It's been a while since I've posted here, but I had a wonderful example in my real life that I thought I could share with the board to provide some insight on the nature of women's desire.
We all know about hypergamy, and the recent trend towards polyamory is this on steroids. Basically coming out as poly gives women the right to date and sleep with multiple people, even going so far as to have "primary" and "secondary" men living under the same roof taking care of one family.
I have an acquaintance who has been very publicly polyamorous for a few years. As usual, she cycles through men anyway, but always had at least two or three she was involved with. What used to make me laugh was the days on her social media where she would post how happy and in love she was with one guy, and then literally the next day be showing herself naked in bed or kissing the other. Like a true liberated woman, right?
So recently she latched onto a new guy who is pretty decent. Professional MMA fighter, good looking dude and runs two businesses, I know him from association with others in my city and we've hung out at the same events. He can basically get any woman he wants due to his SMV.
They've been posting the usual sappy social media stuff about each other and how much in love she is. Then yesterday she comes out with a statement about how she's relinquishing her polyamorous lifestyle and she's satisfied with her new man from now on.
I've corresponded with her in the past and simply wanted to confirm what I already knew - that this guy was obviously alpha enough to tell her that he wasn't going to put up with her banging other dudes. I was actually surprised he would even touch her after her history, but she's pretty hot and a "sexual therapist" so she's probably dynamite in bed.
Her exact words when I asked what tipped the scales for her to stop her lifestyle with other guys: "Just look at him. He's a god. And he told me flat out to make a choice so I chose him because he's the hottest guy I've ever been with."
What's the lesson here? If you're attractive enough you can get women to do basically anything you want, including going against their own internal policies of what they want to do. And, if you have complete outcome independence, if the person decides to shoot you down, that's okay - but they won't, because you're the best thing they can get and they know it.
Women will use whatever dialogue they need to in order to justify what they put out to the world, even if it is completely hypocritical. And if they change their minds, well, they are a liberated woman, right?
TL;DR: Polyamory only lasts for women if you're not attractive enough.
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Everyone here imagines nonmonogamy from the inferior position
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Until the newest hottest guy shows up and gives her the tingles.
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So this alpha god threw out an ultimatum and entered into an exclusive LTR with this woman?
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That's how a man should approach this shit. Poly relationships should just be seen as plate groups rather than an actual relationship, the only acceptable poly relationship is MFF
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This post is ass backwards and is another example of the poor trend of understanding of red pill behavior. If the guy was as alpha as described- he’d be more then wise enough to never latch on to such a broad by pure analysis of the situation. At this point, the redundancy of these interpretations by the new wave of guys that think they know what the fuck the “red pill” is is all the more reason why the “dark triad” method is the only way to truly distinguish who the fuck get it’s. Pathetic example and god guy is a pussy regardless of SMV
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He's a professional fighter, runs two businesses, and is dating a smoking hot sex therapist...
... while your most frequent Reddit activity appears to be discussing internal drama on a subreddit dedicated to a women's sex advice podcast
I dunno man, doesn't seem like you should be throwing stones about how nobody gets it but you
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