Plate has boyfriend - how to handle?

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January 6, 2019
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A plate of mine recently texted me something along the lines of, 'I have a boyfriend, and we can't see each other anymore.' I'm quite chill about it so I reply, 'okay' and she replies with something along the lines of 'I'm so sorry bla bla bla'. Again, I say it's no problem. Abundance mentality.

A week goes by, and I get a text late at night from her saying she's sorry for acting like that, but no mention of meeting up again. In her text it was quite obvious she's still playing the 'We can't see each other anymore' card, but thanking me for all the fun times we had, and tells me I'm a 'great guy'. My reply: 'no worries see you round'. She then replies angry/upset (could be either) that I'd respond like that to her 'heartfelt' message. Haven't replied.

I'd like to continue seeing this plate as she's a good shag. And her new 'boyfriend' seems to be a LDR, and I doubt it will last. I even suspected that the boyfriend was made up as some sort of shit test, to get me to beg to keep seeing her. Maybe, maybe not.

Am I handling this correctly? Is it worth even replying to her being sad at my (quite reasonable) IDGAF reply? If so, what's the best thing to say? It's hard for me to discern whether she's genuinely angry and at risk of breaking this plate on bad terms, or if it's just another shit test to get a rise out of me.

Edit: as this problem is bugging me I decided to do some remedial side-bar reading. The answer hit me in the face when I saw it, and I'm kicking myself for not thinking this from the get go.

So let's turn this question into a lesson. The correct answer to this question is 'it doesn't matter.' It doesn't. There's literally nothing in this situation to even think about. She's a broken plate, and when a plate breaks you throw it in the bin. You don't try and glue it back together, you throw it in the bin and get a new plate to spin on your stick (he he he).

Thank you everyone who said my responses were good and that I held frame, but I think there's more to it. On the surface, yes, I held frame, but deep down I broke it big time. My frame here is IDGAF, but clearly I do, otherwise I wouldn't have made this post. It was a good coverup because the girl thinks I don't care, and for a while I thought so too. But being honest with myself I know my replies weren't driven by my solid frame, they were an attempt to fix the plate - thinking by keeping frame, she'll come round. I failed, call it oneitis maybe (although I'm not infatuated, just annoyed/disappointed), but deep down I was operating in her frame - I was being REactive and not PROactive. I should have a reason not to give a fuck, I should have been busy not worrying about plates. This whole situation has identified a flaw in my RP thinking - I'm trying to do it for the girls, and not me.

This is totally negative and I'm glad it didn't go further. As far as I'm concerned, the plate's broken. And after identifying this issue, I can safely say that NOW I literally don't give a fuck. Plate's gone, big whoop. Now to go lift some metal. Cheers TRP.

Edit 2: since realising the above, I messaged her saying that it was fun, yet I’m happy for her. Again, she said sorry and thanked me again (3rd time) for everything and that she hopes to see me around. I said I’m sure we’ll bump into each other and for her to drop me a line if she’s around.

I think this was a good outcome. Coupled with the fact that I shouldn’t care whether the plate breaks or not, I left it on good terms with an opening for her to contact me in the future. So either I never hear from her again (okay because it’s just a plate, I can get more) or she pops up in the future (also okay as she’s a good fuck). Whatever happens, the important point was remaining impartial.

A non-red-pilled guy would have either begged to keep seeing her, or got stroppy and left it on bad terms with no possibility for the future. By letting the plate drop on good terms, I avoided both of these.

Some people would say that my last messages were beta - validating her feelings, being too impartial, being too ‘available’. I would disagree; I think it’s important to maintain some ‘nice guy’ traits, like being friendly, for situations like this. There’s no telling what the girl’s intentions are, whether it was all made up or she really has a LTR - that’s why it’s best to just be nice, yet remain totally impartial to the outcome.

I hope this post can help people with the same problem in the future.


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Title Plate has boyfriend - how to handle?
Author witchcoin
Upvotes 109
Comments 78
Date 06 January 2019 03:40 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]linkofinsanity1989 points90 points  (19 children) | Copy

You're responses have been fine. It's your line of thinking that you put here that tells me you likely think of her as more than just a plate. If she's a plate, it's expected that she break at some point. Stop talking to her if she's not trying to see you, or else you'll be placed in the orbiter category. If you're right about the BF, then she'll either come back to you, or she won't. Don't go chasing after her. Pursue other women.

[–]ImNotSue3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Surprised I didnt see more of this. She wouldnt have made such an issue over his lack of reaction if she didnt want him as an orbiter. Having a guy hang around for her benefit despite being denied sex benefits and validates her, its her sexual strategy. Soft next is fine. If she comes back to give him sex because she chooses to, then she can.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (14 children) | Copy

It's certainly a shame because, like I said, she's a good plate and when she's not playing games, a fun girl to hang with too. Might be related, but in the run-up to this there were very few shit/comfort tests. Just easy, good sex. I was enjoying it.

[–]linkofinsanity1944 points45 points  (8 children) | Copy

Perhaps your turn is over. If she comes back, cool. If not, oh well. You'll eventually find a girl even better than her, but that will only happen so long as you are aquiring new plates.

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (2 children) | Copy

Very sound advice. Cheers.

[–]Bedtimeshine0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Your good news is that... her bf will be swallowing the pill before the end of the year.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's a similar situation to how I first found it. When I was a massive dweeb my LTR broke it off to go ride the carousel, sent me into a desperate self-improvement journey that led me here.

[–]red_matrix10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

You keep saying she’s “a good plate”, if she’s really as cute and fun as you say ofcourse she’s going to eventually get a boyfriend. Girls like that don’t stay single for long. Did you want her to be your gf? Plates aren’t gf’s. They come and go.

[–]RedHoodhandles1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's certainly a shame because ONEITIS

fyp

[–]Thisismybot81 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

These guys don't live in the real world OP. I'm in the top 10-20% looks wise and I know finding a solid, reliable plate isn't exactly a walk in the park. It's kind of fuckin time consuming. I wouldn't drop her completely for no reason.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

You're right it's quite a chore. Most of my plates are always lacking somewhere - not great sex, not hot enough, clingy, there's always something. This was the 1st plate I had that was actually just... cool. Don't get me wrong she's not a supermodel, but the sex was ace and she was genuinely quite cool. Most plates are either constantly shit testing me or just plain boring, whereas this plate was almost like a female 'bro' who I fucked regularly. Was a great set up.

After coming to my realisation (check the edit), I dropped her a line saying that I had fun, but happy for her, and to drop me a line when she's around. I was getting vibes from her that she didn't really want to stop seeing me, but was doing it because that's what a girl in a LTR should be saying. I reckon she'll come around; until then, I'll just find some more basics to plate.

[–]Thisismybot81 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nice job for now. I had a situation where a ONS didn't have a "romantic connection" whatever tf that means. It's been several days and I just haven't replied for now. I'll text her in a week or two and let her know I'm at bar xyz if she wants to come through.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Check the edit :)

[–]linkofinsanity190 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good call man.

[–]NeuroBoss310 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good call my man

[–]NeuroBoss3179 points80 points  (1 child) | Copy

Tough one to get around without breaking the frame as she's pulling out the big one with a boyfriend card. I wouldn't respond after her upset rebuttal, and wait for her to call you. Invite her over casually when she calls.

[–]SAKEHUNTER19911 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yup, I think her getting upset was the time to stop responding

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev38 points39 points  (1 child) | Copy

I even suspected that the boyfriend was made up as some sort of shit test, to get me to beg to keep seeing her.

Maybe yes, maybe no. It kind a has a feel like she’s trying to promote herself to girlfriend by forcing your hand. Maybe the other guy doesn’t exist, maybe he’s an LDR. I think she’s mad because she’s not getting what she wants.

[–]1PotatoWatt6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

^ This, this, this.

She probably woke up some day and was like "meh, im bored" and created that shit ass story, girls be girls

[–]Nushuktan-Tulyiagby13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your main focus is yourself. If she's not going to fuck you, it'd be someone else. Just keep her on the side and let her come to you. Don't give in and be her emotional tampon, she wants a reaction to confirm that her manipulation tactics are working.

[–]somebullshitrp24 points25 points  (2 children) | Copy

I have a plate that has gone through several (at least 3) serious relationships, all while continuing to fuck me whenever she gets super horny.

Just ignore the comments about the boyfriend like you did, and let her hit you up... When she does, she might not outright say she wants to fuck, but if she contracts you, that's obviously what she's thinking. Set up a time to meet, and escalate as you normally would with her.

[–]MisterDSTP7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Word that late night text she sent was definitely asking for dick. It was inspired by guilt and motivated by sex.

[–]alittletoosmooth2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This 100%. Let her do her BF thing. When he fucks up (he will, either in reality or just in her mind), she will reach out. The most important thing is to play it cool like you don't care that she "left" you. In reality, you shouldn't care anyways. When my plates get a BF I'm happy for them. It's what they want ultimately and then we can separate on good terms. Better than things ending with a ultimatum.

[–]Bleu_Cheese_Pursuits9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think you've done everything right. She is upset because your actions indicate that you did not value her as highly as she thought you did. That bruised her ego. However, your higher relative SMV remained intact. So in other words, failing to treat the matter as you did would more likely have broken the plate IMO.

[–]whitecauliflower13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your responses are good, however I would have added a “HMU if you get bored” casually. This shows that you’re still down to fuck regardless of the boyfriend and that you won’t judge her. Also it gives her an excuse to meet up with you rather than her having to conjure up the meetup that you want to happen out of thin air. Though it does depend on how long you’ve been fucking and how invested she is.

[–]IronMonk482 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your responses were fine. Let her initiate all contact and casually throw out a "hmu if you wanna meet up again". Other than that, game other women. She'll likely come back around even if the bf is legit.

Source: had a plate stop seeing me due to getting a bf. I wished them the best and soft nexted. She was back within a month. Lol

[–]Startlivingfornow1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy

Everyone in this thread has been invested in her ‘coming back’ as if that validates TRP teachings. The red pill truth is that she is either 1) trying to force your hand or 2) gone.

Neither of these things is better than the other, because in the first instance she is trying to force your hand through lies and will continue to do so when you re-plate her. What starts as ‘I have a boyfriend’ can become ‘I’ll tell everyone you raped me’.

But she’d never do that to me! Emotion and desperation do funny things to men and especially to women.

In the second instance, she is gone, but this is irrelevant as you should have nexted the moment she started playing games.

The fact that you are hoping she comes back is - I’m guessing - a sign you may have caught slight feels for this plate. It’s very hard not to do so, but when you do it sends mixed messages.

Keep plating girls but at the same time this might be the cue for reflection on how you are managing these women.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy

You're totally right. I edited the post but I'll say it here too, as you brought it all to my attention. I think a bit of oneitis got in the way of my judgement here, and I definitely broke frame (although covered it up well).

This whole thing has made me rethink the way I was using TRP in my life. It's time to make some changes.

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy

OP - I mean this with zero sarcasm. Great fucking job. I'm so used to spoon feeding answers it's genuinely refreshing to see you go find the answer on your own.

More importantly, you'll internalize the truth going forward. Keep posting and lurking here.

♂️ /u/slygradient /u/halitenina I think he deserves one for this

[–]modHalitenina[M] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Awarded.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Thanks very much dude. You're right, it's so easy to 'talk' about redpill. The hard part I think is to actually rewire your brain to think like it. automatically. Like when I got the text from her saying she's got a boyfriend, my true self wanted to get mad, emotional, etc... I had to stop and 'redpill myself' before replying. It's work to make yourself be naturally redpilled, and this situation made me realise that that's what needs to happen.

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What you think your true self is, is temporary. You're reinventing yourself as we speak.

This can easily be the greatest teaching moment of your life. You are already working to get yourself there. The truth is it's not some dramatic difference between achieving and not achieving. The difference is what you're doing right now.

My advice is simple, continue to do the mundane. Before you know it, you'll be rolling in it.

[–]Startlivingfornow1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Glad to have helped with the epiphany. You said it best in your OP: it doesn’t matter. That’s a huge realisation to come to, especially when emotions are involved.

Good shit

[–]ThinSpiritual5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have a plate like this, and she's still my plate to this day.

Difference was that she was very into me but I didn't want to commit so she eventually found a bf. When she told me she had a bf I just said "It's ok you'll always have a special corner in my heart" to validate her (she didn't manage to conquer me but wanted to). We didn't talk during the initial phase of her relationship but months later I told her happy bday on her bday, then she replied and told me how much she missed me (what a slut haha), to which I said "Oh well, I bet you just miss the sex. Lmk one day if you break up with him."

Fast forward to a few months later, we both went to Miami for a music festival, she went with her bf but sneaked out from their hotel to fuck me. Good times.

Don't get dragged into her frame, just don't talk for now.

[–]griz3lda5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like she wants to break it off bc she has a bf, but you're acting like y'all didn't even have a good time together. Be nice to her, just say you had a great time with her but understand and wish them the best. Two-word msgs seem passive-aggressive and not abundancy imo.

[–]Velebit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If she is lieing about him then she is a liar and irrelevant. If she is honest, then she found a boyfriend despite having you around, maybe that is why she is apologizing so much. She feels sorry for you.

Be pleasant. Say something like, 'if you are happy, I am really glad for you' and move on. It does not communicate bitterness and if she decides to come back for dick she will know you are neither angry/sulking about it nor autistically detached and apathetical. Women often when they are angry say 'It is fine'. So you will have to throw her a little bone but without sounding too attached or totally indifferent.

You can hit her up with a text a couple of months later with a link to some news article related to something you talked about and you will probably have a little small talk and if she is single you can hang out.

[–]friendandadvisor1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Tell her to drop by your place so you can discuss it. Bring wine.

[–]EntropyForeverx1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She is plate

[–]Leaves4Good1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If the girls doesn't want to see you, and I mean see you in real life, be it for sex or anything else, then what else is really left?

[–]1walawalawa1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the norm. Plates are plates. The only response to this should be: "Don't fall in love with me..."

I've said this to plates. They laugh and it re-enforces what this is about.

[–]PernidaParknjas6 points7 points  (4 children) | Copy

No idea what a plate is but drop her. Someone trying to play games isn’t worth it. If she’s saying you two can’t interact much then gets mad when you’re okay with it, then she’s playing around.

[–]Bleu_Cheese_Pursuits8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

You should at least read the TRP glossary. It is in the side bar.

If you're trying to LTR someone then games can make it not worth it if they are excessive but for plates, games (of which shit tests are a variety) are to be expected.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

In TRP, a 'plate' is one of many girls you see for sex. The idea is that a plate isn't exclusive, and you have more than 1 of them. Term comes from 'spinning plates'

[–]PernidaParknjas5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

I figured. My advice still stands, been in your position before.

[–]3chazthundergut3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

You handled it perfectly.

She wanted to bitch you up and turn you into her butt buddy. You held frame.

I would wait a couple weeks and then text her inviting her over to your place. Or not contact her at all.

But what I would not do is engage in her emotional bullshit or give her any of my nonsexual attention

[–]omega_dawg93-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

contacting her in any way is breaking frame. your advice conflicts or is confusing at a min.

validation = "stop" sign for her hamster. you want that hamster to work when a woman does this shit.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Again, I say it's no problem. Abundance mentality.

contradicts

I'd like to continue seeing this plate as she's a good shag

OP who are you trying to fool with your oneitis? If you really had abundance mentality you would have dropped her ages ago. No you are stuck with thoughts of how great she is.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

You're right. Kicking myself for not seeing this before. Read the edit :)

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly she is broken plate. Move on and get others.

[–]macheagle0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I read your original post + your comments, OP. I think you’ve got this perfectly so far and you’ve been holding just the right amount of frame. If she continues to bombard without showing IOI or signs of wanting to shag again, make your replies more and more curt to continue to hold frame while creating a bit of tension between you too. We already know that she has an issue with your seemingly not caring at all about her and the ordeal, so being increasingly succinct and curt in your responses will amplify her insecurities and cause her to eventually show her hand. Her hamster will do most of the work for you.

[–]i8a4re730 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You are doing well, just keep being patient. She’ll come back round when she hungers you

[–]bradyo20 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Played it perfectly. She’s likely getting mad cause she can’t pull you into her frame. Put her on the back burner for now. If she’s making the whole BF thing up, she’ll come back to you. If he’s real and is an LDR....she’ll most likely come back to you as well provided your relationship between each other was as described in your post.

If she doesn’t after a month or so, maybe send over a restart text and try and speed things up, just don’t chase too hard

[–]omega_dawg93-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

uh no.

no contact means NO CONTACT... AT ALL. NONE.

contact = validation to her.

let her bf validate her... that's his job.

[–]bradyo2-3 points-2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Don’t condescend me, because you evidently don’t know what a restart text is or what it’s used for.

As great as “no contact at all” sounds in theory, in real-life application this just means that you get ignored or forgotten about unless you’re an a-list celebrity or way above her league.

These women have a million beta orbiters they can move onto if they’re not getting any attention from you, so sending a restart text (a la roissy) will get the hamster running. A good restart text (I like to send a message to the “wrong” person) will not do any supplication or validation at all and will actually have the opposite effect (“oh I guess he didn’t mean to text me after all, who’s this girl he “meant” to send the text to??!)

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

fuck a restart text.

you do whatever the fuck you want, but when i'm done, i'm done. i don't call or text and only reply if she contacts me first. and even then, i wait 3 to 4 hours before replying.

"no contact at all," is the way i operate. you can do whatever da fuck you want to, along with roissy.

but validation is validation. and giving her your non-sexual attention after she's tried to manipulate you (for whatever reason) means, you're falling into her frame.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

OP, you played this scenario perfectly. she may come back, and she may not. she was just a plate, so fuck wasting time on her anymore and put other/new plates in rotation.

you DO have other plates spinning, right?

what you've experienced is 'the question,' that all men eventually face: "what does all this fucking mean... where is this going?"

she EXPECTED you to act hurt that she pulled her ace card (pussy) away from you, but since you did the right thing (displayed your idgaf, 'thanks for the fun, see ya around' card), her hamster went into overdrive.

i'd bet $1 to your penny that the boyfriend doesn't exist. she might have a new orbiter, but ask her: "if you've got a new bf, why do i matter... why are you still in touch with me?" that's the 'dismissal' card that will piss off her hamster, and the next reply from her will tell story.

no reply: the bf exists or she's trying to reign-in the hamster.

reply: she's full of shit and was trying to force your hand, ie, force a relationship out of you. invite her over to 'talk,' and pull your unit out asa she opens her mouth.

BUT BE PATIENT AND DO NOT CONTACT HER.

source: just went thru the same shit with my MILF plate. she said, "we need to discuss a serious relationship that leads to marriage, or else" move. i simply said, "i'll take the 'or else'," and looked her dead btw the eyes. no contact from me to her, but she called 2x since. there will be no reply from me... i want her hamster to DIE spinning on that wheel bc MEN are the gatekeepers of commitment and a respectful woman should NEVER try to strong-arm you into a relationship. if she doesn't like her place in YOUR life where YOU value her, she's ALWAYS free to go... the door is right over there ------>.

[–]FUCK_YEA_GLITTER0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Who cares, shes a plate. Only thing to be worried about its STDs and Pregnancy

[–]geo_gan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds to me like she is thinking about branch swinging from boyfriend to you but couldn’t make the decision herself without some sort of confirmation from you.

[–]Bedtimeshine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I personally would have said “lol shut up and tell me where you are so I can come get you in my bed.”

[–]amwfhunter0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ghost time

[–]Zanford0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Don't let her use you as an SMS therapist if her texts get longwinded. Replied like your 'okay' are good, if she keeps texting, try to set up another meet, if she professes excuses yet again, just reply 'k' or 'right' or somesuch.

[–]_Legendairy_ 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Either don’t respond or hold frame in saying that you’re a mans man and wouldn’t date other guys girlfriends

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's difficult because her being upset wasn't because i won't see her - she already said that's what she wants, as she has a boyfriend now. I think she's upset because I don't seem to care. But you're right, I think the best thing to do is not respond, because A) I don't care and B) to admit I do/apologise would break frame.

[–]omega_dawg93-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

WTF is this? "...a man's man and wouldn't date other guy's girlfriends?" uh, what?

so, if you catch your girl giving head to some dude, you're mad at the dude? lol. smmfh.

with that statement, you're asking/expecting a woman to not only consider the concept of honor, but to actually understand and admire it.

WOMEN DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT LOYALTY AND HONOR. they are 'loyal' to the MEN that dominate them.

it's her pussy and she's free to use it for her reasons/purposes. GTFOOH with that, "i wouldn't have you if you offered me pussy & bj's... bc i care about you being in a relationship" bullshit.

girls lie, manipulate, deceive and CHEAT. let them sluts be sluts... we need more sluts out here in these streets.

[–]PM_Me_Fuhrer_Memes-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Stop being thirsty/desperate and go find a chick to fuck that doesn’t have a boyfriend. You really like being a vulture getting that sloppy seconds?

If you were trying to fuck my GF you might have to be careful not to get your ass beat before I drop her ass for being scum, and you can expect that I’m not the only one - what I’m saying is that it’s just not worth the drama and potential risk that comes with trying to put your nose inside the stinky anus of another man’s thot. Besides, she’s a hoe anyway

[–]Designs_MK-2 points-1 points  (4 children) | Copy

Bro. Trust me. No good can come from going after a girl that’s in a relationship already. No good at all. Use that abundance mentality and find someone else.

[–]omega_dawg93-2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy

if you wait for ANY girl to not be in some sort of relationship with guys, you'll wait exactly one, whole lifetime.

women ALWAYS have a few guys around... for various reasons. some are completely innocent (possibly), and some are secret lovers, orbiters, admirers, online admirers, potential fucks (Chad), fwb's, and on & on & on.

but women are NEVER without some male attention in their lives. male validation, esp. non-sexual attention, is pure gold in a woman's world.

my rule: pull your cock out. let her decide what to do with all those dudes (even her lovey, dovey bf) AFTER she's serviced my unit. it's not my job to respect her relationships, it's hers.

[–]Designs_MK-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is a shit comment. I did the same. And guess what. I got cheated on as well. Ironically. I found out before I posted this.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

says the guy who got cheated on and had no clue. smh.

go read alabaster girl and get the full explanation.

[–]Designs_MK0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t need to read shit. Some woman are just shit.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K18-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

'It's totally cool. You haven't upset me. Have fun'.

She's assuming you'll be hurt, cuz she's wonderful. Or wants you to fight, or something. Who knows. Sounds a bit weird. If she had moved on, she wouldn't care so much.



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