So my ex gf hit me with the she wants a break from the relationship to miss me and rediscover her feelings for me after a period of fighting in our relationship (bullshit but I allowed her hamster away).
I replied with that is fine. I told her I am not a 'take a break' kinda guy and she should just drop the whole relationship.
She then got defensive and asked what I meant by 'drop the relationship'. I ignored her question and told her to go out be free and have fun.
She then said what do I mean by have fun (we all know she is about to swing branches).
I ignored this second question and told her that it is fine,I am not holding her back.
I then kept quiet and the silence hung in the air.
Her voice was shaking at this point.she then says 'okay then,am I agreeing to the break?'.
I replied with she should not worry about that and just go have fun (she got ticked off again with the have fun part).
She agreed me for time frame of the break. I replied with just go and have fun,be free and explore(still very calm at this point,I had shifted focus to the book I was reading).
There was silence again for a few minutes with her noticeably shaking voice,she said good night and I didn't reply.
She actually didn't cut the call,she was waiting for me to talk but I didn't say a word(I actually thought she did)
I called her name after I realized 5mins later she was still on the call. She answered saying she was waiting for me to say goodnight.
I said the goodnight and cut the call.
I made a quick call to a new plate and set up a fuck fest for this night.
Abundance mentality is key in every aspect of our lives.
Imagine if I was begging and trying to win her back.