In this day and age, why are there still men who are marrying women?

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December 29, 2018

Even though marriage numbers have plummeted in the last 40-50 years, there are still men who are marrying. Why? With all the information out there on how it's such a terrible deal for men, I'm amazed there are still men out there who are opting for marriage. Are they just ignorant of the facts? Do they know the facts, but choose to ignore them because they believe in happily ever after/Disney movies/the lies society tells them? Do they think they've found a good girl/unicorn?

The facts are actually much worse than I initially thought. Even a woman who has had just one previous partner, her chances of divorcing you almost double. Women will always be comparing you to their best previous man. So to take an extreme example, if she's dated and fucked some Chad Thundercock male model lookalike in the past, her chances of remaining married to you are close to 0%.

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Title In this day and age, why are there still men who are marrying women?
Author BumblingBeta
Upvotes 122
Comments 126
Date 29 December 2018 04:05 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]wawakaka160 points161 points  (3 children) | Copy

because some guys still fall in love. and despite the current statistics some women are still worth marrying but those are hard to find in the general population.

you have to remember that a lot of guys grew up in fucked up house holds and they seek out the family and stability they never had as kids. two of my friends mom's were booze loving, weed smoking hippie chicks. both divorced and single and fucked a bunchy of guys. they neglected thier sons emotionally.

both of my freinds got married early and had families and are still together with thier wives after twenty five years.

when i look back at their lives now i realize that they finaly got the family life they never had. I'm the oppostie i was smothered so i can't stand commitments.

[–]dabah201420 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

This was my situation. Grew up being totally fucking smothered and became a pretty isolated person as a result. I have a few close buds and can pull decent girls, but I usually just prefer to be alone.

[–]Jesus-slaves1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Another important reason marriages fail is the flip side of this. People who grow up with poor examples sometimes seek out a "negative home" in their own relationships. If mom and dad screamed all the time, it's easy to continue that pattern.

[–]powerpuffters2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

We'll yeah but of course!

[–]Freedium146 points147 points  (21 children) | Copy

Marriage was never designed so that people would be happy. That is a modern misconception. People have gotten married, are getting married, and will continue to get married because children. Children are required for the progression of society. The process of good parenting set up the future generation for the world they will create. Please try and remember

Sex isn’t everything.

[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

lol. in europe most kids are born out of wedlock.

that trend is in-place and escalating here in the states as well.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Europe is also fast becoming a complete shithole, too. Wonder if there is a correlation...? Hmm......

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 6 points7 points  (17 children) | Copy

Can you explain why men need to get married to have children? Do they gain some sort of benefit by getting married and having kids, that they wouldn't gain by having kids without getting married?

[–]Freedium38 points39 points  (5 children) | Copy

As most non-solipsistic people understand, marriage exists because it lies beyond the needs of the individual and in the need of the society. Ya, marriage sucks. Get over it. Life is suffering. If you can take that suffering, and turn it into something meaningful and beautiful despite. The benefit is for society, but hey, some people don’t care of or think of anything outside themselves.

What are you gonna do?

[–]livear14 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy

Opt out and say fuck this shit and fuck this wretched society.

May a society that understands the true nature of women take over, insallah.

[–]omega_dawg937 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

when that happens, women will be TRUE equals, and i promise you, they won't like the society they wanted.

men are not going to protect them.

men are not going to be 'tools' for them to use and lose.

gov't assistance programs and courts will change from today's joke and women will curse feminism.

[–]SKRedPill2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

This will all happen only if men take power by themselves (as they always did until recently), proactively, and not wait for big daddy govt. to do anything for them.

[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

some people don't care of or think of anything outside themselves

marriage sucks

Not a hard decision.

[–]SKRedPill5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Monogamous marriage is social sexual strategy.

[–]KettleLogic3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

I don't know about your country but in nearly every country having kids or even just having a long term partner you live with gives them all of the legal advantages of marriage in terms of taking your shit so it's not needed for any of the negatives you are talking about to still take effect.

Marriage does however set you up with additional legal advantages such as ability to sign certain medical stuff in each other name, joint policies that might not apply to defacto, additional legal protections in some taxation issues.

There's advantages to marriage but most of the disadvantage has already been applied to defacto/having children.

[–]SKRedPill0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

In my country, you can't rent in many places if you're a bachelor. Too many beta boys partying with zero sense of hygiene and no habits has made it more difficult for the MV valuing men.

[–]KettleLogic1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Jesus that's insane. Having country mandated anti-neckbeard rules.

[–]SKRedPill1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No it's not country mandated. But it's social perception. And it doesn't help that their fears aren't unfounded either. A typical urban guy between 16-25 is little more than a bunch of BS that reads and works. They can't even flush that goddamned toilet unless you get in their face and tell them to flush or else... Literally no vision or standards or motivation for anything.

Guys in my college dorm had decorative dust nets hanging over their room ceilings. Only one guy cleaned his room every day, an 8x10 foot room at that. There were guys who never ate until their bodies told them "Eat or I'm fucked". Lots of guys shagging half a dozen times a day.

They wouldn't recognize themselves now though. Work and to an extent marriage has hit them hard about keeping their SMV and basic stuff up.

[–]DiscipleBrown9 points10 points  (5 children) | Copy

I think it’s more legal these days, if you die your assets would go to your wife first, where if you die and are not married it would go to a sibling or parents first. Not sure don’t quote me.

[–]russelln19 points20 points  (4 children) | Copy

It can go wherever you want (within reason) with a legal will. No marriage required.

[–]Planner_Hammish-3 points-2 points  (3 children) | Copy

There are lots of tax and estate benefits with marriage. (But drawbacks too).

[–]phareux-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Wrong you pay more taxes if you’re married

[–]Planner_Hammish1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

That makes no sense, but it will depend on the jurisdiction.

[–]SuperCrazy070 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Higher taxes for two people of equal incomes. Lower taxes if SAHM or whatever.

[–]jackandjill222 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's too big a risk. You can't risk your life for children it isn't about sex, it's about danger to your well being.

[–]2comment70 points71 points  (5 children) | Copy

Men want kids.

Or they don't want to be alone growing old. They feel a type of musical chairs effect as they get older.

[–]Mangasbzo74 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

The real "justification" to get married is the fear of dying alone.

It's quite easy nowadays with western women to have kids and a LTR without getting married. In the UK for example, it's already reached the level where 50% of kids are born out wedlock.

[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Musical chairs?

[–]maxofreddit93 points94 points  (6 children) | Copy

I have a feeling many of these answers are from young, unmarried men.

As a 40+ married man, who discovered RP after marriage, my relationship with my lady has gotten nothing but better. Marriage truly is RP in “hard mode.”

You wanna level up your game? Be such a good catch that your lady is down for sex whenever & however you want. And if she isn’t, you know it’s because you’re off your game because there’s someone there that expects and gets turned on by your A Game... not just when you see her for a few hours on a date, or even as an LTR... but as a promise that you will always have your A Game, “till death do you part.” She’ll only bring her A Game if you bring yours.

There are those of us who actually like the fact that it’s a challenge, who LOVE being a badass dad, and truly enjoy being an example of what a modern man should be in life, relationship, & fatherhood. You’re totally “RP” on your own, as a single guys with “plates?” Fine.

Try leading a passionate wife and mature, creative kids into the future with high expectations and empathy. The key word in that last sentence is “leading.” Some of us want to be in the 1% (or whatever percent) that pulls it off. That’s Married Rep Pill.

That’s my experience anyway.

[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

The women of the millennial generation aren't made for marriage they aren't marriage material. Besides shits Fucked up & I have no interest in taking my chances.

[–]ilovevidya0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Only in U.S.A and the UK. Eastern European women for example are certainly worth marrying, hot intelligent and like to be feminine.

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

RooshV has literally made a video about this "exception".

[–]maxofreddit0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Without necessarily speaking from experience, it seems that ladies from the millennial generation are much more open to threesomes and other non “vanilla” sex. If I remember right (IF) it seems there are many MRP guys who have a lady who’s more than willing to help him pick up a lady on the side here and there.

As a side note, while you met not see marriage being right for you, my comment was answering the OP’s question.

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Perhaps your observations correct this makes then terrible for consistency or stability because they're more about self exploration.

[–]Wjourney31 points32 points  (3 children) | Copy

I want to spread my seed and have the child grow up in the best environment possible, which happens to be with two parents vs one

[–]omega_dawg934 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

you need the state involved with your relationship (marriage) to raise your kid with 2 parents? 2 people just have to commit to each other and to raising their child.

today's women are coming with children already in-tow. now what?

[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

How ambitious. Mother nature would be proud.

[–]justdontfindme39 points40 points  (5 children) | Copy

Because aging and retiring without a wife and kids is depressing. Also most people like to leave a legacy behind after their death, the legacy in this case is their kids.

[–]omega_dawg935 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

there are millions of kids in the usa being raised by men who THINK they are their fathers.

i like your post.

but if it's about legacy, get the kids DNA tested. better yet, campaign for DNA testing at birth and watch feminists go into full battle mode.

as a man, you're a tool to women... like a screwdriver is a tool to you.

you wanna know depressing? ask a guy who had the wife and kids and ended up getting divorced raped.

[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Mine will be the empire I create.

[–]DownyGall10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Nah dude you don’t understand. The lonely old man thing is a myth. You see a guy alone in a nursing home - he’s crushing it

[–]kellykebab24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy

You see a guy alone in a nursing home - he’s crushing it

Radical dude

[–]dpgproductions2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because aging and retiring without a wife and kids is depressing.

Not for everyone

[–]MrBowlfish15 points16 points  (7 children) | Copy

Let’s say you meet a foreigner who’s here on a travel visa and you want to have children with her...marriage becomes almost a must.

[–]DownyGall6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

There’s no way that’s significant statistically

[–]the1pope10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy

Raah that's deep uno 😂😂

[–]yes_kid1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Allow fam mans not hot still

[–]the1pope1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Aha truss 😂

[–]Auxfite1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My buddy married a foreigner from Mexico. He wanted kids but she said marriage first. They are now engaged lol

[–]Blackcurls 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Why would marriage be a must?

[–]Wjourney3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

to get citizenship easily

[–]MajIssuesCaptObvious12 points13 points  (6 children) | Copy

I'm reading all these comments about needing to be married to have children. I don't understand that, because I've done just fine raising my kids while divorced. The key has been getting my kids every single weekend and keeping them during their breaks from school. During that time I've taught them about finance, money management, auto mechanics, home repair, and at the same time playing video games with them, taking them on camping trips, and cooking meals and cleaning our home together. My oldest is working and will be attending college, the next just joined the Marine Corps (and this Marine dad couldn't be prouder), and my youngest is smart and being groomed for the Air Force and college one day. They're all critical thinkers in their own way, and the best kids a dad could ask for. Their mother and I work everything out together with the kids in mind.

So with that being said, I don't know why men are getting married. I now see that marriage is just a religious tradition and a legal contract; that's all. I haven't needed marriage for anything. I still date and socialize, I still get sex, I still keep a clean home, I cook, manage my money, etc. I've proven to myself that I don't need that legal contract. I don't care if I die alone. As long as my kids can do well in this world, I've accomplished my life's goal. Anything else is lagniappe (a little bit extra).

[–]Auxfite 1 points [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy

Isn’t marriage needed to raise a big family like yours? I believe mom and dad and the kids should all stay together.

[–]MajIssuesCaptObvious0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

I was raised by divorced parents who never remarried and I've done the same with my kids. It has worked for us, but we had to live close by to really make it work. What matters is the quality of the time spent together to make up for the week days my kids and I didn't see each other.

[–]Auxfite0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah my parents divorced when I was 4 and my dad lived 1 hour 20 mins away. How old were your kids? Age is a huge factor in this I would guess

[–]MajIssuesCaptObvious0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My son was 4 when the divorce went through. My other son was born after a breakup with a following ex. My daughter is my stepchild with that ex. She was 4 when I first met her.

[–]sevans1050 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

but we had to live close by to really make it work

This is really the key to good child rearing. And if you can live even closer....say, in the same house it's fantastic for the kids. (Lots of studies of this) but if you can't, live as close as you can blocks if possible. Same school district, ect.

[–]MajIssuesCaptObvious0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If my wife and I aren't getting along, then living together isn't fantastic for the kids. Studies throw in single moms and dads who are unstable and bad parents. It takes responsible adults who put the kids' needs first above all else, and those are education, love, respect, manners, and quality time, all which we achieved even while divorced.

[–]__uwotm8__12 points13 points  (6 children) | Copy

Men are programmed to want kids eventually. Most women would not have kids with you without the financial security of marriage. This deal has been going on for ages, you provide resources, they provide kids. Some of the biggest RP “thinkers” are married. It’s risky business but that’s life.

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

When you say men are programmed to want kids eventually, at what age is "eventually"? For women, we know it's some time in their 30's, when they hit the wall. What is the equivalent age for men?

[–]bigdale0012 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

For Men in their 30's, but with a younger woman.

[–]bigdale0011 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

That's essentially saying that we will all eventually be providers, I'm not buying that argument. If you are her first choice and she has high attraction, she should not care about getting married.

[–]__uwotm8__1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

With a high quality, mother material women, you might be able to get away without marriage if you’re like top 5%. Don’t forget that they have loads of attractive men willing to provide for them, and that they’re under a lot of pressure from society. We should also be realistic.

[–]jackandjill22-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]IceColdHell6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

The only reason I want to put a ring on some girl in the future is to create a safe environment to raise my alpha and feminine offspring.

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

And if the ring wasn't on her finger, the environment would be unsafe?

[–]IceColdHell0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Religious Reasons
  2. Whether there’s a ring or not, if you put a baby inside a woman, you’ll still have to pay child support and alimony as if you were married should you split.

[–]Khiv_4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Emotions can trump rationality. You know you shouldn't trust women but you just can't help it in that particular case. Plus there is loneliness and the fact that most men do not think themselves capable of attracting any women they want (and in many cases it is true). Many men don't want to improve themselves, most just want to live life as they always did, drink, watch TV, have shitty jobs, and they still want to have someone that wants them.

[–]bf1bro18 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

I know of a guy who is marrying a red flag. She drinks heavily (can't just have a few), has multiple silly/spur of the moment tattoos, swears frequently be it drunk or sober, is a proud feminist type, dominant personality, grinds on other guys when drunk and in direct view of her partner, snorts coke.

Why is he still marrying her?

As far as I can tell he is one of the most insecure people I've ever known, and in his mind the thought of being alone would probably drive him to insanity. That and he is and has always been a huge beta cuck. Some guys just don't "get" any of this stuff man. I used to become all worked up at this shit but now I just laugh because it's not my monkeys or my circus.

[–]Auxfite2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

1 Corinthians 7:9

But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I know a guy like this too. & they're young because we're young I can't understand making such a poor decision so early in your life. You must be nothing short of desperate.

[–]Ravenscar736 points37 points  (24 children) | Copy

Because society is blue pill. Whenever I tell my parents I'll never get married they call my cynical. There is an immense disillusioned pressure on men to get married. 90% of men think they it's the correct way to go about living your life and if you don't get married you will end up a lonely old man with a dog stinking of piss.

Plus women are literally obsessed with getting married. They are obsessed with having their big day, they want to live this bullshit idolised perfect wedding you see in films.

I honestly think it's blue pilled scriptwriters to blame. Media has a larger influence over the pig ignorant members of society than people realise.

This is probably why I was marked down at university for writing the most red pilled scripts imaginable, with scenes of a young couple roleplaying rape in a disabled toliet while juiced up on MDMA.

[–]bradyo255 points56 points  (20 children) | Copy

Lol wtf is up with that last paragraph

[–]DownyGall13 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah I don’t know what he’s talking about. Professors would love that degenerate bullshit

[–]bradyo211 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve also never heard of anyone using “juiced up” when describing being on mdma

[–]kellykebab8 points9 points  (16 children) | Copy

No idea how that's red pill, just vulgar

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points  (15 children) | Copy

It’s rp because it’s reality

[–]kellykebab11 points12 points  (14 children) | Copy

The reality is that some guy somewhere is cleaning up his dog's shit right now. Is writing a story about that red pill?

This dude thinks he's blowing minds with his fantasy stories, but every actual adult knows this stuff is going on. Students who think they are "shocking" their teachers regarding sex and drugs are usually pretty delusional.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (13 children) | Copy

It’s not about shocking, it’s about fighting the media ridden bp ideology. While most students are writing about a guy falling for a girl who’s out of his league, he’s going into detail about what women are truly like. Not some ultra feminine angels but sluts, well, some. I don’t dig the “every girl is a slug” shit. Just way too generalised.

[–]kellykebab4 points5 points  (12 children) | Copy

The other guy sounds to me like he's trying to be shocking. Sexually explicit writing has been accepted in academia since the 1970s. And it's clearly mainstream in popular culture now (e.g. 50 Shades).

I doubt most college dudes are writing sappy love stories in college if they're writing any fiction at all.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy

Hmm, very true. Perhaps he was right in a sense, just pulled it off wrong.

[–]kellykebab1 point2 points  (10 children) | Copy

And in fairness, if he had an unusually PC female professor combined with him not taking criticism well, that could have been the issue.

[–]Ravenscar70 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy

I had a very politically correct female lecturer who didn't like my raunchy masculine characters. She accused me of being a chauvinistic and marked down my dissertation.

[–]jackandjill220 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]xddm26539 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

hey its me, ur professor


[–]jackandjill221 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

women want to GET married... not be married and take-on those responsibilities.

women want their "i'm a princess for a day," fairy tale expensive wedding because it's all about them, all about the ceremony.

plus, there's the social validation and ability to 'look down' on their single friends... the "cash & prizes" payout when/if she decides she's had enough, and of course, the courts and lawyers need their cut in the divorce proceedings.

there's a WANT for marriage... there is NO NEED for it. commitment is commitment. a piece of paper won't help you respect and work on it.

[–]throwawaybpdnpd4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy

They are all the same, some are just less broken or just more educated than others; marrying will always remain a big risk for men to take hence why a prenup

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

I've heard that even prenups can be bypassed by women when they decide to divorce. Is this true?

[–]throwawaybpdnpd3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

The only issue is when kids arises.

I recommend anybody I know to put clauses about future kids in their prenups, that way it can’t be bypassed (not in Canada, at least)

[–]bigdale0013 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Prenups are thrown out all the time.

[–]jackandjill22-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Prenup can be tossed out just depends on the circumstances.

[–]_the_shape_4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You know how much information there is out there regarding smoking and the detrimental effects it poses on the human body, and people still go through a pack or two a day, even with those warnings printed right on the fucking cigarette pack itself?

People are irrational, prone to impulsive behavior, caving to peer pressure, often unable to drown out their emotions for the sake of following dry, sobering, logical counsels. Plug that into your equation and it'll begin to make more sense.

[–]empatheticapathetic4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

They might have a good relationship and don’t realise what would change after marriage or why. I have a friend who is a natural chad and he’s getting married to his trad gf. He has no reason to understand the theory behind dread because he has it naturally.

[–]BlackFire683 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

and, if she is a widower, you'll find that her previous spouse was PERFECT in every way and that YOU are more imperfect than you ever knew.

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Had the same thing happen with a previous girl. She compared me in every way to her first boyfriend (I was her second). You really have to equal or better ANY AND ALL of her previous boyfriends/lovers/fuck buddies/one night stands. Hypergamy isn't just about what her current options are. It's about what her current options her, what her past experiences were like and what her expectations are - all rolled into one. No wonder 80% of guys are never getting laid.

[–]Auxfite1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is why damaged goods / high n count women never work out.

[–]SKRedPill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're fighting against a wall of previous emotional and physical karmic memory. All of which is powerfully imprinted in her subconscious. Women really have no such concept as saving their best for marriage. From an RP viewpoint that is impossible.

Women who had their first big amazing sexual imprint in marriages can bond much better because you're on a clean slate.

[–]RedSkeller1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ask people if they would parachute with the same statistics if their pack had a chute or not.

[–]TheRedKeepx1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

they are getting married due to being trapped by a pregnancy of course.

[–]wriley1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I’m happily married. I love hanging out with my wife and my kids. I have been on both sides of it and like having a partner in crime rather then going it alone.

[–]Mewster18181 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Someone else said it and I agree with them 100%

Marriage is not supposed to be about love, it's not supposed to be about happiness, it is fundamentally intended to be a structured unit which provides the best possible circumstances for having and raising children. This is probably why arranged marriages, and marriages between people who are devout in faith tend to last longer with fewer consequences. And the misconception that marriage is for any other purpose is ultimately why I think so many fail.

For the record I am married, my spouse and I do love each other, but we've always known that marriage is for raising children and requires personal sacrifices on our end. Raising children in a single-parent household is not an option for us, especially considering the poor statistical outcome for children raised without a father. Marriage is not a "next step", it's not something you do for a fancy party and a pretty dress, it's not something you do because it's socially acceptable, it's something that you do only for the rearing of children otherwise it holds no real value.

[–]dons901 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lol what kind of question is this? Of the billions of people in the world, why would you think men wouldn't marry women? It sounds like you've been flooding yourself with TRP to the point that you've forgotten that the real world exists.

[–]jackandjill22-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Children come without marriage my friend.

[–]bigdale0010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There are no unicorns. Marriage is financial security for women and it provides no benefits for Men. All women are the same, they will trade up if they have the chance.

[–]MemphisBro1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

As a 26 y.o. guy I could see myself marrying a girl that is way out of my league if I ever date one, I’m talking like a 10/10 blonde model or something. I wouldn’t let myself get run over by a gold digger bc I know the signs. Of course I would never marry someone below my standards, does this seem reasonable, and why would you argue against this?

[–]momomotorboat1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy


[–]bigdale0012 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

They think they will find unicorns that don't exist.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

This post, OP, screams inceldom. Other than that, men marry because they are delusional blue pills

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well I'm not getting sex currently, but that's because I'm not actually trying to get it or putting myself in the correct situations to get it. I'm more of a volcel (voluntary celibate).

[–]Auxfite1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

OP don’t delete this post

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Why don't want you want me to delete it? I wasn't going to delete it by the way.

[–]Auxfite0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good post always get deleted after a day or two on here been noticing.

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[–]AaronKClark0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She needed a green card, I needed her family's money to survive graduate school.

[–]SKRedPill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Intellect is often no match for hormones. Your body is more solid than your mind. Besides, people think that it won't happen to them until it does. Not only this, people despite all their BS, still need some measure of support and stability, especially children need stable families.

Human beings call themselves rational and conscious, when in reality they are mostly compulsive, utterly so.

[–]Wobblewobblegobble0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Because people want a family. Just because you dated a woman that turned bad doesn’t mean every man on this planet will ignore the woman they like and never have kids. There are women out there that are worth marrying just find them.

[–]ainihon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

In Japan things are different. 60% of men don’t want to marry.

Maybe this is a problem for countries that believe a lot in romance. Where divorce rape exists. Where women cry out for men, but get disgusted when men wanna be men. Like say murica!

[–]Bdsmthrowaway01010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sweet graph br0

[–]whoareyou310 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Im sorry but how exactly was this data obtained? Doesnt seem trust worthy at all. We all know most women and men never tell the truth in regards to partner count.

[–]3chazthundergut0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

People still let their stupid kids play near the gorilla exhibit in zoos

[–]FilthMonger850 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Because some us aren't immature Peter Pan syndrome autists and want to raise children in the best environment possible for them despite what it might mean for me.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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