Hey fellas, I have a few questions. First of all, I live in a small area 22k population, some random dude calls in my number asking if I'm still together with a girl he said he saw me with 3 years ago, well I'd been in a relationship with the particular girl for a year or so, until we broke up because she found out I spinned plates and tried to get revenge full on. I dodged several bullets avoiding her back then and it made me kind of uncomfortable hearing about her again.

The thing is, the conversation I had with this guy, he asks this and I'm like what girl at first, he said details and states that he had to ask me first not to cause any problems. So, I'm replying saying I don't know who he's talking about(It's Maria, a girl that caused me trouble and I'm happy I'm done with her but don't want to talk about it other people) and that it's fine if he wants to go for a girl, as long as she's not my girl and he agreed.

Did I handle this correct? I don't want to give off the impression that he can walk up to me and ask such things, at first I felt like he was aggressive but then when he was clear he asks me so as to know and not proceed if I'm still fucking her, I don't want to look like a people pleaser or something but that's the only reason I didn't tell him to fuck off and respect some more. Besides, I'm single and idgaf about past girls.

What matters to me is how I look, oh and what's up with the dude calling asking this shit?