I've been noticing an increase in the amount of women that are posting advice or responding to comments on TRP and AskTRP.

While I don't necessarily think that women being aware of hypergamy or other aspects of TRP is a bad thing, I do find it interesting that they are giving relationship advice here. Advice that can confuse newbies and conflicts with information in the side bar.

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I understand that sometimes things can't be helped. When the Incel subs were closed off, we started to get an influx of nihilistic posters that refuse to accept self improvement and accountability and instead believe that it boils down to only genetics.

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Now, I'm noticing a trend of female posters that chime in with comments like " I love a gentleman and I’d still respect him and follow his lead" or " If you make me feel unclear its because Im clear, you're not for me. " Not even sure what spurred this on.

I love a good laugh and the idea of a woman on TRP giving advice on how to have a stable relationship is pretty fucking hilarious, but if I was new and impressionable I can see how that can be harmful.

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Any new guys joining TRP, please, please be skeptical of advice that contradicts the side bar. Make sure that you don't blindly accept advice on the forum as gospel truth and for the love of all that is good, try it yourself. If you see veterans in the community give advice that sounds fishy, try it! See how it works.

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You'll be amazed.

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Now, if there's a female reader that has her feathers ruffled...

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I really don't care. I'm not here to debate you. I am not interested in hearing about how YOUR an exception or what you FEEL about what I said.

I'm sure that you have a lot of wisdom that you're itching to share and let guys know about. I'm sure you're an amazing person, but that's not really important. This isn't about you. It's about the community.

Guys come to TRP to learn how to better themselves from other guys that have been through the ropes. We inspire each other to excel in adversity, that to various degrees, we have all experienced.

You don't know what it's like to be divorced rape.

You don't know what it's like to be convicted before the trial.

You don't know the pressures and expectations of being a man.

You don't know even know what it feels like to be kicked in the balls.

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At least incels do experience the world through male eyes.

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So the next time you feel the need to answer a question or provide feedback on what YOU THINK works, how YOU FEEL and about how you're an EXCEPTION...just STOP. Take a moment to think about WHY this place exists. Ask yourself WHY are you here. Ask yourself WHAT are you doing here. Ask yourself WHY are you doing it and then circle back to WHY this place exists.

If you can't do that honestly then don't post.

By posting you'll just be doing more harm and wasting your time.

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Best Wishes.