Thread on r/deadbedrooms

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Thanks to the state backed systems that govern marriage, family, divorce, crime, fraud etc, this man was left with shit choices and shit choices only.

  • Divorce her and be alienated from his children while being labeled as the bad guy.

  • Stay and pay until they're grown up.

  • Commit unspeakable crimes.

None of these choices are even remotely good. She OTOH, chose to cut him off of sex for 12 years!!! And nothing will happen to her. There was nothing he could do about it. He had no recourse at all. None.

Even now, when he's finally going to divorce her lazy, entitled ass, he has to tiptoe around because she's legally allowed to go on a spending spree and he'll be forced to pay for it.

To all those who say: he should have just picked the right one, bro. First of all, fuck you. Second, he did pick "the right one!" Until she was done having children, she was very sexual, kind and caring towards him. Afterwards though, she couldn't care less. She got what she wanted and she's legally entitled to all the entitlements from him regardless of whether she makes his life blissful or miserable.

The system is unfair. More and more men are waking up to these realities. More and more men are walking away as a result.

Wanna know where the good men are? You chased them away with your state backed demands and ice queen ways.

What do men want from marriage? Exclusive sexual access, sexual desire, kindness and caring and a little responsibility. Is that too much to ask? Apparently so.

That's why the good men aren't interested.

Cheers!