I speak from personal experience here. Too many women grow out their hair, buy a new outfit, do their nails, and go on a diet....because they want someone to give a fuck.
I struggle with this concept every. single. day.
Tire's flat?....nobody's coming.
New hair?...nobody gives a fuck.
I'm not throwing any lady under the bus, without throwing myself under there too.
But stop setting a trap, stop waiting to be rescued, stop doing things to impress nobody and do the things you need to do to keep you from needing somebody to do the rescuing.
Once you get these two phrases lodged deep into your brain you'll be ready for anything.
I struggle with it too, so I repeat to myself all the time
"Nobody is coming, and nobody gives a fuck".
Also, for those of us who are single on purpose, you no longer have to love, honor and obey.
You just have to like, respect and tell the truth.
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