I overheard an interesting conversation the other day between a few women and one of them was saying that she'd honestly hook up with a lot more men and have short term sex/short term relationships, if they didn't get so clingy and needy. She said she pretty much has to go for only players/womanizers if she wants short term sex or short term relationships, because she knows those are the only men who won't get attached so easily - even though she would like to do it with more men, but she can't because so many men get clingy and develop neediness/oneitis.
The whole group of them had similar experiences and they all agreed that it's actually men who are the ones who get clingy and needy the most after just 1 date or 1 bit of sex. But popular culture portrays women to be the ones like that, which is quite far from the truth.
So my question is 2 parts: a) do you think a lot of guys get very clingy/needy/attached/possessive after going on a date or having sex with you?
b) if the answer is yes, would you hook up with more men if they weren't like this?
Please share any personal experiences you have!
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