points  (11 children) | Copy

This. Oddly enough I only get called narcissistic by females that are... you guessed it, narcissistic. You dont fit into her frame like every other beta boy on the planet? You’re narcissistic.. You set boundaries on her inappropriate behavior? You’re narcissistic.. You have self esteem? Thats weird, thats not within her reality, her brain “does not compute” and so its much easier to call you narcissistic. Sometimes Its just a trendy buzzword females use on you to shame you when shes not getting her way.

[–]Japilla4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy

it's like projection is a female's go-to defense mechanism for some reason. I've experienced similar situations multiple times.

[–]a14deadpool5 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy

Not really pal let’s admit red pill teaching are narcissistic that’s just a fact for a long time I was afraid to admitted but now I have embraced and getting in touched with my dark side. Just be a douchebag and women love narcissist, why do you think dark triad men get laid more.

[–]filoraz2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy

Exactly OP is actually being told hes loved by her. Being called narcistic = love to women. Its not how it should be but it really is that they prefer dark triad personality over any other type of personality. I still never understood why that is. Can you tell me why ?

Logically the best personality type should be imo like henry cavill. Confident but also kind and helpful and treating women with respect and listening to their wishes. But not overboard and be a pushover. And yet this balanced personality type is also seen as weak by women and they get disgusted from it and lose interest quick. Their attraction is really binary so it seems you must give yourself completely over to the dark side since it has the most traits that women prefer

[–]AllocNeighley2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

If a woman is protected by someone she is scared of, she feels safe.

Kindness, is usually seen as a weak way to gain favors.

[–]filoraz1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Are you saying that if women could choose between patrick bateman and henry cavill. The majority would pick patrick over henry because henry’s gentleman behavior is considered weak ? Despite henry being more attractive patrick will still win because of his dark triad personality type giving women a false sense of protection?

Women are that dumb ?

[–]Japilla1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I think different behaviors and demeanors attract a different class of potential plates. Henry is the classic chivalrous man's man, and as such I would assume he attracts more traditionally feminine girls. Patrick is a more modern dark triad character and as such he would attract more modern girls who are attracted to the dark triad values he exhibits. You receive the same energy you put out

[–]filoraz0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I asked who the majority of women are attracted to. You said modern women will be attracted to patrick. And traditional to henry. Since traditional women are in the minority. That would mean the majority of women would pick patrick bateman right ?

[–]AllocNeighley0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Since you picked specific people I try to answer with what I know about them.

Disclaimer, I don't think Cavil is as nice as he portrays in public.

Both you picked have high social status being successful actors and thus in life so what's the difference between 10000 women and 20000 women?

I'm going to make the assumption that they are both looking to hook up.

With Bateman, given he is Dark Triad, would have a easier time choose partner(s). Basically make them want him, even if they didn't know it before.

In Cavil's case since he is nice yet well built, he would have women in queue interested, but a harder time to attract any girl.

I don't know them in real life but according to trp Bateman with given qualities would be more attractive, while Cavil is more a hot/nice provider to fuck.

My social status is nowhere near any of theirs, and they both probably get more girls than most.

Check /u/omlala for some triad field reports.

[–]BestOrNothing1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agree 100%

[–]_DonDraper_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Spot on. It's either that, or "arrogant".

[–]Ancient-Possession42 points43 points  (6 children) | Copy

If there is any truth to it, I would use it as a wake up call.

Remind yourself of anyone who controlled or abused you growing up and how it impacted you .. and be aware of the fact that you may be using the red pill tactics to justify this abusive behaviour you are most comfortable with and repeating this behaviour out onto others.

Remind yourself of the man you truly want to be when you die, what kind of men your loved ones will remember you for and be that man instead, exhibit the behaviors and qualities of this ideal version of yourself.

[–]getinthevan31526 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

Wish more people here thought like this. I responded to a dude a month ago who was saying how lately he doesn’t want to be around women anymore because all they have to offer is a pretty face. Like fuck that, I’m not living my life like that. Find out who you want to be and leave your legacy. Dude I responded to Will not have any loved ones with a fatalistic attitude like that. Don’t purposely hurt people because of some shit you read on the internet.

[–]Ancient-Possession7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep agreed about finding who you want to be and leaving your legacy. I learnt that from 7 habits of highly effective people - begin with the end in mind.

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[–]filoraz2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Logically the best personality type should be imo like henry cavill. Confident but also kind and helpful and treating women with respect and listening to their wishes. But not overboard and be a pushover. And yet this balanced personality type is also seen as weak by women and they get disgusted from it and lose interest quick. Their attraction is really binary so it seems you must give yourself completely over to the dark side since it has the most traits that women prefer. Dark triad men get laid the most for that reason.

[–]Shitcuckedredditsays0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah! Like Henry or maybe like Will Smith. That's totally how the to man should be... Oh wait.

[–]AurelianFool0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's not how you sustain a relationship, though. That's the shit you do to maximize physical attraction in the short term, not maintain a long-term romantic relationship.

[–]Dimenzije9032 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Baby i promise you i wont hurt you" kiss on forhead give her some food or drink, after that fuck her good and trust me she will forget all about it.

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tell her, with an absolutely straight face and serious demeanor, that you have considered her words, she is absolutely correct, and you can't be in a relationship with her or anyone right now, for their own protection.

She will either let you break up with her (in which case you dodged a bullet), or she will back water so fast you can hear the splash, and you will forever have the upper hand.

[–]negrow1235 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bitches be majoring in psychology just to get manipulated by a guy

[–]mrmaskfawkes4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Be blunt, yes it is selfish and narcissistic in some ways. Here's the catch there's nothing wrong with that. Surprise!! Most of therapy or psychology is helping people prioritize themselves in a healing process to develop healthy and more effective habits/behaviors. The red pill provides a way for men to better themselves and simply be honest about what they want and encouraging them to pursue it. For example, how many men want a threesome, but never try to get it?

The red pill has literal posts about how to get it and that's the point self improve men/ actualization has an element of selfishness because you are the subject of change.

Same with dating, or most interactions if we gained nothing from it then we wouldn't interact with people. Being selfish and narcissistic is good in small doses, which i think the red pill provides but no more than any self help book I've ever read. Part of being confident or having self esteem means having a bit of an ego/ being a little narcissistic. Now I will say don't lie to people, if your honest about what you want and you haven't deceived her into thinking there was something more than friend with benefits or told them lies that's an issue. But if you told her what you wanted and she agreed to it, no harm no foul. If you haven't wronged her in any way then why worry?

[–]volvostupidshit10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

I am a big narc and probably has npd, but let's leave that to the qualified experts to determine, and I do agree that some of the tactics here are second nature to me. The difference is that now that I know about the red pill I now have valid reasons to use those tactics.

[–]a14deadpool1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Narcissist don’t really admit they are narcissistic so I don’t think you have npd but yeah red pill teaching are narcissistic and yes narcissism causes women to get wet even if they hate you.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bail

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

NEXT.

Don't bother with her shit.

NEXT.

[–]mrrooftops2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's only narcissistic if you believe deep down that you are inadequate and you will do anything in your power to stop someone from revealing that truth. Sociopathic on the other hand would be more accurate for those who practice RP without any care or empathy for the other person.

Proper RP is actually the mindful self-actualisation of the independent man. However, the teachings will inevitably be used inappropriately by the maladjusted short cutters.

[–]BriefcaseHead22 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

All of the girls who called me a manipulative, abusive narcissist went on to fuck me even better. Those are just cute nicknames they use for us with their friends and orbiters.

[–]Endorsed Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

So your midwit girlfriend learned some big girl words from her therapist, thus causing the very untheraputic outcome of more conflict on her life.

Your basically experiencing the same thing ever American Dad experiences when their daughter gets back from libtard university.

Google the antipsychiatry movement and if your not a midwit you should be able to hard counter with serious anti therapy critique.

[–]4Sammich3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ok

[–]friendandadvisor1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You have a woman who calls you abusive. Do you think it wise to continue any kind of relationship with you?

[–]sjtomcat1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy shit I literally just went through this with a female friend of mine. I’m so glad I came upon this and upon reading the comments it seems I also did the right thing. Whew thank God lol

[–]SIR_SKINNYPENIS691 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly I would just next immediately. This is why abundance is so important.

[–]Snowboard184 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

It’s not manipulative. It’s just the fact that a high value man has options and doesn’t have time to cater to a females every need. Tell her if she don’t like you then she can always walk away. But 9/10 they don’t lol

[–]Project_Zero_Betas-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

They love RP behavior, bitch is frontin’

[–]Killljoys133 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

You do realise that all women are narcissistic at some level? RP is not narcissism, it's self development by putting yourself first and the bloody relationships second, just like women do. Considering that, you should leave her at once, no need to ponder about what she is thinking about you.

"When woman call out bad behaviour and actions of men, it's called feminism.

When men call out bad behaviour and actions of women, it's called misogyny."

Judging by that, you can't change her mind. Just leave her.

[–]a14deadpool-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Well not really let’s face it red pill is indeed narcissism, gaslighting is part of the red pill, making a woman cry because she wants your commitment and being unemotional as fuck is narcissist. Usually the best players have dark triads, sociopathy, narcissism and Machiavelli. Ted bundy was incredibly charming with women and nobody thought that he could be a serial killer by how charming and confident he was. Look at gengis khan he killed a lot of people but like 1% of the Chinese population are descendants of him.

[–]filoraz0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

So redpill is basically just be a narcy dark triad theory ? No need to read sidebar just act the way you know god forbids you to act. Align yourself with the satanic morals and values because women prefer that over being a good person? We all know how to act like this without reading the side bar. Just act opposite of what you believe is supposed to be a good human being. So we can save ourselves the reading time and just act in line with satan instead

[–]a14deadpool0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t believe in satan dude I’m an atheist, religion is the most blue pill thing ever. Listen in my opinion, you should always chase success and freedom that’s it. That’s the only important thing, let love chase you instead of you looking for that “soulmate” bullshit.

[–]Dempseytysonali5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Feed the bitch some scraps/give some comfort... or tell her you don't know what she's talking about and that she can leave anytime.

[–]Rock_Granite3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Run! Next thing you know, she'll be saying that you raped her.

[–]doubtless_abyss1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The point of dating is to ID red flags to weed out people like this. Hard next

[–]FrickOffAHS1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Next her

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

If she’s cunty about stuff, cut her from the team.

This is why I always recommend maintaining sexual relationships with multiple women. One gets uppity? She gets thrown off the boat.

[–]filoraz0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Well duh if OP had the option to have multiple he would. Anyone would. But it isnt realistic. to be able to have that you must at least look like david gandy or sean opry. Or you wont have this option.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t know who those two guys are, but I do know that I am able to manage it, and I look like I am made up out of spare dinosaur parts.

[–]Aspanu241 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tell her it’s not okay to call you names

[–]brianmcg3210 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Next

[–]Aesthetik_10 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Why in the world would you talk to a girl about the red pill.. that has to be the most autistic and idiotic move I have ever seen

[–]HappyVer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I didn't. She had heard of it before and brought it up on her own, but I don't think she knew many details. I also said I didn't know much about it.

[–]igiveshittoppl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Act innocent. Like you don't know about it at all.

[–]ckayOW0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

get rid of her u dont need to deal with her emotion shit

[–]kingofclubsmorde0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Each one of us is narcissistic to some end. It seems that this FWB of yours has only read some media article instead of real psychological literature.

Your FWB is projecting her own narcissism and insecurities through you.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a real thing and it is quite hypocrite to tell another person he has a personality disorder.

[–]RPOpenUp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If a women calls you manipulative/abusive whatever, basically anything remember that it's for her personal gain. It's just a tactic to manipulate you into turning into a little beta pussy for her. You should be worried tho if someone you trust and respect calls you this.

[–]SoftlyObsolete0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Own up and let her go. Somethings not vibing with her, why not move on?

[–]shubhidoobi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Why are you being with a girl who had therapy due to past relationships in the first place, get rid of her.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What do I do? I wholeheartedly and cheerfully agree

[–]Herdsengineers0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My opinion on this kind of thing - if the Red Pill can open your eyes and get you to start pursuing a mission in life and building yourself into the best version of yourself you can be, then you've gotten out of it what you need. If you take that as a value to live by, it's going to attract women because they are attracted to high value men.

At the same time, most women will try to start to redirect your efforts from building yourself to serving them. That's most women's idea of an LTR. If you refuse (which you should), that's when you start getting this kind of crap from women. Not playing into their own overblown sense of entitlement that gets socially bred into them these days gets labelled as narcissistic because you're putting yourself first. Knowing that a woman, while complaining she's not the center of your universe will continue to come around an let you have your way with her because she's still attracted to a high value man even if not happy that he won't bend knee ot her - that's her choice, not your manipulation, but she can't be responsible for her choices so she labels it as she's being manipulated. Take her words as a sign your plate is about to break to be honest. Maybe even take the initiative and blatantly tell her flat out you're going to continue to put you first, keep building you into your best version, keep building your life, and while you're open to a woman joining you in that type of life building, a woman is never going to replace your mission as your goal in life, and therefore she will never be the queen on the pedestal she's trying to become to you. Chances are she'll say all the right things in response, then still get pissed when she doesn't get pedestalized.

If a woman doesn't try to redirect you, but instead in words or actions wants to start serving the mission with you, and starts trying to build both you together into a the best version of yourselves together, that's a woman that's qualified for LTR status. Usually, they are rare and they just do it naturally, you don't have to have a discussion with them about it. It's the kind of thing that if you have to tell them, they're already lost causes.

[–]beachbbqlover0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

TRP to me was fundamentally just a couple lessons.

  1. Unicorns aren't real. You are not special and neither is your girl, and statistics have bearing. Be mentally prepared for what will likely happen, and behave like an adult without expectations.

  2. To successfully meet girls and pass the test is to actually improve yourself, rather than just swindling you way in.

  3. To maintain attractiveness for both parties long term is different and harder than being attractive short term. Most of TRP here chooses the easy path, because they dont see value in the hard path given the social contract offered.

The wrapper of those lessons is thick and targets guys who need those lessons, and occasionally has guys eating the wrapper.

But to be clear, these things align with women's interests even publicly. They're just framed as if they dont.

[–]Freedom__Fighter0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

laugh and change the conversation... duh

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like a damaged good to me

Next her like hitler did it to the ardennes

[–]ebaymasochist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

girl identifies red pill behavior and calls you manipulative/abusive/narcissistic

M is for Manipulative

A is for Abusive

N is for Narcissistic

Now we know what it stands for.

[–]NHS20010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She’s accusing you of being a manipulative narcissist because calling because The Red Pill is used by manipulative narcissists.

[–]goofballgorilla0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don't give it any thought. Continue doing you; growing, learning, maturing, fucking her brains out.
Although I strongly suggest you get some evidence to show that the sex is consensual (sexually explicit texts, etc) so you don't get me too'd.

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[–]a14deadpool0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

But red pill men call women narcissistic all the time???

[–]bojack_horsemam-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's still with you, so it wasn't a deal breaker.

She's just doing the socially correct thing and showing disapproval... but deep inside, she likes you for these same things.

[–]2319Skew-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don't know. While there are some facets that I believe therapy is useful, I also do realize that a vast majority of people are stuck paying for sessions or medications to create a world where genders are a social constructs and accountability can be shifted to another party.

Everyone gets a ribbon and all spaces are safe....I just don't buy that shit so I don't subscribe to a lot of what's being put out there in that field.

Now that said, repeat this phrase "I can't believe you think that but if you honestly see it as that then I'm sorry but I think we shouldn't talk anymore." Then just walk the fuck away.

Women manipulate men. Period. Frame control is basically just who is leading what. If she wants to have you give up control then so be it, you've got better shit to do then to give in and have her miserable and be miserable yourself.

[–]redvelvet_oreo-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ignore her. Seriously let her bitch and complain. Stay shut. It will drive her mad. Then switch topics.

Its not a problem unless you engage in her logic and make it a problem.

I will admit, a lot of red pill teachings could be classified as narcissistic.

In case you didnt get the "Side Bar Memo" part of what attracts a woman to a man is narcissitic behavior. She can say she hates it or make it seem like your a bad person for being that way but really it what makes her pussy wet.

Never listen to what she says.

On a side note its OK to be somewhat Narcissistic even if you exaggerate it for effect. You should love yourself. You should be confident. There is nothing wrong with that. Being overly narcissistic can be an issue if you don't know what you are doing.

[–]Jacked5parrow-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Amused and Amplify. She’s going to assume that you are going to break and agree with whatever feministic shit she has to spew.

[–]Nergaal-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

be aware of rape allegations. save up all the "i want you" conversations

[–]bakachelera-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're gonna end in a lawsuit if you don't get out of there quick and swiftly

[–]L2diy-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agree and amplify😂

[–]Livecrazyjoe-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why are you with someone whos in therapy? I can see that shes getting help but your basically buying a used car with alot of problems. My advice is to find someone else with less problems. Women in general all have issues. The only thing you can do is find the one with the least issues.

[–]Ducky19941994-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well could you be abusing what you've learned on TRP? Information here is often presented with out ethics and if you use these strategies without ethics you most certainly could be abusive. Food for thought not saying you are also not here to get into an ethics debate could careless if you guys apply ethics like myself or not. Also TRP isn't the end all be all lots of good stuff but a lot of horse shit to.



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