About me:

[Mission] To share the gospel through my novels & to preach the gospel and disciple the believers and non-believers who God will send my way so that they may know him, glorify him and in turn share the gospel

[Stats] 5'11, 70KG, Body fat at about 15%. Bench press max: 100 kg for 3 unassisted reps but who knows now as gyms have been closed for almost a year here due to covid so I turned to calisthenics.

[Reading] RPC sidebar, NMMNG, NMCNG, TRM.

[Finances] I've launched my own business so we'll see what my sales are by the end of the month.

[Spiritual] I pray and chat to God daily. Became a Christian around 2012 but it's only been around about two years since God's started revealing a ton of things to me on the spiritual side of things.

Story time:

So my girlfriend (we'll call her liz) informs me a few days ago that this past Saturday, she wants me to accompany her to a hospital appointment. I tell her that I will. She calls me Sat to remind me not to be late whilst I'm working out so I get to her place at the agreed meeting time. She lives 40 mins away.

Upon arriving, she informs me that her neighbour is chilling with at hers which honestly annoyed me. Nothing against the neighbour, she's a cool gal, but every time I visit the girlfriend, the neighbour is there too and today, I'm not in the mood to socialise. So my girlfriend tells me that she hasn't checked the app to see if the appointment's cancelled or not. She checks it (when she had all day to do it), sees that it's a substitute doctor taking the appointment and chooses to cancel it right there and then.

So I've just come all this way for an appointment that is not happening and my time is valuable. She offers me to grab a glass of wine with her and her friend. I reject it and she asks if I'm annoyed. I tell her that we'll talk later. When it's just me and her, I explain why I'm annoyed, she doesn't understand stating that it's not her fault that she had to cancel. I also told her that from now on, I'd also like it if she could clear her house of people before I show up so I don't have to socialise if I'm not in the mood as I'd do for her. She got ultra defensive and argued that I should accept her friend which isn't my problem here.

We argue about it and I leave. Didn't talk to her all yesterday. Spoke to her in this evening as she wanted me to come over as she felt demons in her house and was scared. Called her, prayed together and asked, "You still pissed about our dispute?" she replies, "Yes. And I won't move on until I get a sincere excuse from you," and I'm here thinking "What? I should be saying that to you."

Now, I know that I lost frame during the argument as I got angry. But unless I'm missing something, there's no way I'm going to say sorry when I'm not the one at fault, I feel that it would set a bad precedent. So, do I ignore her for however long this plays out or try to fix things some other way?