LTR I’ve been seeing brought up marriage a couple months ago. I shrugged it off and said no need to marry and I have no intention of it. She then said that she wants to marry but doesn’t want a big wedding. I said that’s great and ended the conversation.

Couple months go by and she tells me that she was having a conversation with her parents and she asked them does marriage mean anything anymore? And she told me she came to the conclusion that she can still love her significant other, live with him but not have the ceremony, ring, or government contract stating the marriage.

I was a little taken back because this is the first I’ve heard from a girl about marriage. She possesses all green flags. Low N count, cooks, cleans, supports me, lets me lead, submissive, doesn’t go out, and if she does she wants me to come along and she only goes out with her cousins and sisters and their boyfriends, good father figure, is college educated, if a guy dm’s her or one of her ex’s hit her up she shoots it down real quick. All in all great.

This has just blindsided me. Should I be worried at all?