Tonight, I am meeting the same girl I met in my rooftop sex encounter this past week. This is a "2nd date" and only the third time we've met. I fully anticipate a night of awesome sex...but I want to address one possible hiccup:
There is a unique phenomenon I observe very often after I hook up with a girl the first night we meet: "2nd date resistance" (2DR).
This is when a girl you have fucked (or messed around with) the first night retroactively tries to justify her slutty behavior by "taking back control" of the sexual power dynamic. Basically, she realizes she should have played "hard to get" in order to maintain her power over the sexual exchange (which is the only power girls have in dating). Yet, she gave that up the first night and now suddenly feels inadequate. She now feels somewhat helpless due to this loss of power. In other words, there is now cognitive dissonance that she is associating with you.
As a result, her inner hamster attempts to artificially reclaim the sexual power dynamic back in her favor (even though she has already lost it). She will do this by overcompensating with comments like "maybe~", "oh you sure about that?" or "hm let's see what happens~" in a lame and vain attempt to shit test and take back power. She will often do this teasingly, but very rarely she will actually become hostile in an attempt to redefine the man as the cause of her shame (which also conveniently redefines her as a victim, which we all know women live to do).
Whether she is being teasing or slightly hostile...just ignore this 2DR, don't let it shake your frame, and carry on in RP fashion as you originally would. Remember, you have already banged (or made out with) her, so the hardest part is over. 2DR is merely a byproduct of a girl not knowing how to deal with her feelings of helplessness, so it's up to you to give her that controlled reality.
Hopefully I'll have an update for Monday. Have awesome weekend guys!
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