So like I said i moved into my new apartment. met a cute neighbor and chatted her up. I never asked girls for their number or snaps really before. So pretty much this was my first semi cold approach, i just felt I had to get it out of the way at some point so i just did it. Went decently well and i got her snapchat and she actually seemed kinda into me. Then here is where the problem happened. After i got her number i got indecisive about where i wanted to take this. I was thinking oh maybe its not a good idea shes a neighbor and what if it goes badly and it becomes awkward. Or I look like a creep (which is not true but BP wiring can make you think any move on a girl is creepy). So I didnt really know what to do. I guess i was waiting for the best oppurtunity where itd be smooth and easy without a risk of rejection. Or i was waiting just waiting for some shit to manifest and happen. I guess I pretty much pussied out because i didnt know the appropiate action. I wanted to set up plans to go over to her apartment (i could've just said some shit like i want to see your new puppy again). I believed i could maybe set something up like that but thats a whole new zone for me so i didnt know the boundaries and i didnt want to become a creepy neighbor. Essentially i was afraid.
Had her added for about like 4 days or something and the only thing i did was swipe up on one of her stories about "who wants a Christmas card?" and I said id love one or something to try n get a convo started. she just said "lolz" I realize now i just pretty much took that as a rejection so i didnt reply, just cause when most of the times ive ever gotten responses like that theyre just not interested. But I didnt think about how it is different. cause most of the girls i talk to i met online so they didnt actually get to see me actually ask for their number which is way harder than just dming online. But yeah then i kinda just left it on read cause i didnt wanna fuk it up or make it awkward as neighbors. and i didnt want to look needy. Then today after about like 4 days of being friends i think. It said she screenshotted my friend profile on snapchat then i asked her why and it said pending so she unadded me or blocked me. Im just confused why? I assume the most likely scenario is that she unadded me because i didnt take any action at all. If not that then she just probably wasnt very interested right? what should i take from this? I think this just means that i gotta be decisive with how i want the relationship to be and stick to it and take action to make that happen.
TLDR Cold approached neighbor and got her snapchat. seemed interested. I was happy and excited because I've always been afraid of asking for a number or snapchat. But afterwards i kinda pussied out and I didn't really take any action or make plans due to fear of shit being awkward as neighbors/ didnt want to seem creepy. So i essentially didnt take any action towards her at all. I replied to her story once but she just said "lolz" so i took that as uninterest. I didnt actually try to make anything happen when I couldve. We were friends on there for like 4 days then she screenshotted my snap profile then either unadded me or blocked me. I was thrown off at first but now it makes sense to me i think. She probably unadded me because i didnt take any action right? or was she just uninterested? i really think it was the first one.
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