As you grow older, you witness what use to be your friend circle shrink down. Your boys, one by one, succumb to the LTR they get into. Their priorities change. They start doing things with other couples. When you’re with them, you’re the odd one there without a partner, assuming you’re even invited. LTR people don’t usually like doing things with single people. It’s weird. They do things with other couples.
For those who have run into this dilemma before, how did you face it?
Keep in mind, the advice of “Make new friends with single guys your age.” isn’t as easy applicable to everyone. Not everybody lives in LA or NYC and is nearby a conglomeration of successful single men. In most parts of the west, it seems that most single older men aren’t exactly happy or successful unless they’re rich or famous. They’re usually still single because they’re left behind and are at a terrible phase in life. I don’t want to be friends with these kinds of men.
[–]kclanton80112 points113 points114 points (46 children) | Copy Link
[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev102 points103 points104 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Gamedragon34532 points33 points34 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]kclanton805 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]jackandjill220 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]throwawayandtossout7 points8 points9 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Gamedragon3454 points5 points6 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]throwawayandtossout7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Gamedragon3450 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]TreatYouLikeAQuean4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SAPPHIREAURA0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Gamedragon3450 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]T-C9634 points35 points36 points (12 children) | Copy Link
[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev38 points39 points40 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]trppr7 points8 points9 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]xxx69harambe69xxx-2 points-1 points0 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Snowaey-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]lookiamathrowaway6 points7 points8 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]BurnYourFlag4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]IveSawitall1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]DS_1900-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Lightning140 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]kclanton809 points10 points11 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]lookiamathrowaway6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]kclanton802 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Usmc55234 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]PepinoSF4 points5 points6 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]kclanton801 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]xxx69harambe69xxx0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Seddit bloop dispenserWjourney8 points9 points10 points (11 children) | Copy Link
[–]TurdFerguson8122 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]kclanton800 points1 point2 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]Seddit bloop dispenserWjourney1 point2 points3 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]kclanton806 points7 points8 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]Seddit bloop dispenserWjourney1 point2 points3 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]kclanton803 points4 points5 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]Seddit bloop dispenserWjourney-1 points0 points1 point (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Just-Tumbleweed-91112 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Seddit bloop dispenserWjourney0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]kclanton800 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CashSplash1231 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]WeedWizard694200 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]kclanton800 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Pink_Hanna0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]kclanton800 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]1KirthWGersen35 points36 points37 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Shieldless_One8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]DiskKiller27 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Noodlesoupe210 points11 points12 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Firm-Section-55651 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Noodlesoupe22 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Firm-Section-55650 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]2319Skew6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BlondeHornyElf9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]lookiamathrowaway2 points3 points4 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]lookiamathrowaway4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Qba19941 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]xxx69harambe69xxx0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]btt0699 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ISCOREDwithISCO2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]lookiamathrowaway1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]OttoVonBismark713 points4 points5 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]lookiamathrowaway1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]OttoVonBismark711 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]WIA20XX3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Noodlesoupe22 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Rimefang1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]thesoloronin1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (3 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]lookiamathrowaway1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]armenian_UwUcide9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]scissor_me_timbers001 point2 points3 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]squidjibo10 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]scissor_me_timbers000 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]squidjibo10 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]scissor_me_timbers000 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]hoopingblob0 points1 point2 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]lookiamathrowaway2 points3 points4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]hoopingblob3 points4 points5 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]lookiamathrowaway2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]hoopingblob2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]lookiamathrowaway0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]KurkTheMagnificent0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]DonBullDor0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Pink_Hanna0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]pnceng0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]AceMav210 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Aubrey_D_Graham0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]lookiamathrowaway0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BurnYourFlag-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]xxx69harambe69xxx-1 points0 points1 point (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]________O0O________0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]xxx69harambe69xxx1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SSStringer_Bell-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Just-Tumbleweed-9111-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]opera_rose_hue-12 points-11 points-10 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]lookiamathrowaway6 points7 points8 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]opera_rose_hue1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]lookiamathrowaway2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link