Been on TRP for over a year now. 30 years old. I'm fine right now. Read a bunch of books, fit, have a couple plates on the go. Having fun with life, travel. Bunch of goals that I'm slowly reaching.
But I'm thinking about the future like 20-30 years from now. When I'm 60. What happens then? If you have a girlfriend, than great? But what about kids and such? It'll be harder to meet girls as you get older, I think? Most people will have families, and kids. I look at all my co-workers that are older than 50+ and I see them, the ones that are still married or second marriage, look alot happier, smile more, more positivity. The ones that are single, divorced, or with no kids. Seem so negative, grumpy, and just terrible people.
Reading TRP makes me not want to marry a girl, for a bunch of reasons. How they take half your shit if you ever have a divorce, never seeing your kids again, and etc. But on the other hand, I think it'll be really fulfilling having a relationship that can endure 30+ years, going through ups downs and having a best friend to share your life with. A part of me, and I feel TRP, and our generation, give up on relationships too easily, compared to how it was before, and also how other cultures endure relationship. Or is it, I just have the dream of the one(oneitis)? And in reality that's not really possible?
I feel like alot of the readers and posters on TRP are younger guys like 20-30? I might be wrong. But I want to hear from guys 50+, who have acturally lived life. Had a family, kids, experience. They've been through shit, so I would like to hear from them. But I doubt it, because guys that old don't use Reddit. I've been with a my ex for 3 years, being in "love". Having that special connection with someone. I feel like alot of guys on TRP haven't had that yet. It's special, having someone to connect with. I feel like it's like yin and yang. You need the female energy to be more whole. Or is it just that I am still bluepilled?
Just things going through my head. Thanks for any information. And merry Christmas boys