I'm 19 years old. I used to think I was confident in myself, but I got a reality check recently. The truth is, I feel confidence only when I actually achieve something.
After discovering trp 2 years ago, I tried to boost my confidence by overcoming others. Learning social skills, reading books, getting jacked, avoiding any failures. But some days ago, I encountered someone who was better than me in every possible way, an utimate chad with a shitton of money, who was extremely charismatic.
We were at a party, and started dancing as soon as the music started. After some time, I noticed some girls who were not dancing (who probably felt uncomfortable since they didn't know anyone there), so I invited them on the dance floor and teased them. When they came I started dancing with them, the girl I wanted to fuck smiled at me but that was it. Afterwards there was not any eye contact or shit like that, she clearly wasn't that interested. After a couple of hours, that girl approaches the chad, they talk for like 10 seconds, and then they go to the bath together
My self-esteem is shattered. He didn't even know she was there, he ignored every girl at the party since he's interested in another girl. Everything I did didn't achieve anything, I got beaten by someone who haven't lifted a finger.
How should I feel? What the hell should I do? Should I get more confident in myself regardless of my failures, or should I realize that I'd never be like him?
TL:DR I try to game a girl, good vibes from her but that ends here. Then, she approaches Chad, they talk for 10 SECONDS, and fuck. My confidence is shattered, and I realized that my self-esteem depends on others.
I need to regain my confidence, either by being delusional and realizing that a chad would always be better than me, or by not caring about others' successes
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