What I’m about to say will most likely be common knowledge to you all, but it just hit me that men and women are very primally, instinctually different especially when it comes to mates.

As a woman, if three men approach me: a 7, an 8 and a 9; my eyes will immediately go to the 9 and I basically won’t even notice the other two. It doesn’t really matter how attractive/smart/fit/funny the 7 and 8 are. They aren’t the best choice so I don’t want them.

Men on the other hand? If they see three women (7, 8 and 9) , they’ll desire ALL of them. It doesn’t matter that one is better than the rest. Women are women and they’re all attractive. There’s always room for more.

There’s no such thing as “room for more” to me. If I meet a guy and see him as the best choice or the best I can get, he will be ALL I want. No other guy will exist to me. If I have the best, why would I want anything less? Yeah there are many other attractive, smart, funny guys but they aren’t him.

I think the phrase “spread your seed” for men describes this contrast. It doesn’t say “give your seed to the best woman”; It says give your seed to the MOST women. For men, it’s all about “most”. Quantity. They want their genes to be passed so it only makes sense for multiple women to take them. They’re fertile basically forever and have no biological clock. So not only do they want the queen bee of the group- they want her less attractive friends, too.

For women, it’s all about “best” or quality. We can only get pregnant 9 months at a time and we aren’t fertile for very long (we have a biological clock). We don’t have time to get pregnant by every high value male so we need the HIGHEST. Or at least the highest we can get.

Just some early morning “realizations” lol. If I’m not allowed to post things like this here, let me know