“I barely know you” test when planning to meet with a girl from Instagram?

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I hit up this girl from Instagram around two day ago, we chatted a bit and everything was going good because she asked for my snap. Today I told her that we should meet in the middle and grab something to eat, then she replied “I barely know you still 😂”. I know text is only for logistics so I’m trying to avoid having drawn out conversations, so what would be the proper reply to this? Or do I just next

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Title “I barely know you” test when planning to meet with a girl from Instagram?
Author throwhawayyyy
Upvotes 97
Comments 79
Date 12 July 2020 05:10 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/712754
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/hpxx8p/i_barely_know_you_test_when_planning_to_meet_with/
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[–]lietruth205 points206 points  (4 children) | Copy

Agree and amplify.

This is just girl flirty banter. Back to the sidebar breh.

Say “yea neither do I, that’s why I’m bringing my mom along”. Or some light low effort joke. This is basic pitch and catch conversation.

[–]Sylvester_Sterone19 points20 points  (2 children) | Copy

Hahaha I like it. Wonder what a lady’s response would be.

Do you have any other responses to “I barely know you blah blah blah”

[–]throwhawayyyy[S] 37 points38 points  (1 child) | Copy

I just saw some more posts on trp about it and some are like:

“You can bring your dad” or things like that

[–]lietruth21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah that’s where I copped it from hahaha

[–]TheRedPillRipper12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

low effort joke

Or direct;

”Only one way to fix that. Meet me at [insert location] at 8.” Then up The Escalator you go.

Godspeed and good luck!

[–][deleted] 38 points39 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Yup, hope you're not a weirdo!"

[–]moto1012 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is great, throws the ball back in her court with a response she would probably give you.

[–]Senior Endorseddr_warlock15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

Common sales style objection. It means you haven't generated enough interest. "make me more interested" is what she 'said'.

[–]unamins1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

exactly. She don't see why to buy you yet, you didn't show value to buy immediately.

[–]1Red_Pill_Brotherhood41 points42 points  (1 child) | Copy

Low interest. You'll find out there's plenty of women down to meetup without knowing you yet.

If you want you can push it and just be straight up "Lets meetup to get to know each other in real life." anything but logistics results in ignoring and moving on.

[–]MrAnderzon6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

This the girls I’ve met from online never asked me anything related to I barely know you other than logistics and confirmation.

What could one do than besides Agree & Amplify

[–][deleted] 52 points53 points  (22 children) | Copy

She's not interested.

Girls have no problem sucking Chad's dick within a half an hour of meeting them off tinder.

[–][deleted] 57 points58 points  (19 children) | Copy

This is the only right answer here. I've seen some college girls drive an hour just to get piped by some thugs 🤦🏻‍♂️ no cap

[–]Altin_Beg10 points11 points  (18 children) | Copy

Damn fr? Tell me about it

[–][deleted] 43 points44 points  (17 children) | Copy

If she sees you as an alpha, she'll cut the dog and pony show to fuck you. If you know, you know.

[–]Altin_Beg9 points10 points  (16 children) | Copy

I got this one chick in my messages, she’s sexually interested, but finds an excuse for every time I try to set up logistics. What to do?

[–][deleted] 52 points53 points  (9 children) | Copy

Unpopular opinion; cut her off. She's looking for attention. A lot of dudes on here might tell you to keep pursuing, but if this bitch talks sex and comes up with an excuse to not meet up, then she's just using you for attention. That's how I deal with women like this.

[–]Altin_Beg10 points11 points  (6 children) | Copy

Got it, will give one last attempt for her to see me, if she declines it’s a next

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (4 children) | Copy

Definitely hit her up one more time. If she declines, be polite and be like, "Yeah we can figure out some other time, understand, etc." Act like everything is cool, so that way she doesn't get a kick out of fucking with you. Then next her.

[–]Murdochsk1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah always just be cool and polite when you next a girl without making her feel like she has the upper hand. Most the time they end up at your door anyway and those that don’t never will

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Women like guys like you. They fuck around with you, get you pissed off, and show their friends how mad you got at her by showing them your angry messages. Fuck out of here faggot.

[–]KidGrizz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes sir!

[–]IveSawitall0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hard truth

[–]dokuringo2022 points23 points  (3 children) | Copy

Bro... she’s not interested in you. She’s teasing you... You need to let her go and move on. She knows that if she keeps acting sexually interested, she can string you along and give her the attention she craves for without going out with you. Again, next her and fuck a different chick.

[–]Altin_Beg-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Got it, will give one last attempt for her to see me, if she declines it’s a next

[–]rmcassio3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

She will decline

[–]benhurensohn2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

And he will not next...

[–]Vulturo3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

There are some women who are vere well aware of the "game" as are you. This light sprinkling of sexual talk is something they use to milk your attention. You must polarize the situation, she's either in or out.

[–]entrep41 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

That doesn't sound like she's sexually interested. It sounds like she's trying to trick you into being her orbiter

[–]1rad_dynamic6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Nah, this could be a genuine concern. OP just needs to stand ground and make it out like its no biggie meeting without chatting first, agree and amplify achieves this. So just figuring out why that's an issue and beating her with logic.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, of course agree and amplify say you're a serial killer etc.

However if you're running into this often girls don't perceive you as high value on Instagram/Tinder. When I was younger and had a DYEL physique I got this a lot. Now after raising my SMV I've literally never gotten the "need more comfort before meeting" .

[–]youcantdenythat23 points24 points  (4 children) | Copy

Her: "I barely know you"

Me: "Duh, that's why we are meeting"

[–]st0ckholme39 points40 points  (3 children) | Copy

Too logical

[–]BoyFromMiami1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Agreed. Funny and cocky , agree and amplify.

“Yea we haven’t met we may hate each other” or

“Nope we haven’t ,hope you aren’t a serial killer”

[–]youcantdenythat19 points20 points  (1 child) | Copy

These are a bit cringy and sound try-hard.

If she won't meet then she's an attention whore, cut her lose.

[–]BoyFromMiami10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hey, I’m open to suggestions. Those are actual quotes that have worked for me. But it’s not an end all be all but they have gotten me results

[–]MrAnderzon3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Try not to grab something to eat. Keep it simple. Cafe, Drinks,

[–]los69edalyssa12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Attention whore, move on

[–]Anonymous333692 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Probably cause you asked her too dinner instead of just a drink. She's not interested though if its anything besides yes it's a no

[–]WRXLad5552 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She's not interested. Girls will happily meet Chad after 2 minutes of speaking.

[–]cydestiny2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hit up 10 more girls, then you will have your answer.

[–]2319Skew8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Let's change that I'm going to X at Y. You should come. "

No shitty jokes or back and forth.

She shows up or she doesn't. If she does then you have the frame. If she doesn't then be sure to post something amazing.

Wait awhile then repeat. If she doesn't show then she's looking to keep you as an orbiter. Exit stage left.

You can exit with class or just ghost. I preach abundance but sometimes the time isn't right and she'll match you on tinder or something and it doesn't hurt not to burn bridges.

[–]TheRealUrbanRonin1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Call instead of texting after u get a number from Instagram. Usually sets a better impression if you’re not awkward. Treat it like a cold call

[–]unamins3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Nowadays girls are scared of calls, especially from never met guys.

[–]TheRealUrbanRonin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I always call from numbers I get from tinder or bumble, for those who do pick up my call, it’s a positive impression. If you say something along the lines of hey it’s __ from __. Don’t worry I’m not a telemarketer lol. I thought you were (compliment). Say something ab being old fashioned or making a first impression through calling. Ask ab her day and plans for the week. Plan a date. I’ve never had girls who were creeped out, only those who don’t pick up and then I text instead. If she gives you her number, you still need to make an impression among the 20 other guys texting her. Calling makes you stand out.

[–]i-am-the-prize1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

reply: "then let's meet to change that fact" [then STFU]


1) you're not attractive enough

2) she's more interested in validation and attention than meeting up

remember, your gold is your Time and Attention, so withdraw a bit: if you give it away too easily, you devalue yourself.

[–]jojojijo333-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Low interest

[–]kclanton80-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"in this life you never really know anyone....if your interested, let's meet.....if not, let's not waste each other's time."

[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points  (4 children) | Copy

Call her on it.

"Interested or not? I don't have time to waste."

She's in or she's out.

[–]razenha4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

WTF, that's a horrible suggestion. If you think she is not interested, just move on, not need to be a little bitch about it.

" I don't have time to waste. "

oooooh, hold on, we have a badass over here.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Worked for me

[–]razenha0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, right

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


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