My understanding is that you should be attractive and let them chase you, and if you appreciate the attention you get/are interested, you reciprocate?

I’ve been reading the pdf version of the sidebar and haven’t found a part on attention yet. If it is in there let me know I’ll check it out.

I guess my question is how do you pursue women when they are attracted to being ignored and how do you know when to give attention to them vs. ignoring them? Additionally, what attention is unnecessary (validating them for existing)?