📷r/relationship_advice•Posted byu/sadsuccess2212 hours ago

I can see why some people don't get marry twice

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I'm in my early 30s and one night say I'm doing well in life. Married, got a good job, house, yadah blah blah. I think many look at my life and would be envious. But the reality is I'm sad and depressed most day. I work at a job I hate, yes I make really good money, my wife has anxiety issues that cause fights and argument more often than not. Did what supposed to in life to be successful, treat my spouse right, listen to her, help her cope with her anxiety. I had a timeline of how I want my life to somewhat be, it was going exactly as plan or even better. Until I got married. Then I have to delay my goals, because she want to advance her career, then get stress about the career. Delay on advancing my career because she didn't want me to work at a certain job. We both want kids, but she wasn't ready, everything is just keep getting pushed back. Sex life was ok during dating, not good like when I was single but at least it's something. Now maybe once a month. Most of the time cause she's tired or she needs to catch up on work. She is a good person by today standards but if I have done it again I don't know if I would have. Most of y'all would say I'm a selfish person but I worked 50-60 hrs week to ensure she graduated grad school with no debt. We have a huge house with all the amenities. I can't talk to anyone about this and so I just write it on here, thanks for reading. Hopefully I can give someone insights on what relationship can be and it's not always fun, even if it's you're young and financially secured.

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