To make matters worse, she is my step cousin. Let me very clear here, we didn’t grow up together and didn’t even know the other existed until recently. We were on a family vacation, hooked up and now I’m here.
I’m expecting a ton of “sweet home Alabama” comments and people calling me a troll. I came here for advice though because this is fucked and I need some serious advice. Hopefully someone like u/vasiliyzaitev will see this.
I live in the USA and she lives in Mexico, when we met we were on vacation in Cancun. She messaged me 3 weeks ago saying her period was late but I thought she was fucking with me. She messaged me again today saying she took a test that was positive.
Now the timeline does indicate it could be mine but let’s be real, I don’t know what the fuck she does when she’s back home.
How do I handle this the right way? How do I talk to her about abortion/adoption? I know I need to get a DNA test, do I play the part until it’s born then go for it? Do I ask now if it could be anybody else’s? How the fuck do I tell the family?
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