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What are ways to meet large quantities of women after graduating when you’re in your mid-twenties?

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July 13, 2020

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Title What are ways to meet large quantities of women after graduating when you’re in your mid-twenties?
Author MerryVegetableGarden
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Date 13 July 2020 06:24 PM UTC (7 months ago)
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[–]Wants permission to daternsbrum99 points100 points  (12 children) | Copy

Bars, clubs, events... Dude, if you go outside you will find that there is a lot of women walking around.

[–]rprookie33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy

Pussy walking everywhere

[–]MerryVegetableGarden21 points22 points  (6 children) | Copy

How often do you cold approach?

[–]skyrunner2236 points37 points  (5 children) | Copy

Shooter shoot. When you develop the skill, Every. Dam. Day. is an opportunity. If Im on my way somewhere and I see an opportunity and im not rushed for time, shoot your shot.

But I talk to everybody, everywhere I go. In line, at work, at the gym, etc. Helps stay calibrated. And I am what you would call an "introvert", lmao

[–]Strigon2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

What do you open up with in everyday convo with people typically?

[–]noPTSDformePlease19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

make a simple statement about the environment around you.

say you're standing in line at the grocery store. make a comment about whatever headlines are on the magazines. or about how the cashier is taking forever. or about the weather. or about something else. whatever it literally doesn't matter.

if they respond, keep the conversation going. if they don't, then don't worry about it and move on with your life.

[–]Wrote 1230 words about This One Girltakka10130 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Really your an introvert ?

[–]camk16-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

I can’t tell if you’re attempting to make a joke about being an introvert, or if you just got it mixed up with what you meant to say.

[–]skyrunner223 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I meant that in sense that it isnt natural for me to talk to people, I would rather go thru my day and not talk to anyone. That is my default setting. I naturally want to just sit home and chill. I can do that days on end and be in a great mood. When I am open and in conversation thru out day, I will feel drained, I need time to myself to recalibrate.

But I understand that to move thru the world you need to be able to talk and relate to people, even just to snap someone out of there normal routine and make a certain comment and recognize something, anything. (at cash register, girl is in zone, do you have phone number for store discount, I comment on purple nail color, she instantly snaps out of it and looks me in my eyes with smile, we chat a lil, and I go about my day, nothing major)

Little stuff like that keeps me in sync so when its game time I dont even get approach anxiety, its natural, the results dont even matter, grabbing a number isnt even a big deal because I wont even have time to call them all anyway. But developing that skill has let me overcome that and given me some great experiences not only with women but work, life overall.

[–]Snowaey0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What the fuck?!?? Thank u so much bro!!

[–]Wobblewobblegobble0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Not true in very small towns. Otherwise yes you’re right.

[–]Wants permission to daternsbrum4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Small towns suck. There reputation is everything, and everybody knows you. If you fuck up once, your probably fucked for the rest of your life. lol

[–]Wobblewobblegobble0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’m getting the fuck out soon. Small towns does suck lmao.

[–]brianmcg32169 points70 points  (3 children) | Copy

It was really weird for me when I graduated and got a real job. All of a sudden it's like, where did everyone my age go? Suddenly everyone I was friends with at work was 10 years older and had a couple of kids.

[–]BodomDeth30 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy

How to escape this? Especially during corona when most social stuff is gone or restricted to oblivion

[–]93til1nfinity25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy

Finding an attractive girl in corporate America is like finding a unicorn. If there are any women your age, they likely are overweight due to how terrible corporate America is for our bodies. They would have to be working out daily (which most women are clueless about)

[–]fartt1237 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sometimes I just think audience in reddit just doesn't go out. Of course work is probably gonna be people in their 30-40s, but if you are lazy after work and stay home. Then that is all you are gonna meet. women are everywhere just be social and develop the skill of making a conversation out of nothing. fuckin go to target and you'll meet chicks

[–]ThenIJizzedInMyPants23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

THis is a good question, and one that rarely gets decent answers. 'Everywhere' is both true and pretty useless. Here's a good answer screenshotted from seduction:

[–]AllocNeighley16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

Outside home?

[–]lazlounderhill14 points15 points  (5 children) | Copy

Become a hairdresser.

[–]brianmcg3219 points10 points  (4 children) | Copy

Or do nails.

[–]lazlounderhill12 points13 points  (3 children) | Copy

Or pap smears. Midwifery?

[–]fartt1230 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

or douche bag holder

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[–]RoloThomazi6214 points15 points  (8 children) | Copy

get a bartender or bouncer job at a club

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[–]fartt1233 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is the shit I'm talking about. you could fuck girls at $9 dollar per hour salary. you could fuck living with your parents with no money. They all create buffers that I'm not good enough so I'm not doing shit.

[–]BriefcaseHead20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Can confirm I fucked more than rich guys do whilst I was a broke student. I dont give a fuck if people think im lying or it is a red pill fantasy. Real life girls don't ask to see your fucking bank account when they come straight over. I swear some of these comments on this sub are from genuine incels.

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[–]LandSharkRoyale6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I love nature and being in a beautiful place but man there are so few women in my small town.

[–]brennyflocko4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

ah yes, large quantities of women, the normal thing all men love to meet

[–]benhurensohn6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hinge plus bars

[–]theredsperg15 points16 points  (4 children) | Copy

be famous, have money, have friends.

have hobbies, read sidebar

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[–]theredsperg6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

status mate

[–]ardu-2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

To be fair, you can be famous on a smaller scale. e.g. your college campus, city, etc

[–]Bigsammy6101 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Grocery stores are prime

[–]Neyjuve1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Part-time Uber driver.

[–]Pharmatt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Can vouch. Do it for for extra spending money and meet all sorts of people.

[–]beigesun2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Post the high n count study

[–]MerryVegetableGarden0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles.

Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. J. M. Bailey, K. M. Kirk, G. Zhu, M. P. Dunne, N. G. Martin J Pers Soc Psychol. 2000 Mar; 78(3): 537–545. From


In illustration of this, the odds ratio of 1.13 for lifetime sexual partners obtained with the face-to-face mode of interview indicates that the probability of infidelity increased by 13% for every additional lifetime sexual partner,


Regarding the correlates of infidelity, results indicated that on the basis of both methods of assessment, the probability of sexual infidelity increased with higher number of lifetime sexual partners

Sexual infidelity in a national survey of American women: differences in prevalence and correlates as a function of method of assessment. Mark A. Whisman, Douglas K. Snyder J Fam Psychol. 2007 Jun; 21(2): 147–154. doi: 10.1037/0893-3200.21.2.147 From


Our findings demonstrate that infidelity and number of sexual partners are both under moderate genetic influence (41% and 38% heritable, respectively) and the genetic correlation between these two traits is strong (47%). The resulting genetic correlation between the two traits was .47, so nearly half the genes impacting on infidelity also affect number of sexual partners. The correlation of the unique environment between the two variables was .48.

Genetic influences on female infidelity and number of sexual partners in humans: a linkage and association study of the role of the vasopressin receptor gene (AVPR1A). Lynn F. Cherkas, Elizabeth C. Oelsner, Y. T. Mak, Anna Valdes, Tim D. Spector Twin Res. 2004 Dec; 7(6): 649–658. doi: 10.1375/1369052042663922 From


A truism in psychology is that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. This is no less true in the realm of sexual behavior. Indeed, one of the strongest predictors of marital infidelity is one’s number of prior sex partners (Buss, 2000). Deception about past sexual promiscuity would have inflicted greater costs, on average, on men than on women

Haselton, M. G., Buss, D. M., Oubaid, V., & Angleitner, A. (2005). Sex, Lies, and Strategic Interference: The Psychology of Deception Between the Sexes. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 31(1), 3–23.


Sexual promiscuity was significantly positively correlated with emotional promiscuity [r(356) = .261, p < .001], as well with sexual infidelity [r(323) = .595, p < .001] and emotional infidelity [r(323) = .676, p < .001], indicating that sexually promiscuous participants also tend to be emotionally promiscuous, and sexual[ly] and emotional[ly] unfaithful. In terms of the sexual domain, results showed that there is also a positive correlation between sexual promiscuity and sexual infidelity, stating that individuals that tend to be more sexually promiscuous also tend to be more sexually unfaithful. These results support our second hypothesis.

Pinto R., Arantes J. (2016). The Relationship between Sexual and Emotional Promiscuity and Infidelity in Proceedings of the Athens: ATINER’S Conference Paper Series, No: PSY2016-2087, Athens, 10.30958/ajss.4-4-3


Female Infidelity Based on Number of Premarital Sex Partners -- Statistics Brain

Number of pre-marital partners: percent who cheated once married

  • 2: 10.4%
  • 3: 14.9%
  • 4: 17.7%
  • 5: 21.6%
  • 6-10: 26.0%
  • 11-20: 36.7%
  • 21+: 46.8%

[–]babban_rao1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Online dating

[–]catz1234564 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Great if you want to bang women 3-4 points below your level (for some of yall that may be creatures not women).

[–]Axorasi0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Feminism protests

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