Being naked around your man? Yey or Ney?

WhatIsThisAccountFor · 2020-08-03T16:34:03+00:00

It just depends on your man.

I think it would mostly be a problem if you aren’t “available” when you’re walking around like that.

I think what removes the excitement is when they think you’re available and you actually aren’t, not just the act of being naked.

sweetcharlottejay · 2020-08-03T17:01:32+00:00

Seems like that is overthinking it. My hubby is constantly in his boxers. I regularly wear just his shirt and a thong. Being naked is not something we find as unusual. He likes to grab a boob as I walk by. Its nice.

What mystery i want kept well under wraps is my toilet time. That is our limit.

GunBullety · 2020-08-03T14:35:14+00:00

I'm definitely pouncing and groping when my wife walks around naked. If your guy stops doing that then yeah I'd say maybe you're naked too much.

AdamP00l · 2020-08-03T15:21:25+00:00

I'm a man and sorry if I shouldn't join your convo, but that's exactly the subject of a talk with my recent gf.

She likes walking around naked and basically I told her that seeing her naked was exciting but what happens next is that you become numb to the excitation of her body, which definitely takes away the attraction in the long run.

Same as eating your favorite food. Once a week/month and it's delicious. Everyday and it becomes boring.

CalmWalk · 2020-08-03T18:44:13+00:00

I've lived with women that spent more time naked. It led to alot more sex. I liked watching her in different positions. The light would hit her body a certain way. Almost like how someone looks at art or a beautiful sculpture. Overall put a mood in the atmosphere that we both knew was there. It was fun.

I dated another woman same level of beauty like to be covered up as much as possible, was very open to having sex. Just always had to wear a bra. Never liked being seen nude besides sex.

Both where different experiences. Neither led to more or less sex.

I didn't get bored of seeing the first one.

I got annoyed by the second ones shyness but I knew it was irrational on my part. So never voiced it. If we are having sex upside down in every position known to man. Spend half our days in bed having sex. Seeing you walk to the bathroom nude is not going to effect how I view and feel about you.

I just say do you.

neuromancerBG · 2020-08-03T18:41:41+00:00

Seeing your wife naked never gets too old. We dont get aroused only when the wife is letting herself go. However seeing her naked makes us definately happy and more appreciative.

kittycuddles86 · 2020-08-03T19:27:40+00:00

I walk around naked in front of my man as much as possible! I love how he looks at me and touches me and it usually leads to sexy times anyway lol

harum-scarum · 2020-08-03T22:23:30+00:00

I feel like you should be naked as much as you feel comfortable with. I have a kid so I'm dressed during the day, but I sit topless on the couch with my husband after kid bedtime to cuddle and I know he enjoys watching me undress for bed.

katsnackshackysacks · 2020-08-03T16:33:18+00:00

I recently mentioned this in a post because I let my husband see me naked all the time and it's the same thing. I almost always get some kind of little attention or sweet gesture. I should mention, I don't consider myself a "traditional" woman, but I do enjoy a lot of things considered conventionally feminine and appreciate the advice in this sub.

I know that having him see me naked less will get me less gropes overall (lol) but my thinking is I'll enjoy the gropes so much MORE if they aren't so frequent. And I'm thinking he'll have a new appreciation for it too. I think there's something sweet about these small mundane interactions, too, so I think it has more to do with what you want to achieve.

rosesonthefloor · 2020-08-03T18:23:53+00:00

I think it really depends on the guy. When I was living with my ex (who was a great “captain” type and would have married me - I’m the one who broke it off) he preferred me to be as naked as possible, as often as possible.

He’s also a breast guy though and felt pretty strongly that I should never wear a bra, either, so again, it really depends!

shaniballickedher · 2020-08-03T20:15:56+00:00

I have always preferred being naked whenever possible. I'm not shy about my body and often shock people with my lack of modesty but I don't have enough cares to give any thought to whether someone should see me naked or not. It's natural and it's not always about sex. I got married to have a partner that I can love my life comfortably with no pretense or uncertainty. I'm not trying to turn him on by being naked. Sometimes he likes it and makes noises/comments or comes to touch me which is still just as much of a rush as it was when we first met. The rest of the time, unless I'm cooking bacon, who the hell am I putting clothes on for? I only get dressed for activities around the house. I am very large chested and I can't comfortably function without a bra so whenever possible I take off my torture device and just relax in my natural state. If your husband is not excited by your body anymore there's a good chance it's not because he's tired of looking at you. Marriage takes work... Work harder, try new things. Men are more complex than we give them credit for.

Also I can't help but reminded of the Seinfeld episode where his girlfriend was always nude and he was repulsed by watching her try to open a jar hahaha

2020-08-03T17:18:44+00:00

Nope. It's my house. It's his house. Neither of us is putting this much effort into "mystery." Should he also sit in the waiting room, passing out cigars, during the birth of our first child? To each their own, but we're both too practical for this. He is, however, quite welcome to a grope.

PreciousMuffn · 2020-08-03T22:23:31+00:00

I prefer being naked in my bedroom, but if we're home alone I definitely don't mind walking upstairs or going to another part of the house in the buff either. For me it's not so much about enticing as a personal preference.

One of my former long-term partners got me sleeping naked several years ago, and I found it also helped keep me warmer at night and I loved the closeness of feeling skin to skin. My husband has been doing it with me for nearly 3 years and that's a first for him. This is the most he's ever been naked in his life.

If it's a particularly special occasion, I'll entice by wearing lingerie. Otherwise we have an active sex life just day-to-day that's not impacted either way by clothing or nakedness.

missylizzy · 2020-08-04T01:02:23+00:00

I'm not naked all of the time, but I pick and choose times to be cute and seductive. Like changing in front of him. I think all of the time ruins the mystery.

warriorcode · 2020-08-04T00:40:58+00:00

Love seeing my woman naked. Every single time I find it sexy. Yey!

ragnarockette · 2020-08-04T01:23:23+00:00

This is why I still subscribe here!

Something I would never think about, but that actually sounds like a really good idea! I have a beautiful robe - I’m going to start using it more often in our en-suite!

alien_eater289 · 2020-08-03T19:32:47+00:00

I’m the type who walks around the house naked in front of my man a lot. I can confirm that he got tired of it and actually asked me to wear clothes more often; to keep the mystery alive lol. Seems like a lot of people in this thread feel the same way. So as with everything, moderation is key :)

AquaSerenityPhoenix · 2020-08-04T00:31:06+00:00

I don't have the time or energy to give that much of a crap if my husband sees me naked frequently. He was at the butt end of me when i gave birth- both times. We are past that point lol.

Buttholespritzer · 2020-08-04T01:20:17+00:00

Wtf hahahha

PeanutbutterDruidess · 2020-08-03T22:26:23+00:00

There’s gotta be a good mix. My man is a thighs guy, if I wear a pair of thigh high socks and one of his shirts he gets very touchy and excited, especially if I don’t wear panties. He loves my naked body and will remind me of how much and gropes me when I walk around. But I get more reaction with the thigh highs, even just the socks makes him very happy. He also spends his none working hours in his boxers so nakedness isn’t unusual here. Pants are the enemy lol

It’s one of those you gotta find the thing that works and gets you the reaction you want.

Title	Being naked around your man? Yey or Ney?
Author	fairydust91
Upvotes	73
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Date	August 3, 2020 2:19 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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